We prefer meeting people in the Albany/Salem area, but travel is possible for the right people. We're a very simple, down-to-earth couple, been together for almost 5 years, recently married (summer 2006). We're both clean and attractive, if not in the best physical shape in the world. Both of us are carrying a few extra pounds, but nothing too bad. She works full time and he is a full time student, with a fairly heavy class load during the term. Her days off change frequently, so it's usually necessary to plan a little bit ahead for time out, although the less travel time there is, the easier it is to plan. Because of our sometimes limited time to devote to swinging, we're looking for quality over quantity in respect to the couples we spend time with. We'd rather spend a complete evening with a couple, and have the time to do everything thoroughly and enjoyably, from conversation to sex. (Wham, bam, thank you maam has it's place, but usually not in the first meeting :)

My Ideal Person We're looking for couples to explore group-sex and swinging/swapping situations with. We're very attached to each other, so we definitely only play together, but still want to explore pushing our sexual boundaries with others. We've had some experience with same-room, soft-swap, and full-swap, and enjoyed it all. Kat would like to explore the bi experience more (it's still new to her, although she has some bi-experience now), although that is by no means a requirement. He is definitely straight but by no means squeamish about incidental contact in a group situation.

We're looking for clean couples in the 21-40 year old range, possible a little older depending on personality and appearance. Non-smokers only please. The occasional cigar or pipe is ok, but no cigarettes, it's a major turn off for both of us.

We prefer to meet at least once before playing, giving everyone time to reflect and make sure all 4 people are interested in each other, although that is by no means a hard and fast rule. If you are looking for instant gratification and a hotel room in less than an hour, you should probably look elsewhere, as we prefer to take our time in everything, which is a good thing when it gets down to the fun part

We're not really interested in just swapping pictures or chatting forever. While we are pretty patient in real life, the point of being on the site after all is meeting new people, keying in on the meeting part. If things don't click from either side that's fine, but we're more interested in meeting face-to-face than endless talking via IM or email.

And please, NO single males.