We are a attractive couple, neither of which look our age, and we enjoy having fun. We are safe, but with kinks.

My Ideal Person We are a couple in Abbotsford looking for a female for both friendship and NSA fun. We appear to be a vanilla couple in public, but I love to submit to his control behind close doors (and in public when we don't know anyone!). Ours is not necessarily the typical dom/sub relationship, however, as we do not feel you have to follow other people's rules when you are in the bedroom. The ideal third for us would be someone that enjoys a BBQ, going out for a walk, or sitting on our back patio having a drink; and then would like to occasionally submit along side her. Obviously you should have a high sex drive and a kinky side; but that should not be the only thing you are seeking.

We are just turning 40, but are normally mistaken for younger. Our children are grown and out of the house. You should be between the ages of about 30 to 50. We may consider someone outside that age range, but we are looking for the type of person that is youthful in looks and spirit, but mature in their decision making and conversation. We are normal people with imperfections, but we do consider ourselves attractive. We certainly would understand if there is no attraction on your part toward us, and we hope you understand that there must be attraction on our end toward you. Everyone's tastes are different.

We are both non-smokers and do not use drugs, and you should do the same. You should be disease free and discrete, just as we are. We have goals in life, and hope you do so too. In order to accomplish our goals we do not party, shop, or otherwise spend our money frivolously. Instead, we indulge heavily in sexual adventures as our form of recreation. We are fun people, but if you are looking for "sugar parents" or want to head out on the town every time we see each other, please look elsewhere.

Out of the public eye we enjoy many erotic and exotic "kinks", and you should have an open mind and at least a desire to try new things. Rather than seeking a bunch of one time flings, we hope to find someone that we can have a good friends with benefits relationship. In this way we hope all can enjoy and heavily explore our erotic sides without the worries that multiple partners can carry today. All play would be safe and consensual, and we are not into wet fetishes or pain, though spanking is a different story!

If you are a bi-sexual that would like to have the benefits of a NSA friendship with both sexes, please send us a message. We would like to exchange pictures and then perhaps meet in a neutral spot. Should we get a along well, the next few meetings would likely just be with the female half in order that we can get to know each other to see both if we click as friends and in the bedroom before he joins us.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Fisting

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