Hi, I'm Jesse. I'm 39, cis male, polygynosexual with pansexual tendencies (or I suppose you could say queer, though I'm uncomfortable with the word, plus it's not very specific). I'm disabled and not able to get out of the house very much, which makes it really difficult to meet people. I'm also pretty chubby and extremely shy, which makes it even harder. Which is why I'm on this site. My preference is for a closed-group polyamorous relationship, but I'm open to other forms, including monogamy, as well. I like Asian food, Asian movies, anime, video games, and electronic music, and I'm looking for someone with similar tastes. I'm a musician and photographer, and I'm also looking for models to practice photographing, though I'd prefer to also be sleeping with most of them.

My Ideal Person I'm only interested in local people, around Victoria or Sooke BC. I live in Sooke, and it's pretty hard for me to get anywhere, but Sooke's a pretty small place, with a very limited dating pool.

Women: I'm interested in cis women, trans women, intersex women, and feminine non-binary people. Ideally, I''d like at least 2 cis women, and at least 3 non-op trans women (one with a big penis when erect, one with a small penis when erect, and one who can't get erections due to HRT, but still likes her penis), in addition to various others. I'm not picky about ethnicity or body type (though I do have preferences), but I do tend to be attracted to Asian and black women the most, and I like short women best. I prefer fat women over slender women, and fit to chubby women over fat women, but there are some women of all body types I like. I prefer women who are at least sexually interested in other women, as I'd like to share most or all of my partners with each other.

Men: I'm not interested in men romantically at all, only sexually (though that includes cuddling). I'm rarely attracted to men at all, but if I am attracted to a guy, I don't care whether he's cis, trans, intersex, genderqueer. Similarly if I'm not attracted to a guy, it also doesn't matter (though I'm slightly more likely to be willing to have sex with a guy I'm not attracted to if he has a vagina). I'm attracted tp 4 specific types of guys. In descending order of preference:
Type 1: Guys who look like cute girls, whether intentionally or due to genetics (or due to being a closet or femme trans man).
Type 2: Cute, young, muscular black guys, with a shaved head and body.
Type 3: Cute, young, slender Asian guys.
Type 4: Cute, young, slender black guys.
Currently I'm mostly craving type 3s, but in the long run, I'd like at least 2 type 3 cis guys, plus one cis guy of each of the other types, along with at least one trans guy, any type but preferably type 2.

Agender and androgynous people: I'm not sure if I'm romantically interested or not, but I'd rather try it and find out. I'm mostly interested in feminine-presenting or appearing people, but there are very androgynous people I do find attractive.

Couples: I would very much like to connect with some couples for long term relationships. I'm mainly interested in 3 types, though I'm open to others as well:
1. I'd like one or more couples consisting of 2 or more cute young guys, at least 2 of them cis, and preferably all bottoms.
2. One or more couples consisting of a cute young Chinese or Vietnamese guy, who loves receiving anal, oral and handjobs, and his wife, who loves cum, both cis. Ideally, they want kids but he's infertile.
3. One or more couples consisting of 2 or more women, at least 1 of them cis. Again, ideally they want kids, but need a sperm donor. I have a preggo fetish and want to sleep with pregnant women, plus I want kids but don't want the responsibility, or especially the financial responsibility, of being a full-time parent. So I want to have kids with someone else's wife (or husband, if he's trans).

Models: I'm looking for models to practice photographing, clothed, nude (including porn), and everything in between. As mentioned above I'd prefer to also be sleeping with them, however I take a professional approach to my photography. No pay unless I make money from the person, it's just for fun and exchange of services. I'm interested in alt models, plus-size models, transgender models. When it comes to men, I'm looking for the same types as above, plus I also want a dark young southern European, Romany, or Turkish man mainly for a specific photoshoot I might eventually get done.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Acen, DJ DMS, Hashim, Hashim Al-Alawi, Man Parrish, Hyper
On Experience, Infected Mushroom, Nostrum

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Massage, Cum play, creampie, facials etc

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to have a committed poly relationship, whether
roman

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Donovan Bailey (1996 Olympic 100m and 4x100m Relay Gold
medalist). He's the standard by which I measure all
men, although he's too old for my tastes. Nong Thoom
(1998 Thai National muay thai (Thai kickboxing) champion,
and the subject of the 2003 film biography Beautiful Boxer).
She's beautiful, and I admire her work to improve conditions for transgender people in Thailand. She's
also one of my #1 crushes. Honey Dijon (my favourite DJ, a house DJ from NYC, and a trans woman).
I have a huge crush on her. <br><br> A few of my other major crushes are also celebrities, but
I've never fantasized about most of them sexually;
my interest in them is romantic in nature. Coincidentally,
all 6 of my major crushes who are celebrity crushes are transgender.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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