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A blog? Really?
Posted:Aug 15, 2016 6:59 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2016 7:27 am
so I was asked if my writings were true or a work of fiction...

I'll never say...

If you see yourself in my writings then perhaps they are true?

I have no rhyme or reason or theme to my entries...

I just write what I write...

Sometimes from the heart...but mostly from my mind... as crazy as it is...

so don't read anything more into what I say...

because perhaps it is fiction?

I welcome any and all comments... but please comment with love... even if you disagree there's no need to be uncivilized.

so enjoy the ride into my heart and mind... and sometimes even I

Never Thought of That.
Delay in Comment Responses
Posted:Jun 2, 2017 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2018 10:53 pm

When I was born, my mom told me I was special...

I always thought it was a good thing until I came here...

A blog compadre mentioned to me that my blog responses/ comments took forever to post...

At first, I thought he was koo-koo... I mean everyone's response posted in a timely manner, so I chalked it up to a one-time deal... you know... glitch city here.

Then another compadre mentioned the same thing to me so I started to investigate...

Lo and behold they were both right... my responses/comments were taking upwards of three hours to post.

Why me? Because I'm special? I mean, everyone else's comments post pretty much immediately.

Well, I decided to contact India Customer Service and you guessed it, didn't have an answer.

So my next step was to post my issue on the support blog... and this was their response... Mind you... I didn't expect a real answer but just wanted to share and apologize in advance for the delay in my responses...
SiteSupport > Site Problems, Bug reports, Customer Feedback and Suggestions – May 2017 (4/30/2017 6:44 pm)

Quoting papis_baby_girl:
is there a reason why my replies to blog posts are delayed?

There are two posters that have told me that they never see my responses until much later than when I've posted...

I just responded to someone's post and I see it when I'm signed on. I created another profile and signed on as that profile, accessed that blog post and I don't see my post.

what is going on here?

Dear papis_baby_girl

Thank you for taking the time to post to our blog. All user-created content that is posted on Japanese lover.net must first be reviewed and approved by our compliance team. Sometimes, during peak hours, this process can take a while. It should never take longer than a day though, so please let us know if your content is not posted in 24 hours.

Warm Regards,
So yeah... looks like everything I post, whether benign or controversial is delayed due to approval from compliance team...

and I mean everything... guess I'm on the 'special' list.
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Even Chris Watts can pick up...........
Posted:Dec 17, 2018 6:36 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2018 3:07 pm

............from behind bars...

so why can't you?

I just read an article how convicted murderer of his wife, unborn son, and two daughters is getting major poon tang mail.

For those who need a refresher, Chris Watts from Colorado was this married man, and father of two born, one not born yet children. He decided it was easier to murder his expecting wife and two daughters rather than divorce them for another woman.

He strangled and buried his wife in a shallow grave, and he smothered both his girls and dumped their bodies in a huge vat of crude oil. His daughter Bella actually struggled while he was extinguishing her short life.

He finally pled guilty and is serving life.

But that hasn't stopped women from writing him in prison letting him know that 'they share a connection', 'they think he's innocent', 'he needs a friend', that he's really a good guy'.

Granted this is nothing new... you always get these prison groupies. But the heinousness of this crime really just blows my mind that women...any woman, would actually feel for this guy...

is he good looking...sure... but quit thinking with your twat and remember what the fuck he did.

So this guy can potentially score major strange and he's a murderer and in prision....

so what's your excuse?
too busy concentrating on the fakes?
sending too many dick pics?
trying to entice women by telling them to 'suck your cock' or that you want to lick their pussy'?

He doesn't even have to do anything and he's successful...
A young Robert Redford....
Posted:Dec 17, 2018 5:27 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2018 10:16 am

... has joined our humble site!!



he doesn't look like this anymore...


what else is new?

I mean how many profiles have we come across that the pic doesn't match the person...

so nothing new there...


Robert Redford...

he's Hollywood Royalty...

wonder if I have a chance?

Probably not though... I mean... I'm just me from Murrieta, who is employed, owns her house, owns two cars, has a nice retirement savings, even has money in the bank...and and and... is self-sufficient so I don't 'need him', but I want him...

I hope he's not looking for 'no drama'... we all know what that is code for...

wish me luck Blogland!!
Sexurday Night
Posted:Dec 8, 2018 3:38 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2018 6:41 am

Hooty Hoo...

It's Sexurday Night!!

who all is sexin' tonight?

either with someone new?

or someone old... I mean existing...

or who all is grabbing a bottle of wine/tequila/ vodka/beer

and going to hang around here all evening?

Certainly not me!!

(well... I lie like a rug)

Hope I'm not the only loser here tonight!!

enjoy your sex or your liquor...

who knows...we might bump into each other tonight...

*cough* loser *cough*
Girl Crush(es)
Posted:Dec 4, 2018 6:43 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2018 9:43 pm

I am confident in my straightness to admit that I currently hold four...yes four girl crushes...

I'm not sure I would act upon them if given the opportunity...

well maybe some kissing and boobie touching (and flabby boobies are ok with me )

But exploring down under...huh... not sure... but never say no...

So I have two Zumba teachers who are sooo hot... but not only physically hot (hello...not 100% shallow) but they are the greatest women!
Positive, funny, encouraging, talented... well you get it...

I think that is what attracts me more to them rather than being physically fit and blonde and hella sexy.

Yes... while they are beautiful on the outside, it's what's on the inside that makes them soooo attractive.

I could potentially fall in love with them (well already loves them but I could see myself being in a non-sexual relationship with both) (am I poly now?)

Shout out to J and J who rock my world 4 times a week... I'm a better person knowing you!


two girl crushes on this site...

I won't divulge them out of respect, but gosh... both are soooo sexy, smart, funny, emotionally and mentally stable (snicker) and are just great women...

Never met either and my relationship with them really is based on reading what they write, how they respond to others, and just peeking into their brain and thought process...

I simply adore both...

Now if they stepped to me and said, "PBG, I need to have you physically" would I bend? huh... maybe...perhaps...
But it would be so much more than just physical for me...

I guess what I'm trying to say is that yes... I am a straight woman, but I do love, admire and is attracted to other women, but that attraction stems from something much more than the physical.

I even find myself being attracted to men that way as well... Sure who wouldn't want a hot guy in their bed? But aside from the hotness is so much more...

I listen to my body... if it's turned on then it's a go---even if they aren't 'traditionally' handsome or even 'my type'. I guess that's why I don't have a type per se... I'm open to anyone and let my nethers dictate whether or not I'm attracted...

How about you...

Women... any girl crushes? How far would you go?

Men... do you have boy crushes? Can you admit that without being considered 'gay'? How far would that go?

Crushes are rad... you don't necessarily have to act on it but it still feels 'fun'.
Why are men so flummoxed about why women are here?
Posted:Dec 3, 2018 6:39 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2018 2:28 pm

yeah yeah yeah... I'm sure women are flummoxed too, but guess what? I don't interact or read women's profiles so I'm talking about my point of view.
If yours differs, the wrote your own blog.

I will never understand why men are so flummoxed to the point that it really interferes with their day, upsets them so, I mean really drives them crazy when they stumble upon a profile where a woman declares she wants something more than a hook-up...

I mean... why be so crazed? It certainly is not very healthy to have such a reaction to it.

Isn't it great that you know ahead of time so you don't waste your time?

Or is it that many more women are looking for something more 'filling' than just a hook-up and that bothers you because guess what? instead of trying to hook up with a bunch of women, there are only like 3 that might be interested in that?

It's curious...

I know for me, if there's no 'match', then I move on... I don't bitch and moan, and cry and stomp my feet about it. I just know that it's not a match and chalk it up to individual preference.

So guys...take it as a positive that women are honest up front... it will save you a lot of time... and it will cut down on the constant rhetoric that this site is a hook-up only site, because we realize it's much more than that.

Just sayin'.
Toss Salad
Posted:Nov 30, 2018 6:07 am
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2018 10:26 am

when the heck can we go back to eating romaine?

Iceberg is crap and that bitter, soft spring mix sucks...

need my Ceasar Salad...
need my Chef's Salad...
need my Cobb Salad...

Come on now lettuce pickers, quit shitting in the field and spreading that damn E-coli...

my croutons are getting stale.

And no you pervs... I'm not gonna toss your salad...but open if you want to toss mine
Y*tube TV
Posted:Nov 26, 2018 6:41 pm
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2018 6:09 pm

I'm looking to get rid of my cable/internet/phone package and was looking into Y*tube TV...

anyone have it?
like it?
Pros/ Cons?
miss traditional cable?

if you don't have this particular product, what do you have?
do you like?

Any suggestions/ feedback would be greatly appreciated...
Swayin' to the Music (Slow Dancing)
Posted:Nov 22, 2018 2:32 pm
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2018 11:16 am



Food, fun, drink, family...

and memories....

I lost my dad in 2012 and I'm still reeling...

Grief is one hella monster...

Broke out my Pops records today... he was an avid record collector...

Closed my eyes... and...

Swayin' to the Music by Johnny Rivers magically found its way to my fingers...

Such a great song...Love his voice...

Got me thinkin'...

When was the last time you slow danced?

I mean took that special person in your arms inhaled their scent and danced cheek to cheek... Swayin' to the music...

honestly... I don't think I've ever slow danced...

Clubs nowadays play all that fast danceable music...

which is fun...


it's not slow dancin'...

with someone special...

so do tell... when was the last time you slow danced? what was it like? How did you feel?

And if you haven't slow danced, either in a while or never, then find that someone and lead them to the dance floor, pull them close, inhale them let the music guide you.

by the way guys... chicks love this shit!!
Do they think of me like I think of them?
Posted:Nov 21, 2018 4:41 pm
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2018 7:13 pm

ok... forewarning...

not about sex...


I guess it could be...

Do you ever wonder if people who you think about in your past think about you also?

So I was remembering first grade... Miss Murray was my teacher. I have vivid memories of first grade (didn't go to kindergarten so first was my first school experience). I remember my friend's names, remember the recess aide, remember school lunch, remember how much school lunch was, how much milk was etc....

So I got to thinking... I wonder if the people in my past... ever think about me as I think about them.

I wonder if Angel from first grade remembers or even thinks or wonder where I am.... Elliott? do you remember me? think about me? have memories about me?

And to sex it up (because it is a sex site yanno), I lost my virginity to Patrick... I don't really think about him very often but every once in a while I do... I wonder if he thinks about me? remembers me? wonders about me? NOT in a stalkerish way or that he's hung up on me way, but just in general, in passing.

do you ever wonder if people from your past remember you? think about you? wonder about you? bring you up in conversation?

"I remember when I was in second grade (insert your name) gave me my first kiss...wonder where he's at today." is that conversation happening about you?
Morning Breath/ Throw Up Breath
Posted:Nov 20, 2018 2:21 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2018 3:27 pm

How many numerous tv shows or movies show people kissing with morning breath or throw up breath and actually liking it?

But that's Hollywood...

I'm talking real life now...

so my question is...

what do you feel about morning breath?

what do you feel about throw up breath?

Granted you put your mouth on other things i.e. cocks, puss, balloon knots, but generally those aren't stanky (at least you hope they are not and most are pretty fastidious about being odor free) so how does breath/mouth/tongue rate in comparison?
Woman- I don't mind morning/ throw up breath. Get over here and kiss me
Man- I don't mind morning/ throw up breath. Get over here and kiss me
Woman- Hells no... I loves you and all but please brush, then I will devour your mouth
Man- Hells no... I loves you and all but please brush, then I will devour your mouth
19 Comments , 56 votes
He's/ She's trying to creep back in
Posted:Nov 19, 2018 5:00 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2018 6:40 am


your ex...

well... ex might be too much of a relationship 'title' and we all know we're against relationships on this site...

so someone you sexed from your past...

let's say someone you met on this site (for poll purpose)...
not a random throwaway, but someone who you sexed with for more than one time.


things ended between you two... no one really pulled the plug. The texts (because no one talks on the phone anymore) faded and you meeting them for sex only gradually faded to nil. You're kind of insulted (just a teeny tiny bit-self preservation) because you can't imagine that they wouldn't want to continue to sex you. I mean they must be nuts, right?

So low and behold an email from them (because they obviously deleted your phone number so of course they couldn't text) letting you know that they've been thinking about you (code for they are horny) and would like to get-together sometime.

So do you swallow your pride and consider meeting?.
I’m a woman and Why the hell not? it's just sex, you're not gonna end up with this person
I’m a woman and hell to the naw! I did you once and you loved it and you faded away and now you can't come back
I’m a woman and hummm maybe... I mean I'm not sexing now so I can use you to bide time until I find what I want
I’m a man and Why the hell not? it's just sex, you're not gonna end up with this person
I’m a man and hell to the naw! I did you once and you loved it and you faded away and now you can't come back
I’m a man and hummm maybe... I mean I'm not sexing now so I can use you to bide time until I find what I want
21 Comments , 46 votes

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