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I have a lot of thoughts on virginity(since I still am one) and sexual topics in America and how it relates to the rest of the world. I've been meaning to create a dedicated website about it by why waste my money! I figure I might as well use Japanese lover.net's blog feature to save money and make my voice heard regarding sex today.
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I 'am a dirty man with DIRTY women(read previous post)
Posted:Oct 8, 2005 5:17 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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A while back I went to an Austin nightclub to make myself feel better for my company losing a that I liked working for. Since there was this "mature" stripper at this place that went farther than the others last time I was there and who I owed money to for doing a "complimentary" lap dance, I decided to have her cheer me up. This stripper had in her time there learned how to be my(and most men's probably) wet dream woman(read: acceptable slut) and she knew how to grind, kiss, and crotch thrust her ass and body into you. It was an odd feeling to be that openly sexual in a semi-public place (but one feeling that is helping to make me more confident to one day join a sex club).

After finally finding her she took me on a wild wide of grinding, light kissing and "moaing" in just one song. I still don't know what sexual penetration felt like but I do know what sex approximately feels like and..... WOW. I can once again see why so many people crave and "hurt" when they go too long without it.

Also, I noticed that I tend to go father than I plan on when I let myself go. I didn't do anything wrong that night but I guess she is either getting tired of going "beyond the lapdance"(her quote) for her various patrons at $20 or more a pop or didn't expect innocent-faced me to have let her go that far with me. I too was surprised myself but I do hope I did not help to foster any further hatred for men (as she has told me on occasion) due to my willing to "go with it" that night. I just wish I could have let her know how much she though me that evening(and paid her more than a paltry $20) and how much I appreciated being her unwitting "student."

My stipper beauty. I hope your chosen profession brings you eventhing you want in life and more cause you have sure changed the life of this lonely indiviual forver.

I met another stripper like her at the same club that tried to go as far but only succeded in the grinding and "vibration" department. She was another teacher of the unbelievable amount of ways a man can be made to get off if he only learns to relinquish control to a dominant woman.
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Tried masturbation last weekend and LIKED it
Posted:Oct 8, 2005 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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It was last weekend two saturdays after my 31st birthday), but I decided to try masturbation for real. Not the ackward attempts in the shower or when chatting online here or on other chat rooms. And not the wet dreams that I would only allow myself to have since childhood.

It was an interesting thing to feel what I have either feared due to my past Catholic upbringing or laughed at cause I thought all of you were desperate sinners or losers. But, you know what? During my experience I learned a lot about myself and my burgeoning sexuality(aka I am still a virgin). After all, for years I have heard or read that people can only know how to please others if they know what pleaes themselves.

I mistakenly told all of the below details to a friend I met online who may no longer be a friend, but I hope she (being older) can understand my youthful(used loosely) excitement over all this. After all, she made fun of the fact that I may get blisters and then callouses on my pecker if I do it too much. (next time, using ointment).

<i>well I tried it last weekend, and sparing the details I climaxed twice
having done so, I learned that therfe is a certain amount of friction needed to climax which conflicts my previous theory which was just just needed to rub it vigoursly
also that you tend to want to rest after climax
its nbot out of disrespect but because your body is actually tired
that you an't just up and go again right after climax
it took me aroudn 5 minutes to get hard again and then 10 minutes with my thoird but failed attempot
that the desire to do it "again" is trong days later and the "five finger rosie" is not a bade thing to want to do again
that the male sex drive and desire to have sexc again as soon as possible is real
that not having sex (I theorize) for a long time would be painful both physically and psychologcically
and FINALLY
that I mnay have chaffed something since I did not use any lubricant, HOLY CRAP is that importnant</i>

I now realize that my dream of going 4 hours of non-stop sex with every woman I meet is now impossible.

I still find it odd that I found myself pumping my pevlis into the ache in some weird attempt to fuck it. But i guess that must be what the climax portion of sex must be like for men and the air gives way better to my pelvis thrusts than my rug would.

If anyone reads this, please post your comments or about your first sexual experiences.

Now I am off to build up to confidence to try this masturbation thing again.
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Saw the odd and mundane tonight
Posted:Aug 10, 2005 2:00 am
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2006 9:27 pm
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As I was leaving a men's club in Austin since I got there too late to get in, open past 2am MY ASS!, I saw an unusual sight on my way to my truck. What I figured was a guy moving the parking brake or a The CLUB from his steering wheel(since was vigorously using both arms) was in fact something more erotic. He was obviously relieving himself after probably being "worked up" in the club. I found it quite hilarious on my drive home to dwell on what I witnessed. After all, those places do get you worked up especially after a good lap dance but to releave yourself in one's front driver seat? Seems quite messy to me but it still made perfect sense as the pain of blue balls driving home or the possible embarrassment of having to explain why you locked yourself away in your restroom when you arrive home to your significant other.

Oh and the mundane quality to the night? While I was leaving the Joy parking a couple I had passed on my way to try to get in was pulling out. I saw them reversing but I had the right of way since I was already moving and on my way, but the male driver still felt the need to salute me with the bird out his window. I figure I must have made him step on the brakes to stop but I believe I was very correct in to not give him a courtesy stop. Now on the subject of dates or girlfriends at strip clubs.....
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