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Lifes Little Problems.
Posted:Oct 1, 2018 1:21 pm
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2018 7:24 am
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As I have spoken of a time or two on here, my is going through a less than civil divorce. She called again last night to talk about it, and of course tell me all about the latest battles with her mother. The problems about settling in to a new apartment. Problems with school. (She's back in college) are just being a pain. Oh, and of course, being short on money. Seems she always finds room for that one in the conversation.

So while I'm wiring her some money, I'm reminding her of how I have tried to teach them to handle the problems life throws at us. She has a tendency, like a lot of people to get overwhelmed with all the little stuff. Trying to figure it out all at once, handle everything with one broad stroke. Never works and she just gets all stressed out, which doesn't help with any of it. Hell, I need to slow down and remind myself periodically of the same thing.

So we talked through the items one at a time. And I reminded her of a couple of ideas I came up with years ago, about handling problems. The boulder theory and what I call my F or F theory.

The boulder theory is, Life is a series of paths. Occasionally you will find a big boulder in your path. You can either find a way around the boulder, on a different path. Find a way to climb over the boulder. Or, find a way to just blow the damn thing up. The only thing you shouldn't do is just sit down and say..Damn that's a big frigging rock. Unfortunately, this is what my does most of the time.

Then we moved on to the F and F theory.

In any problem or life drama, there is really only two options. One, you can fix the problem. You figure out the problem, what's causing the problem to occur, and see if there is any way to fix it. If there is, you give 100% effort to working out the problem until it's fixed.

If there is absolutely no way to fix the problem..Fuck it. If there is nothing you can do about it, why stress out about it. It's getting you no where, the problem is still there. She's also great at just stressing over all the things she can't change.

After talking for a hour or so, we figured out what problems she could fix, and how. We agreed that some of it, just had no immediate solution, or permanent fix..So fuck it. And she exercised her favorite theory, that involves throwing money at the problem.

When all else fails, call Dad and ask for money.
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Really I'm Fine. Really.
Posted:Sep 27, 2018 1:34 pm
Last Updated:Sep 27, 2018 7:59 pm
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Well after yesterdays post, on complications, I received a bevy of mails asking questions. So I thought maybe a quick, light hearted, follow up would be in order.

yes..I'm fine. No I'm not depressed. I have not given up all hope. No, I'm not leaving Japanese lover.net or the blogs. It's all good!!

Just done complicating things, so I'm taking a break from the dating pool for a while..Not looking for any of the acronyms until further notice.

Some of the responses got me thinking..oh crap, here we go again, he's thinking. Relax, these thoughts have been with me for a while.

A couple of us were laughing about the responses of, don't think about it, too much thinking, too much planning. Just let it happen. Well, truthfully, that's what I did with my ex wife. That really didn't turn out well.

I think some of the problems in relationships is people don't have any plans on what they're looking for. How can you know if the other person has it, if you don't even know what it is. LOL I know I've been guilty of it. Meet a girl, have some fun. Sex is great. Let's get married/ltr, whatever. Then years later it's....what the hell was I thinking!?!?! Problem was I wasn't thinking.

If you don't spend time figuring out who you are, what makes you happy, and what you want out of life and a relationship. Then in my opinion, you're throwing darts trying to hit a bullseye. Except you're blindfolded and have one hand tied behind your back. Don't over think this comment and think I'm opposed to blindfolds or having my hands tied down. I'm thinking, I'm not.

I'm sure some find the one, with just blind luck. But at my age, i think I've gotten wise enough to think about my actions, my relationships, my life and my future, with a little bit more of a ideal than when i was young. To be honest, if I'd have been wiser when I was young...maybe I wouldn't be here looking now. LOL

I have a good plan, know who I am, and what I want. Thing is, lifes too short to spend it alone. But it's way too long, to spend with the wrong person. Think about that..

Anyways, for those that sent me messages, I thank everyone who wished me well. Offered an ear to talk to. And those that were actually worried. Thanks to all those who like the philosophy of the Three L's. The two couples that messaged me about the idea, inspired me. And the others make me think it might have been worth the effort, especially that one special comment.

There are a lot of great people on this blog. And to think it's a get laid tonight site. LOL

Peace.
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The complexities just aren't simple.
Posted:Sep 26, 2018 12:57 pm
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2018 4:41 am
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During the last three weeks, and more specifically the last few days, all my thoughts and planning on changing my "game plan" are again in flux. The only thing I'm sure of, is I am still, if not more, unsure The idea's are still sound, I think. But the execution has proved to be far from easy. I have posted about this journey of thoughts and plans, but thought I'd summarize it all here. What my thought process has been to get to this point. Where I'm going now? If you can answer that one for me, I'll buy you a year of gold membership.

At one point in my life, my world was a complex maze. One hand juggling the rigors of managing people and profit in a corporate environment, the other trying to maintain a marriage with a woman that wasn't happy with herself, much less me. Where the only thing left in common was, about every 5 years, we both needed a night out with the guys. Let that one sink in for a minute. And conversely, me loosing all interest in her. All while trying to prepare 4 for life in this same crazy world. During the process of the divorce I sat down one night on a beach. Ran a million scenarios through my head, highlighted mistakes I'd made in the past, how to avoid them in the future. A lot of the normal bone headed mistakes, but also mistakes surrounding my relationships. Laying out plans for how I would proceed during the journey for the rest of my life. It's where the tag line on my profile came to be. Simplyfing Complexities.

The older three came and lived with me. And I have to say, raising 3 teenagers as a single dad, didn't do much to simplify anything. But the concept was more about how I would approach relationships, and life in general. I had already moved out of the corporate grind, so that part was easier. The relationship part was easy, or so I thought. Don't get too attached to anyone. Lets just look for FWB type of relationships. It worked out pretty well, obviously with some hiccups along the way, over the last 13 years. Did have some wonderful relationships, with some wonderful women.

Then, over the last few months, my mindset started to change. Maybe it's time to find that one person again. Stop all the revolving door relationships and get back to the ideals of my youth. One person, who fits together with me, as naturally as breathing. Someone I truly enjoyed being with and walking through life with. So I spent some time thinking about it, pondered the quagmire of relationships and came up with this.

Just find someone that met all three aspects of what I deemed to be my idea of a relationship that is not only enjoyable, but can withstand the test of time. I still believe it's part, not naive enough to think it's all, of what makes up this thing I was looking for. Lust, Like and Love.

Lust- This part sounded pretty easy. Hell, I'd like to think I can lust right up there with the greats of history. Just flash me some great looking boobs, yep lust levels rising. Walk by with that gorgeous butt swinging in a bikini, Houston, we have lift off on the lust rocket.

The harder part is keeping the lust alive. Keeping that lust alive, or better yet, how to find ways to even make it better. Trust me, I know I have failed at this aspect along the way as well. But I can't say I truly found this aspect with anyone. And of course I think it's important.

Love- From the Webster definition of the word, one would think it's the most simple to explain. I think most of us know, it's no where close to easy. I "attach" fairly easily, but can't say I fall in love that easily. How could I, when still to this day, I don't know if I can truly define it in words.

The closest I think I've come to describing it, and no, not the one sided thing. Is if you can find two people that are co dependent with each other, without losing their own self dependency. That is the part that keeps it healthy. It's not like you can't live without the other person. Just that you really don't want to. Oh well damn, that should be easy enough right? Yeah, no I'm sure that's never been a part of my life.

Like- In my opinion one of the most overlooked, but possibly the cornerstone of the entire package. At least in the high speed, chaotic thought process of this thing I call a brain. But in reality, while I do believe it is the easiest aspect to find, it's still not easy. I know I've loved someone before, but ended up finding many things about them I just didn't like. Just not making that mistake again. How can you be friends with someone you don't like. In a long term relationship, I know I have to really like being around them , if it's going to succeed.

Sure, if you're just in it for a quick fuck and go, it's not that important. NSA, maybe not. If its just a , hey i have a free hour, can you swing by. It's only gonna be any hour. FWB, now it's getting to be a lot more important. Again, why would I want to be friends with someone I don't like. And in a LTR of any sort, I believe it accentuates the other two L's. Don't think lust or love can survive for any length of time, without the Like anchor.

Now, throw in all the other factors, that come into play while looking for others in my age bracket. Work, , future plans, life in general. And lets don't forget distance, it truly is a conspiracy. Think that's been proven. Yeah, its becoming painfully apparent that my little exercise in the "three aspects" is no where near as simple as I planned But then again, I'm sure somewhere in my head I always knew that.

After the last two weeks..thinking I'm gonna try a new concept. Take a break and just not look for anything. No LTR, no FWB, just a break from all relationship ideas. I bet I can find that. Hell I've heard a bunch of guys bitching on here about how that's all they can find. Finally, something that's simple.

The rest? It's really very Simple, but it's proving to be Complicated.
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HNW - Wet Blues
Posted:Sep 26, 2018 12:18 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2018 11:29 am
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Wet Blues
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Technology beating up on the Oldest Profession.
Posted:Sep 25, 2018 1:40 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2018 11:31 am
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Ok..seems like every day we move closer to that automated world. Technology moving us ahead, faster at times then is probably good for us. Some times it's a great thing. Other times while it may make life easier, technology advances can mean a machine replacing the human worker. It's a thing I've looked at from time to time, but haven't given that much thought to.

Then in the news this morning I read this.

Country's first 'robot sex brothel' set to open in Texas prompts backlash.

I'm like what? Now even the worlds oldest profession is getting replaced by technology?

The headlines are a little misleading, to be honest. It looks like it's not really robots, just high end sex dolls. But still. While it is putting the "skilled" workers out of business, I suppose they will have to hire some non skilled labor for , um...clean up? Now there's a job for you. Try filling that one for minimum wage.

Another thought I had was. Who in their right mind is going to pay 100 bucks to go somewhere, sit in a waiting room, just to have sex, (can we call it that?) with a doll? Then I remembered some of the comments/response I've seen on photos around this site and thought, "Ok, they'll get some business".

As far as the waiting room goes, what exactly would you talk about there. "Hey Bob, good to see you again. Have you tried the blonde with the big tits yet. She's pretty quiet, but the way she just lays there and takes it is hot."

Or would it just be a hang your head and hope no one recognizes you kind of place.

The other thing I was wondering, as I was reading about residents in the area protesting the opening was, what about the professionals? They need to band together and create a protest in front of the place. They need to come up with some catchy signs, maybe a good chant..

Real girls yes,
Silicone No.
Spend your money,
On a real Ho..
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Is there a Generation Gap?
Posted:Sep 24, 2018 12:11 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2018 1:26 pm
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I have stated on here a few times I am sure, if not I will state it again. I don't date ladies too far away from my age bracket due to the differences in life experiences, tastes, and all that. The generation gaps, if you will. I do like some of the music, bands my like, but they do listen to some that I'm like...um no. I will take my youngest who lives with me, to see some movies that I would never dream of taking a date to. But she's my . I won't even go into all the other parameters, but lets just leave it at, there really isn't any aspects of life, where there isn't a generation gap.

But wait!!! I think I found one!!

I have a very good, open and honest relationship with all my , but me and my youngest are really tight. She's 16, quick to remind me almost 17, and has been living with me for the last two years. We talk about everything. While we don't get into details, she knows I'm on a "less than vanilla" dating site.

Last night, we were talking about dating, online dating and some of the benefits. But mostly about the downsides, the crap that women put up with and some of the heartaches that can and do arise. While the conversation started on the later, this talk created a revelation to me, when it turned more towards the crazy crap that goes on with guys on the internet.

Yes, gentlemen, and I use that term loosely, you have shown me that there is one area that is not age specific. Completely void of any generational gap. Now again, it's not all men. But after doing some searches on here, I'm coming up with a number around 82%. So certainly a majority.

For the record, she doesn't date much. Doesn't go out with anyone, unless I've met them. And I don't mean, introduced to me as he's picking her up. Over protective, maybe, but I can live with that. Some bells can't be unrung. She isn't on any dating sites, but she's a so she's on Instagram, the FB messenger.. the comments here are in reference to the similarities there and on Japanese lover.net.

We started with just the rude and crude comments guys post. I'm telling her about some of the stupid things guys say on here to try and attract women. She starts describing some of the things her and her friends put up with. Yep, pretty much the same, "hey wanna fuck", "do you suck dick". I'm both amazed and being the dad type, a little pissed off. Later I'll describe why it wasn't as bad once I heard the whole story. Anyways, I think my favorite on the "comments " portion of our discussion, is what I call the cave man vocabulary. When they want to know if the girls will send nude pics..they can't piece together even a simple sentence like, "hey, will you share any nude pics?"

No, it's a Neanderthal, "Nudes?" One stinking word is all they can come up with. No use wasting any effort..I mean what if she says no. Don't want to have wasted all that time with a long sentence first. Much less get to know her a little bit with some conversation. Amazing!

The it was dick pics. Oh yeah, this isn't just something for the older folk. The younger generation of men seem to think the way to pick up women is to fly that dick like a flag, apparently just like some of the older guys on here. No generation gap there fellas. Good job. Doesn't matter if it's big or small, it's in her words, "like they think they have to prove that , yeah I'm a guy and I have a dick, promise".

So being the dad, I had to ask. So little one, what do you say to them when they send you those messages, or wave the penile banner at you. Her response, "Oh hell, you never respond to them. If you do, even if it's to say not interested, they blow up and spam you with crazy hateful messages." Priceless! Again, no age differences here. Seems like the inability to take a "not interested, thanks", knows no age boundaries either.

I said earlier, why I wasn't as mad at the idiots prospecting for my daughters attention. Here's a 16 year old that already has these idiot guys figured out and how to deal with them. LOL. Apparently , there is no generation gap when it comes to women being smart enough to know how to deal with the 82% that are just bone heads.

So I have been proven wrong. There is at least one area where there is no generational gap. Don't think I'm going to change my dating preferences over it, but it was enlightening.

I did want to thank the 82% of guys. You've set the bar for successful communication with women so low, my daughters 3 month old Beagle can step over it without jumping. Just makes it that much easier for the rest of us guys.
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Where the hell is this going..or is that coming.
Posted:Sep 22, 2018 9:31 am
Last Updated:Oct 24, 2018 3:11 pm
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So was having a discovery kind of conversation with an extraordinary lady on here and the question came up..When having sex, and it's time to orgasm, where do you like to cum.

I thought, well that's a easy one. Which ever orifice I happen to be in at the moment. But of course nothing is ever as simple as it seems. What if..

Preface statement. I am not judging anyone. I respect your preferences and like hearing your opinion. This is not a area where there can ever be a I'm right and you're wrong .. To each their own.

So then it was ..what if you're getting a blow job. Do you cum on her face, in her mouth or where?

If you are practicing, no babies sex, (not safe sex, cause then I'd have a condom on), with a steady monogamous partner. And you pull out...where?

My take is this. I think the whole facial thing has been propagated by the porn industry. And I don't understand the fascination with it. I know it makes for a better "shot". haha And for the record, I've experimented with it. Had a lady say she wanted to try it. Neither of us found it to be a wow, that was great thing. If I'm in the depths of passion, and I'm sliding inside of someone, I really don't want to pull out. I mean, I really don't want to.

Instead, after all that wonderful sex, I need to pull out, quickly move up to her face and I end up cumming with the only thing touching my dick is my hand? Not to share too much, but I orgasm quite frequently with my dick in my hand. Why on earth, if I'm with a gorgeous lady would I want to pull out and cum on her face? Trust me , I wasn't doing all that "practice" by myself, just for my big moment and to show her..Look what i learned how to do. I've been practicing

I do find mutual masturbation can be fun, but again, Just not my thinking to be, ok.now I want to cum on her face. /shrug

I do think part of it is also a control thing, I know a lot of women find it degrading. Just me again, but I really don't want to degrade anyone, and I don't need to control anyone. Think control is a fallacy anyways...but that's a different rabbit hole.

And yes, I do know some women who like it. If so..carry on!

But honestly, nothing compares to that feeling when you're inside her. You can feel her contracting around you. And then feel yourself pulsing . All mingled together, resulting in just a great, mind blowing, simultaneous orgasm. Maybe its just me. But I always find that hot.

To each their own...again, not saying I'm right and you're wrong. Like with all things sex and preferences, I say do what makes you happy and do it as often as humanly possible.
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Grocery Shopping
Posted:Sep 19, 2018 5:17 pm
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2018 4:56 am
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I was chatting with someone from the site, who by the way has my head spinning in confusion, which is a hard thing to do to me. But we were talking about relationships, long distance, what we looked for, what we have experienced. It got me thinking of my relationships over the last 13 years. What I refer to as my HD period. Happily Divorced.

Was thinking about not only the women I've dated, but more so in how I met them. There were some from here. Some from the match site. Some I met just meandering around, the beach, out for dinner etc.

Which reminded me of my all time funniest, strangest meet I had. I'm going to call her, hmmm Stacy. Love that name, name of my first childhood love. Anyways, I digress.

I'm out grocery shopping one Friday as usual. It just happens to be Valentines Day. I was without a significant other for the first time, so knew I wasn't going to be spending much money besides the daughters of course. So the grocery store I go to is giant. They have everything, including a nice floral dept. I decided it would be fun to pass out roses. So, I go over to the floral dept and buy 48 long stemmed roses. The lady asks if I want them in a vase or wrapped. I tell her to just lay them in the front of my cart. She looks at me weird, I get that a lot, but she does it anyway.

Now off I go shopping. But every time I see an unaccompanied lady...I pull out a rose, give it to her, say...Happy Valentines day. Walk off and continue shopping. haha This goes on..and I keep shopping. I am giving roses to young ladies that don't know what to think of me. To ladies older than me, that seem ready to cry. To one who I thought was going to hit me, asked me what the hell I thought I was doing, but kept the rose anyway.

Meanwhile I notice a lady who seems to be following me. I notice I have given her a rose. Every time I stop and look at something, she stops. When I look up at her, she turns away real quick. Like she just noticed the Nutella was on sale. I keep on shopping and keep on saying Happy Valentines day. It was a blast. Finally, done shopping and out of roses, I go to check out.

I'm standing there, watching the people like I always do. Out of the corner of my eye I see someone coming towards me. It's my friend the Nutella lady and she's making a bee line for me. I turn to her as she gets to me. She hands me a note, says "I'm really shy, but would you call me", turns around and almost runs out of the store.

I open the note and it said something to the effect of. "Thank you for the rose, that was sweet. I am really shy, (I'd already noticed that part) but really wanted to say something. Here is my number, if you like, you can call me.". So I did. Right there waiting in line. LOL

She doesn't answer, but I leave her a message and tell her I'll call her when I get home. When we did talk, we set up a date. We actually went out for quite a while. Got to be the funniest, and the most unique times I've met someone

So I know all of you have met only on this site. I mean it is Japanese lover.net. But have you ever met someone in a funny way. Maybe just unexpected/ different.
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HNW- Cause thats a dangerous place for a Zipper
Posted:Sep 19, 2018 1:16 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2018 4:08 pm
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Love Levi's 501's.
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Aging Gracefully On Here
Posted:Sep 17, 2018 1:54 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2018 6:07 am
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I reactivated my account a few months ago. Re did my profile,added some recent pics, all from this summer. Did the search thing, sent out some messages to those around me that seemed interesting. I've been here off and on before, so I settled in for the wait. What was funny, was after a week or so I got a email, that stated, "I've turned you in for being a bot. Your pictures don't match your stated age. "

BIG NOTE HERE. At the time, I did have my correct age listed.

I replied back with, what are you talking about? No reply. Never heard anything from Customer Service, so figured it was a fluke. Then about a month ago, I get two more. Both calling me a fake, a bot. One stated they could tell from my message that I wasn't real. LOL For anyone who has read one of my blog posts, it's pretty obvious, I'm not a man of a few words.

So I decided to play. I have been rethinking what it is I'm looking for anyway, so figured I really didn't care at this point if anyone could find me in a search. So I changed my age to 96. Seemed like a good age. And I'm thinking, cool, this will put me out of the search range. I can have some time to just get my head around what I want, and not have to put up a ....Not looking at this time... banner on my profile.

I promised at the time I would do a follow up post about how changing my age to 96 would affect my time here. Pretty much forgot about it, but since someone reminded me.."rolls eyes", you know who you are. I decided it was time.

Things did not go as I planned. haha. I actually had more women and couples trying to IM me. Had quite a few messages, wanting to know how old I really was. My favorite, and she'll remain nameless in case she reads this, though I've never seen her on the blog, was something like.

Wow, you look really good for your age. What's your secret. I'd like to know more about you. yada yada......I think she's joking of course, so I respond back with something about the fountain of youth, that I stopped aging years ago. Then at the end, told her my real age. She responds back with, oh, well you shouldn't lie on your profile, that wasn't very nice.

I didn't even have the heart to reply back.

So I'm thinking some people don't really use the age parameter in their search. Some really don't care. Hell maybe some just really like the idea of the old geezer, who's about to kick the bucket and wonder if i have any money to leave.

Things it didn't change.

I still get messages, flirts and IM's from those lovely ladies in their 20's, who think I am hot, want me to move them down to Texas, and promise, "Just real woman, not game playing".

Still didn't help me decide what the hell I want. Or help me find someone that interests me that isn't 1700 miles away. Even in my new age bracket.

Was wondering though, do you put a specific age bracket on your preferences? Do you follow it no matter what? Have you broken it either way, older or younger?
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The Eyes have it.
Posted:Sep 11, 2018 2:01 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2018 4:47 am
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I had lunch with three friends today. We met up at Twin Peaks, cause....um the food is really good there. We get this really cute waitress, she takes our order, flirts with us, yada yada. When she leaves I make the comment, "that girl has unbelievable eyes". And she did. Blueish grey eyes that seemed like they could look right down into your soul. Of course, I immediately got the rebuttable of, "with tits like that, you're looking at her eyes". hahaha, yeah they were three guy friends, if you haven't deduced that by now.

My response was, of course I love a great set of boobs, I love a nice butt. But look around the room. There are lots of nice boobs and butts walking around. None of them had her eyes.

From as long back as I can remember, eyes have always been a thing with me. It's one of the first things I notice on a woman. Sure, if you're walking away from me, going to notice your butt first, but if I can get you to turn around? Yeah, going to check out your eyes.

Eyes portray so much. They can show love, lust, desire, intelligence, anger, sadness and despair. They are truly the windows into the soul. I had a girlfriend about 8 ago, that I swear could stop me dead in my tracks with nothing more than a look.

On here, though a lot of us don't have face pics up, I do notice and check out the eyes while browsing. And there are some of you that just have gorgeous eyes.

If there's a question wrapped up in this post I guess it would be, do you notice peoples eyes? Are they as important to you as they apparently are to me?

Or is there some other aspect you notice, besides the obvious?
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It's a conspiracy!!!!!
Posted:Sep 7, 2018 7:49 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2018 1:06 pm
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It's not the bots...sure they are there. It's not the scammers, trying to convince me to send money to some African country, cause if not they are surely going to be devoured by lions.

I enjoy being on this site. I really do. I enjoy the banter on the blogs, I enjoy reading the profiles. I've met and found some fun relationships on here. But the thing that always gets me, and I noticed this again the other day. The real conspiracy, that I am sure Japanese lover.net is behind. The thing that always frustrates me on this site.

The women that always seem to interest me the most, are not in my general area. not talking,it's a hour drive to go see her. It's like they all seem to be anywhere from 500 to 10000 miles away. Safe to say, waaaaaaay outside my driving range.

It's the ones that see things the way I see them. The ones that post on these blogs with interesting, intriguing and thought provoking blogs and responses. The ones that I think, I bet we could have fun together. The ones with great eyes. The ones I can envision kissing , because of those lips. The ones who can make me think, or rethink idea's I long ago sorted out.

It's a conspiracy I tell you...

You ladies frustrate the hell out of me. Not intentionally, I know, but it sort of reiterates by disbelief in soul mates. Wouldn't it just suck if you were in say..Texas and your soulmate was in Asia, Europe, hell wherever wasn't within a couple of hundred miles.

Keep being you, keep on enticing me with the comments, posts, messages etc. But know that I think it's a conspiracy that none of you live next door. Just saying....

Sure I like a lot of the blogs by guys, but sorry fellas, just not attracted to guys.
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The Lost Art
Posted:Sep 6, 2018 6:18 pm
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2018 3:04 pm
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I've always been a kisser. And before any smart asses like myself say it..no not an ass kisser. I just love kissing. Everything about it. Always have and sure I always will.

Just got home from a 5 hour first date. And yes, that was 5 hours without sex. I think she's one of BiggLala's good girls. We went for a drive to some vineyards close by. Had some snacks by a river, in great little park, and ended with a nice dinner. She had to go to work tonight. So while we didn't do much else, we did enjoy some wonderful "making out" at the park. And a great, see ya later kiss.

I have found more than once over the last couple of , a lady that would tell me. We have to stop. like stop what? Stop kissing? Like if we didn't stop kissing it HAD to lead to more. While I can't say I mind if it does lead to more..hell I a guy, it's never been my belief that it had to.

I've had girlfriends that enjoyed "making out", and sure lots of times it led to clothes flying off, like debris in a hurricane. But not always. In fact, I really enjoy the times, that there might be two or three great kissing sessions, before we actually found time to go further. Builds the anticipation. Sure lots of times, when it didn't lead to sex, I've had to go home and take matters into my own hands...well hand. But it didn't lessen the anticipation.

Is the art of making out, becoming a lost art. Did i fall asleep and someone wrote a new law...no kissing without intercourse.

I hope not, cause that will just have to be another rule I can't follow.

Are you a kissing bandit, or are heavy make out sessions just reserved for sex.
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