Hello, and thanks for stopping by... My work is my main focus and that doesn't leave a lot of time to get out and have fun. So, to avoid becoming the proverbial dull boy, I'm on here to meet like minded people and have a great time. Although I'm on here looking for NSA fun, I want more than just a quickie. Chemistry is very important to me. Without it, we're just going through the motions. That reduces things to merely a mechanical act, and that's about as satisfying as it sounds. However, with the proper chemistry, things are taken to another level. Physical, intellectual and emotional compatibility blend together, and that's where you'll find ecstasy... Enjoying a good laugh together is also a big plus. Same goes for being communicative. Discretion is important to me, and I make sure to do the same for my partners. Emotional and intellectual maturity and confidence are important, as well. I really don't like or want any "drama," that defeats the purpose of why we're here. Don't misunderstand this as needing to be serious and "stuffy," that's no fun. Neither is living an episode of Jerry Springer...(if you're contacting me as a couple, please make sure your relationship is ready to bring another per into the bedroom.) I enjoy training and like to think that I do a good job in the grooming department. So far, no one has regretted being out in public with me. ;p I love having fun and "exploring." You never know what you'll find ;) I honestly enjoy foreplay a lot. Taking our time allows us to savor the moment... I'm open to trying a lot of things. I love to pleasure my partner and watch her lose herself in the moment. You may have picked up that I'm fairly outgoing and comfortable in my skin. Don't let that scare you off if you're shy. As long as you're willing to open up, I'm more than willing to be patient and take our time. On the flip side, if you prefer things to be a little more "energetic," I'm right there with you. There aren't too many things as exciting as tearing each other's clothes off and getting to it before the front door has had a chance to close... I prefer to talk over MSN to make sure it makes sense to meet up. Sharing photos at that point is a good idea. While physical attraction is a big part of this, it's only part of the picture. That's why chatting real time helps to see if we connect on other levels. With that being said, I'm not into prolonged emails or IMing each other. Once we meet up, we'll see where it goes from there ;)

My Ideal Person I'm looking for easy going, no pressure NSA FWB. (Aren't we all ;p )

Having fun, enjoying a great conversation and each other's company goes a long way in making the fun stuff really fun

A willingness to explore and enjoy the adventure is also a big plus.

Maturity (at the right times), discretion and no drama are important to me.

Someone who understands that my work is my main focus, so I'm not always available (I'm really not avoiding you).

I prefer people who take care of themselves. You don't need to be a fanatic about it or look like you're airbrushed. I like athletic, and really enjoy curves where they should be on a woman. So, a few extra pounds is not a problem. Petite/slim and average are great, too.

I don't drink much, and I'd prefer that the people I'm with are capable of recalling our night together the next day. At the same time, a drink or two to help you relax is not a problem.

Pretty sure this is an unwritten rule, but just in case - being disease free is important, REALLY important.

Another biggie, no sneaks or cheaters. Please be upfront about your situation. If your boyfriend or husband doesn't know or approve of what you're doing, no offense, but I'm not going to be the one you'll be doing it with.

Other than that, just be real. It makes life a lot easier

Looking forward to talking, and hopefully more...