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ManticoreEye 48M
206 posts
12/4/2015 10:12 pm
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ManticoreEye 48M
546 posts
12/4/2015 10:34 pm

Yeah, but knowing and feeling are two very different things.


nightsoul1962 57F
17863 posts
12/5/2015 1:44 am

I would go for the latter choice!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


Heathen_G 61M
7302 posts
12/5/2015 2:36 am

You should tell them both to fuck off. She isn't sapiosexual, she just likes men who excite her, like the guy she is with now.

she played grab ass with you when another woman wanted you, otherwise you're just a nice guy, not exciting.

You have to knock off being her token gay friend with her. You don't need to shake the guys hand. She's not going to dump the exciting guy for you. Take the jump out of her friendzone and get away from that.


BiggLala 47F  
27646 posts
12/5/2015 9:55 am

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    You should tell them both to fuck off. She isn't sapiosexual, she just likes men who excite her, like the guy she is with now.

    she played grab ass with you when another woman wanted you, otherwise you're just a nice guy, not exciting.

    You have to knock off being her token gay friend with her. You don't need to shake the guys hand. She's not going to dump the exciting guy for you. Take the jump out of her friendzone and get away from that.
Yeah, exactly what he said!

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BiggLala 47F  
27646 posts
12/5/2015 9:59 am

You said, "On one hand, she's still my friend, and I don't want to interfere with her happiness. If he's really what she wants. I wish I had the maturity to shake his hand and wish them both well.

-What makes her your friend? Think about that. What does she offer in the way of true friendship? You can still care about her, and that's...okay, but that doesn't necessarily make her your friend, though it sounds like you consider yourself her friend. What makes you care about her happiness more than she apparently does? A true friend is willing to listen and consider your words that they NEED to hear, not just what they WANT to hear. If she will not listen and you cannot tell her, what kind of 'friendship' is that? And, in case you haven't realized....it sounds like you're doing the same thing she is...wanting what you shouldn't have. We all do it for whatever reason, though, so it's understandable.

Just something else to think about.

Good luck!

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Heathen_G 61M
7302 posts
12/6/2015 12:06 am

    Quoting elastic_heart:
    You know, kinda tired of that bullshit mentality that if a guy actually does respect a woman he's seen a "gay". Then again, you're a mysogynist and misandrist and you say stuff like that around the site anyway. You likely make a point here but questioning his sexuality invalidates it - put some tact on it next time. Oh, and lastly...I assure you, he's anything but, I can vouch for this.
You know, kinda tired of that bullshit mentality that if a guy actually does respect a woman he's seen a "gay". ... Put your anger aside and study what I wrote. A healthy straight man placed in a woman's no-fuck-zone [aka: friendzone] is not getting [or no longer getting] sex from her, but instead becomes 'one of the girls' she can tell her problems, as if he were gay, hence token-gay buddy.

She isn't respecting him by doing that. He certainly doesn't need to respect her. She has not earned any respect. So he can do himself a favor and tell her to get lost.

Then again, you're a mysogynist and misandrist .... No I'm not.

and you say stuff like that around the site anyway. ... Yes, I say lots of applicable stuff around the site.

You likely make a point here .... Yes, I made a very good point.

but questioning his sexuality invalidates it .... I didn't question his sexuality. Go read it again. And even if I did question his sexuality, which I didn't, my advice would still be completely valid. Next time, read it carefully.

- put some tact on it next time...... Get your anger under control.

Oh, and lastly ... No, firstly , you have to understand what you read, and clearly , you do not.


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