Really, there's not much to tell. But here's the basics: First off, we've got our big ugly mugs up there in our profile, because we are officially out of the closet. We're grown adults, and as such, we find it exciting to explore our own boundaries, and perhaps push those limits. So, friends, family, acquaintances - this is who we are. We have NOTHING to hide, from each other, or from society. We have no secrets, we are exactly who we say we are and who we present ourselves to be. We are discreet when it comes to other peoples' information, and the private lives of who we meet but as for us, perally - we're living our lives for ourselves, by [B]our[/B] standards, not by the standards, morals or expectations of others or how they think we should live. That said, we are not bedroom surfers. We believe that sexuality and sensuality is something to be discovered, not announced. Thus, we aren't the "Hi, we're Dick and Jane, let's screw!" types. We're drawn to those with some patience, who get as much out of the journey as the destination. [COLOR blue]Him: 7 feet tall, 230 pounds, tattooed, and a smattering of piercings. Involved with the lifestyle on and off over the past several years, mostly as a curious observer. Some of my best friends are folks I have met on this website, or others like it. It also happens that I am a professional photographer - a REAL one, with real equipment and experience, not some guy with a camera looking to oogle naked people. I actually have a website, and several rather extensive online and printed portfolios, tearsheets and references. I'm not looking to participate, hook up, show you my bits or otherwise - I'm just here looking to chat, meet other like minded people (To wit, intelligent, artistic, adventurous people who are quick to laugh and do more than sit behind a computer all day. There's a HUGE, amazing world out there - go explore it! I have become involved with the most amazing woman I've ever known, who has heard many, many stories about the experiences of people within the lifestyle, and is very curious about what it's all about. She'd like to attend a few A-F-F gatherings Munches, meets, etc) and is looking forward to meeting a few veteran lifestylers, and learning more about the culture. [/COLOR] [COLOR crim]Her: 6', tomboy, blonde hair, blue eyes, LOVE sex and am a squirter - sometimes a gusher! I am one of those rare, non-judgemental people who enjoys trying new and exciting things. So far these have included exploring my new island home (yep I'm a transplanted prairie girl) with kayaking, snorkeling and hiking/biking and traveling. I love meeting new people who can expose me to new experiences and that has made meeting and falling in love with him the best adventure of my life. I'm happy with what we have, but always looking for new spices and flavors to enhance my life.[/COLOR] Oh yeah, one other thing - If we've winked at you, it's because we either liked your photos or your profile - probably both. So don't take it peral, it just means we want to meet you. No expectations, just grab coffee and see where it goes, because your profile strikes us BOTH as that of people we'd like to get to know. Feel free to say hello back, and you just might be surprised at what results

My Ideal Person Ideally, we'd be happy to meet people who are open minded, easy to get along with, and don't live the lifestyle 24/7, but vacation there once in awhile.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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