When I go out, usually some friends and I hang out together and laugh for a few hours. Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. The philosophy I live by is always keep striving. Goals are checkpoints, not finish lines. In my free time I like to go to concerts. I get along best with people who are willing to push the envelope in bed and out of it. I want to try all the things I've always wanted to do. I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out. If you contact me please give me some time to reply as I get a lot of mail. I look forward to hearing from you soon.