[COLOR red]I am not looking to find casual sex so no One Night Stands and I don't want to find a f*ck buddy.[/COLOR] [B]I am tired of telling my most intimate details to men who didn't take the time to really read my profile. [/B] Don't worry about the sex, it's inevitable! To answer the most frequently asked questions I get: I am here on this site because I have some kinkier tastes in sex and I am looking for that special guy who can accommodate my spicy side and still remember that I am a lady when we are in public. Yes, I really am separated. I left my husband over a year ago because after 16 years of supporting him, his endeavours and seeing to his needs without getting anything back, I decided that it was finally my turn to get something, anything back after all my years of hard work. I did give him an entire year to let me know if he still wanted to remain married but after much discussion we have both come to the realization that we are better off as friends. We have a , still live together, but are strictly platonic and lead separate lives. If you want something more substantial then I'm a good match for you, otherwise good luck in your quest to rack up pussy points with lonely woman who can be bought for the equivalent of an adult-sized happy meal and a couple of drinks at the local chain restaurant with the dead lobster hanging over the door. That is not me. I really want to meet a true gentleman to start out as friends and maybe segue into FWB, and to see if that certain je ne seis quoi is there so we can get to know each other better and see what develops... If you are the kind of man who has the ability to see the brighter side of life and is compassionate, caring, intuitive, faithful, generous, and is willing to get out there and DO things and not just talk about it... a man of action who not only knows what he wants but how to carpe diem. A gentleman's gentleman who can also be a man's man that knows how to be so romantic that he can keep the flames of passion burning bright into our golden years. This could be the start of something really great!

My Ideal Person Neanderthals and knuckle draggers need not waste my time. If your IQ is not higher than the temperature of the room we will not "click".

Really smart guys are my biggest turn-on. Techno-nerds and geeks are hot to me. Looks are not as important as your brains. A friend once told me that the biggest erogenous zone is the one between your ears and I whole-heartedly concur!

If you know how to COMMUNICATE as well as LISTEN then we should have a great time together as we grow together, sharing new experiences both in and out of the bedroom.

Who doesn't love the occasional cuddle session on the couch on a rainy afternoon or breakfast in bed where I'm suddenly dessert is fun. (oh my! how did that happen?) There are a lot of activities that we could do outside of the house which are fun and will help us take full advantage of the Tivo.

I love to travel and would look great hanging on your arm. I have class and fit well in any social situation.

I am always a lady when we are out and about and a wildcat in the bedroom or so I've been told! Find out for yourself!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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