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softassilk2008 41 / F
"NO NSA...."
Hilo, Hawaii, United States
 
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softassilk2008 41/F
Hilo, Hawaii
Introduction
[size 16][color red]Attention![/color] Read my profile [B]BEFORE[/B] contacting me. If you do that we can eliminate a lot of wasted time. [color red]I [B]don't[/B] cam, sext, cybersex, or want to have phone sex. [B]Stop asking[/B]. Don't send me your number, or I will publicly post it on my blog for anyone that does feel like having phone sex (and no guarantee that they are going to be your type). Please don't send me pictures of your cock. I could care less about your shortcomings.[/color] If you do, or ask me for any of these things I will assume you didn't even bother to read my profile and have no real interest in me. Thus I will eliminate you as a potential. I really like to play with toys…..Like legos, and I'm playing with the Death Star set and Luke and Darth Vader are all [I]hmm, whoosh, whoosh[/I], and Han is shooting [I]pew, pew[/I], and Chewie is like ripping peoples arms off and shit. Ok, that was a joke, but I really do like legos. And Star Wars. And anything in the science fiction genre. I am so at a point in my life where I can say with all honesty that I am ready to be adored and worshipped. Feel free to put me up on that pedestal, I won't resist;). I am prepared to accept all the pampering and spoiling that I am due, being female and all (and that I have great boobs). I suggest to all the ladies out there that you too, should be comfortable with being put onto an ivory, with gold trimming, pedestal and lusted after from below. After all, we were the ones gifted with magnificent and awesome pussies. Props to you if you have stuck it out so far and made it to the grand description of moi. Drumroll please.....I'm a hideous shut in. No, not really. I'm decent looking. Comfortable enough with myself and my looks that I spend a lot of time naked, in front of other people even. Let's see, I'm white (that's important to know, I know), brunette (and only slightly sun fried - just the ends feel like straw), good looking (well I've been called it once or twice). Now for the body...I'm a bigger girl, curvy and lush. Big bottom girl, with a decent rack....get it? Don't bother contacting me if you aren't into that. You can read my profile so you can also see my pictures, don't contact me if I'm not your type. I like to party. I love sex, and lot's of it. I fucking like to get drunk...and I smoke huge amounts of greenery. I love it!!! I cruise the beach a lot. I am awesome in bed (jeez it's a joke, don't bother sending me hate mail). I truly don't think that good sex depends on the size of the guys cock. It starts with people that are free and comfortable being able to let go and enjoy themselves. On a lighter side, oops, I mean darker side - I like pain. I am submissive in nature. I am interested in any sub training information that anyone can offer. I am willing to try a lot, or at least entertain the idea of it. If you have specific questions about this feel free to ask, but I will probably only explain it to people that I feel are seriously interested as this is a deeply intricate and intimate part of me. I am not afraid of sharing, I just want to share with people that can appreciate what it means to delve into this part of me. I do try to respond to all your emails, but it can be a daunting challenge sometimes. My advice to everyone out there, especially the ones that wonder why we never respond is this: There are way more guys than ladies here, and we get [B]A LOT[/B] of emails. So put your best foot forward and make a great impression. I've been around this site for years. Some of you know me perally, some of you know me from when I used to blog, and some of you have perused my photos on a daily basis. Because of my longevity on this site I will not tolerate any crap from anyone. I will simply block you and any new accounts you create. This doesn't make me a bitch, just someone who knows my own value and won't waste my time. I am here to meet new friends….and for all of you that think this is just a sex site, you are so very wrong and should have read up more about the site. I am not interested in casual sex….if you want NSA then move on. I am not interested in couples at the moment either….for a whole slew of reas, notwithstanding that I almost all the weird, pushy, horrible people I have meant through this site have been either one, or both parts of couples.

My Ideal Person The most important thing about a lover is that I connect with them on some way. But really, I am not looking for that at the moment. Sex is nice, but I'd rather find a good friend that also is a fabulous lover.

Be funny, be passionate, be daring. Be yourself, don't lie. This is a fantasy playground, so play out your fantasies...don't make your life the fantasy.

I'm not into cheaters.

Please be at a secure point in your life. Healthy and sane are important to me.

Obviously I took the time to write out a profile that describes me. I spent 15 minutes making sure that I will meet the kind of people that I would sleep with. If you didn't then you are barking up the wrong tree, this nut won't crack for you, comprende?

Some things that really put me off of a guy are:

1) Unsolicited, overly descriptive fantasies of what they would like to do to me in my inbox. I don't know you, why on earth would you say that shit to me?

2) A bunch of photos of your dick, and nothing else. Or your dick buried in some orifice…and you can only see like a half inch of your cock sticking out. So unappealing, and really a huge turn off. Oh, and any pictures where I can't figure out what I am looking at. Those are the worst. Why send them or post that?

3) Testimonials that are too graphic or weird. If you have them up I have to question what type of person you are. I don't want to know how many women you've fucked on the site, or anything about what you have done with them. Now that isn't the same as a pleasant and respectful testimonial about how one was punctual, or gentlemanly. Those are a whole different vein altogether and can go a long way to showing that you are a legitimate person here with class.

4) If your profile is bare bones. Why would you pay to come to this site and not make the most of your money? Use the space you are given to tell us about yourself. Use your photos to show us who you are.

5) If you are whiny in your profile. No one wants to hear about how you don't like women, your ex is a bitch, and how we all are out to get you. Wake up call…you will never get a response with that. Or if you are complaining about how the women here aren't real. Trust me there are real women here, we are the ones with photos that look like real people. And if you ever want a quick education on the percentages on this site, simply click the browse by location section and check out how many men are looking for women in your area vs. how many women are looking for men. Do the math and figure it out. We can't possibly meet demand, and unless you take the time to make your profile interesting/spectacular/stand out/awesome then we will just go for the ones that do bother to. Hey, no one said life was fair.

6) If I send a guy a "No thank you email" and he uses that opportunity to show what a worthless jerk he is by sending me hate mail instead of a respectful answer. Hey, I know rejection is hard, but there is a reason so many women don't bother saying "no thank you." It's because we have been so rudely treated, so many times, that we don't want to bother.

7) If you are lying. After a certain point I got really good at picking up on the liars, and the cheaters. I am just not interested in someone that I cannot trust.


Avoid these pitfalls and you'll be much better off.

Now for all of you that think I am being too picky, well so what if I am? Maybe you should try it yourself.

And for those of you that read my profile, all they way to the end, you are cool baby

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Heart, Stabbing Westward, Matchbox 20

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Karl Urban, he has the sexiest eyes and neck, so strong.
Frankly he needs to do more half naked movies like Pathfinder.
Charlize Theron, she is a classic beauty, and those green
eyes make her gorgeous.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 41 / female
  • Hilo, Hawaii, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: January 3, 1983
Hometown: Everett, Washington, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 5 in / 165-167 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: Some college
Occupation: Permie
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Maybe
Bra Size: 42 / 95 Above DD / E
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: None