[COLOR blue][U] _______General Information________ [/U][/COLOR] I tend to question the why of things quite often. I don't follow social mores simply because that's the way things have always been. If there's not a good reason for something, I don't do it. The quickest way to alienate me is to lie to me. I'd much rather someone tell me "I'd rather not say" or something similar than tell a 'white' lie. I'm content with who I am and where I'm at, but my vocation doesn't let me interact all that much with the public. As a result, I find myself in somewhat of an awkward situation when it comes to meeting women. I loathe the bar scene and hitting on ladies when they're at work is just plain rude to me. So that's why I'm here. I've been fortunate enough to find an occupation which I'm passionate about and lets me make my own schedule. I relish freedom and the simple things in life much more than amassing vast quantities of material goods. I believe that leading a blissful, low stress lifestyle is more fulfilling than running a rat race to see who can get the most cheese. If you'd like to get a sense of how I think day to day, peruse my blog ([blog sadock_76]). There's a 'sticky' blog at the top that enumerates many of the lessons I've learned throughout my life if you care about the 'deeper' me. Feel free to ask me anything; I'm all about open and honest communication. [COLOR green][U] ____________Sexually____________ [/U][/COLOR] It excites me to give a woman pleasure, particularly if she knows how to express herself in bed. The auditory feedback of an authentic shriek or moan when I'm doing a good job acts as a feedback loop and makes me into more of an animal. I [U]want[/U] to get you off and make you scream! The louder the better! Then do it [I]again[/I]....... I really *do* get off on my partner's orgasms, so the more feedback you give me on how to make you come harder, the better the experience will be for [B]both[/B] of us! I'm into long play sessions, not quickies. I don't always climax, but I'm okay with that as long as I'm able to maximize my partner's experience. When I do come, I'm quite uninhibited and vocal (ie loud). I do have a vasectomy so pregnancy is a non-factor, but I use condoms religiously nonetheless. I operate under the assumption that everyone is infected, which makes it safer for the entire community. If this is a problem for you, don't bother contacting me. [COLOR indigo][U] ______What I'm Looking For_______ [/U][/COLOR] I'm seeking a woman whom I can play with in a friends with benefits capacity. We all have basic sexual needs and it's *much* more fun to fulfill them with a partner than to take care of them myself. I want to find a lady who is willing to explore her carnal lusts unabashedly with me. I am searching for someone who would like to frolic on a regular basis. The human body is a miraculous wonder of sensation that needs two to properly discover its depths. I'd [B]love[/B] to meet a partner to share my life with, but I'm also realistic about it. This is an adult dating site, so the chances of that happening here are extraordinarily slim. If it happens, fabulous, but I'm not holding my breath. [COLOR firebrick][B]I am not looking for people to have one night stands with, although I recognize it may happen unintentionally since we can't predict how good our chemistry will be until after we've played together. The best you can do is make an educated guess. So, please, if all you're looking for is a quick fuck, move along to the next profile.[/B][/COLOR] You are an intelligent, sexy woman who is aware of how valuable you are. You are someone I can get together with and celebrate life, not bitch about it all the time. You have an excellent sense of humor and a highly refined wit. I relish laughing and admiring the mirth in life's absurdities. You take care of [I]both[/I] your body and your mind. You know how to think for yourself and question things. Above all, you know the value of open and honest communication with your partner. Any interaction without communication is doomed to failure, or, at the very least, superfluous drama. I'm [U]not[/U] looking for drama. I go to theaters and watch films for that ;) [U][COLOR chocolate] ____Communication Preferences_____ [/COLOR][/U] I want to be safe but I hate to waste time. Openness is a big thing with me. If you want to play hide and seek, I'm not the guy for you. I like to exchange a few emails and then switch to the phone until we're comfortable enough to meet in person. You won't find me in any of the chat rooms here. Instant messaging is a poor substitute for actually talking to someone. For those who are shy but still interested, put me on your hot list. I'll let you know whether the feeling is mutual, assuming you don't view profiles anonymously. [U][I]Thank You[/I][/U] for reading my whole profile!

My Ideal Person See "What I'm Looking For" section above.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Lords of Acid, Gravity Kills, Voodou

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Blindfolds, Massage, Willingness to experiment

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really. I find many of them attractive, but I like to
stick to reality most of the time.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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