WEIRD UPDATE: My account here at AFF was one of the compromised profiles after the hack of AFF's servers. AFF ended up forcing me to change my username and password for security reas to prevent anyone from pretending to be me. What really sucks is that my contacts here don't know how to find me; I've got a LOT of messages to write! So NittanyLionPa is dead; long live NittanyLion1984! First of all, thanks for clicking on me to find out who I am. I'm 54 but I'm young at heart (if you don't mind "young" meaning someone who misses the '70s and '80s). I discovered in 2006 that I'm HIV positive and I took myself out of the dating game for way too long to dwell on my status. I'm now married to a great guy who, like me, loves sex and so we play well with others, separately and as a team. I'm a college graduate (again!) who is looking forward to the future. I'm politically liberal which could lead to some interesting discussions. I'm a bisexual man, too much in love with men and women to give up either gender. While I am a news junkie and a reader (and even sometimes listen to classical music when I'm alone, but prefer classic rock), I'm not the sophisticated type. A fun relaxing evening for me is to go to or rent a movie, or go bowling, or visit a favorite sports bar to watch Monday Night Football. I just bought a motorcycle and I'm looking forward to spending long weekends on the back roads and highways. I'm pretty candid when dealing with other people and I enjoy people who are guileless. In the spirit of candidness I should say I'm not a "hunk"--5'10", 255 lbs, with a spare tire--so if your first priority is a Greek god I can't be that. But if you like someone who will take the time to listen to your stories, consider your opinions, share a beer or three, and take the time to worship your body/bodies in the bedroom, I may be for you. UPDATE: I've had a steady boyfriend since 2011. He's also a bear such as myself and we've recently moved in together. We play together or separately. I'm more bi, he's more gay, but we're both nice guys. UPDATED UPDATE: As of June 2015, the boyfriend referenced above is no longer my boyfriend--he's my husband. Thanks goodness the 21st century finally got here. So when I'm naked I'm still wearing something: a wedding ring.

My Ideal Person I mentioned a lot of this in the previous paragraph but I'm looking for either a man or woman (or group, as long as the man/men are gay/bi) who are curious enough in life to keep up with it, to know what's going on in the world and interested enough to form some opinions and share them. While I love sex (who doesn't?), knowing I'm making an intellectual and/or social connection makes any sex more complete, more exciting, and makes me look forward to seeing/hearing/touching more. I'm not a supermodel so you don't have to be either (although *being* a supermodel won't disqualify you). As far as specific details go: I'm a non-smoker and so would prefer other non-smokers. I haven't tried any illegal recreational drugs and I don't plan on starting now. As far as sex is concerned, I'm a versatile bi male who enjoys both topping and bottoming. I love group fun, especially with both men and women involved. I'm both vanilla and passionate--I take the time to touch, to nibble, to help a lover enjoy but there are a few things that turn me off. I'm not into the watersports or BD/SM/pain. I love sex as a coming together of equals who are finding satisfaction by pleasing each other. Yes, this is corny for a sex ad, but that's how I feel.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
David Bowie, ZZ Top, Supertramp, Billy Joel, Queen, Leon
Redbone. I DARE you to find a pattern.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Threesomes, Massage, Other than being bi and enjoying groups, I'm rathervanilla.
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What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I used to have a thing for Tom Selleck although his politics
would get in the way today. The same goes for Bo Derek. (Yes,
I'd have a hard time sleeping with a conservative.)
I also wanted Harrison Ford for no particular reason other
than thinking he was handsome. Sybill Danning was pretty
damn hot. And my favorite lady from adult films: Angel Kelly.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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