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rm_cactusbix 46 / M
"50 Shades Of Ray"
Oldsmar, Florida, United States
 
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rm_cactusbix 46/M
Oldsmar, Florida
Introduction
That's me. Ray. Although my middle name is Christian. Yes, really. Anyway, I'm new to Florida and I suck at meeting people. Especially the of freaky people I'm most comfortable with. You can't exactly walk into a bar or nightclub and ask a complete stranger, "So, have you ever been tied up and spanked on the ass? I do like to watch cams. I like to go on cam. I like to talk dirty. I like submissive women who get off from being smacked on the ass. I also like some even more hardcore bdsm stuff but if you want to know more, you have to email me. Yes, ladies, I've read Fifty Shades of Grey. Although I was into the scene way before that book became a thing. But if you've read it and think maybe you'd enjoy spending some time in MY Red Room of Pain, hit me up. No pun intended. (And to answer a couple messages, it's not actually red. More like a creamy mauve.)

My Ideal Person The kinkier the better. I'm open to talking about anything, even regular non-sexual topics, once we become friends. I'm not a one-track mind. Much like sushi or anal sex, once you get used to me, you'll really really like me. So send me a message and let's see whose mind is dirtier!

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
She comes to me at night, dressed in her sexiest outfit.
I open the door, saying nothing. She submits to a blindfold
and is led to the bedroom. Again, no words are exchanged.
<br><br>
Slowly, she is tied to the bed, her arms and legs stretched
tightly away from her body. Ropes are tied around her wrists
and the ends are tied to the headboard of the bed. Her ankles
also have a rope tied to them, one to each post, making it
impossible for her to close myself. <br><br>
I caress her body, but not her pussy or tits. I spend a lot
of time doing this, arousing her until she begs for release,
for me to touch to her intimate areas. Then I bring out the
ice, teasing her nipples with the cube. When the cold becomes
too much for her to bear, I bring out the candles. Dripping
wax warms her nicely as the dueling sensations only add
to her pent up desire. <br><br>
I take my own pleasure first. I place my cock and balls near
her head, daring her to masturbating me with her mouth.
I tell her she must satisfy me before she is given her own
satisfaction. <br><br>
I allow her to pleasure me but do not come. When she has done
a sufficient job, I return the favor by burying my head between
her outstretched legs. Again, I tease her with my tongue,
taunting her wet snatch but refusing to give it full release.
I continue this cruelty until she's begging for my
cock to release her pent up horniness. <br><br>
Finally, I climb between her legs and begin to thrust into
her over and over again. As her desire builds, I hold my cock
inside her, ordering her me thrust back against me. In her
pitiful tied state, she must moan and struggle, writhing
her hips desperately to feel the pleasure of my cock. When
frustration has set in, I resume thrusting. We continue
this game a few times until the poor pitiful girl is soaked
with desire. Finally, I ride her abandon until we're
both spent from orgasmic delight. <br><br>
Finally, I kiss her softly on her lips before walking away,
leaving her in an exhausted heap, her pussy still glistening
and leaking from our night of passion.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, Feet/toes, Enemad

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I've honestly never had a celebrity sex dream. But
I have dreamed about comic book characters, particularly
Wonder Woman, Supergirl, and Catwoman. Sue me, I read comics.
Anyway, I guess what turns me on is seeing otherwise powerful
women willingly submit to my dreams and desires.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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Information
  • 46 / male
  • Oldsmar, Florida, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight
Looking For:  Women
Birthdate: April 29, 1977
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 4 in / 162-165 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Male Endowment: Average/Thin
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Black
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: