ok soo time to update this page. apparently has been awhile since i have (and since ive activly been on the site) i am 33, father of 2, i am financially secure and stable in my life, even have my own nest egg stashed away which is uncommen in these hard times. i am primarly looking for someone who has the same goals and lfe expectations as i do, happiness ltr and relationship that actualy works for once. with that said, i understand that tnot everyone is looking for that. so i am ok with things as long as ->honest (if your attached say so, dont need anyone showing up at my door affecting my familys safety) ->if you are attached, thats fine as long as either A ur partner joins or B partners is fully aware and ok with ->if all you want is no strings wild sex that will shock you with not only sensually but emotionally, good, just say so don't use emotions to get to you objective (im a sweetheart at heart) ->cuddling. this is something i love and enjoy immensly, BUT something i consider sacrosanct, i wont just 'cuddle with anyone' (kinda odd to find on a sex site huh?) to me cuddling is a sign of affection and in turn emotion. i have no problem with either just as long as the lines are clear cut. ->respect. i dont mean this in the olde time way of as i am a man so u should respect me regardless of if im right or wrong, but in the mutual respect of-- if ur taling/seeing/sleeping with other people just say so. (this is just a convient compari) i want to know if the per i am with (sleeping with or other wise) has my safety in mind as well as their own, i am diesease free and plan on staying that way. so ultimatly to the short an curlys (hopely not since i prefer shaved and i am as well) just be honest with me and it could be anything. I may just be some guy that you chat with on the internet that makes or life better. or i may be a simple lover who fills the need that you have in life, or smooths over that rough spot of life that has you lost, ot maybe, just maybe i'll be that perfect guy. i can hope L) good day all :)

My Ideal Person an wonderful woman, for whatever may happen lets talk sometime and see.....I am open for suggestions and what happens happens. Someone who is open to a relationship if things are right

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies"

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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