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Posted:Sep 19, 2019 6:47 am
Last Updated:Jan 9, 2021 6:53 am
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I just read a profile and I don't want to whine on this point again but come on people if you are a 2 on a scale of one to ten don't expect a 8 or ten likely won't happen as for my wife and I we are in pretty good shape height weight proportional and I think attractive but we are not tens and honestly we are not big into judging people on looks what we want is people that take care of themselves are clean and are fun the profile that I read that brought this point up again was a lady who is a BBW that won't go near a guy if he isn't in good shape now come on you guys tell me is that reasonable this woman is over weight yet judges guys on there weight maybe its the hypocrisy of it that bothered me the most but come on people this is for fun we play with a couple people that guess what they aren't perfect in weight but they are a lot of fun and well skilled so lets all try and be less into the weight thing and more into the person behind it
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If you are cheating
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Posted:Sep 9, 2019 8:09 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2020 1:08 pm
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we define cheating as trying to find with out your partners knowledge now for those who think just telling us your wife knows you need to realize we still expect to meet them or have some clear sign they are good with it we will not become part of a couples drama of splitting up if you are in a relationship you are not happy in then get out but of course is your choice just don't involve us we are a couple who plays together and can truly enjoy each others pleasure and everyone can rest assured we are very discrete we don't want or choice to be in this lifestyle to be announced to family or friends any more than anybody else but know this discretion should never need be applied to your spouse or partner they should already know if they don't it will likely become messy for those cheating so really listen to my advice and talk to your other half and don't be selfish if you are unsatisfied he or she likely is as well and sneaking around at the minimum will make you and them even more unhappy and likely will tear you apart my wife and I have a great sex life as well as relationship because we choose to be honest with our desires because we care about each others pleasures and don't judge each other for it just a note for those wanting to cheat make it simple don't just have the conversation with your spouse gf bf you both will be happier in the end (and I would like to state again without partners knowledge)
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one sided
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Posted:Jun 25, 2019 5:15 am
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2019 6:08 pm
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ok couples we believe in each other enjoying wife is all for husbands pleasure hubby is into wifes pleasure because life is about balance and if either one of a couple is only focused on there own pleasure then omg you are asking for trouble but of course its your choices couples just that we our a couple that is giving to each other and can actually truly enjoy each other orgasming but you all must make your own choices but please do think long and hard on this
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Fake pics
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Posted:Jun 21, 2019 4:37 am
Last Updated:Sep 18, 2019 10:38 am
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this is a follow up from my status statement about pics people if you are using a fake pic you just ruin it for your self because we will eventually see you if we decide to meet you and if the pic is fake ie taken from the web and not of yourself then we will see it as a lie and honestly how can we trust the descretion of a liar and people if your pictures are older than father time update or even note that in the convo with who your talking to so everything is upfront silly us we like being upfront
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if you want women only
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Posted:Feb 15, 2019 5:57 am
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2019 2:58 am
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come on people we are obviously a couple so guess what you get us both or nothing so if you only want women or only men don't waste your time and ours if you really want couple play then feel free message us we would love to talk but please don't fool your selves we will not change our rule of we only play together no matter how hard you try and one ask doesn't tick us off its the repetitive try's that tick us off
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single men bit of support and advice
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Posted:Jul 10, 2018 5:17 pm
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2019 2:25 am
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ok ok all yes single men can drive us all nuts if we are couples but please lets try to be more mature than the single men some of us all complain about they do need to try they get horny as well so as long as they approach politely be polite if its not what your looking for tell them as much but they are people too lets all try and remember that and going to add a quick note for you single guys the rude ones and here is an example of rude referring to a mans wife or girlfriend as a cum dump or slut or so on unless otherwise directed to is rude starting conversations with lets fuck or the such is as well read the couples profile threw and never try to get her to alone its ok to ask if that is something they do but ask first if that is there thing and you will have a better chance
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Not Sure How To Word This
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Posted:Jul 3, 2018 8:18 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2024 9:48 pm
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ok here lets try I have noticed a lot of profiles on here where the lady is bi and they are only looking for a woman now that is fine to each there own we would love to find a lady for my wife but just so the men out there know don't think its a win win for you necessarily because I have met ones such as you that think yay I don't have to worry about guys and get another woman to play with wake up first of all you need to trust your lady in this lifestyle second if your lady is bi your just as apt to lose her to another lady actually you have a higher chance of it because you are focused only on your gratification so she is likely going to notice with a lady she gets some attention with you your only worried about you so be smart focus on your ladies enjoyment a bit more and because your lady orgasming can be a great thing very enjoyable for me to watch
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a quick vent
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Posted:May 20, 2018 3:11 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2019 9:23 am
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I am seeing an increasing number of pics on profiles with ladies giving the finger come on really I guess the old saying of better "people think your a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt" somewhat applies except these people are removing all doubt with out opening there mouths just saying if your maturity level is so low that you think giving the finger on a pic on your profile maybe you shouldn't be on here and please don't bother contacting us if you think that is cool
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a quick vent
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Posted:May 20, 2018 3:11 pm
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2019 12:22 pm
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I am seeing an increasing number of pics on profiles with ladies giving the finger come on really I guess the old saying of better "people think your a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt" somewhat applies except these people are removing all doubt with out opening there mouths just saying if your maturity level is so low that you think giving the finger on a pic on your profile maybe you shouldn't be on here and please don't bother contacting us if you think that is cool
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about meeting
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Posted:May 18, 2018 6:10 pm
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2019 9:23 am
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Lots of people on here claim nobody will meet well heads up all we will I just read a profile where the person specifically complained about window shoppers well we messaged them and no response at all just so some of you know you want to meet some people you actually have to respond to your messages yes people have particular tastes but if you don't respond to us how do you know if we match up answer is you don't
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about ghosting pet peeve
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Posted:May 4, 2018 7:47 am
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2019 9:24 am
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a big pet peeve of ours is when you are enjoying a conversation with someone and then they disappear for days or weeks or months , then reappear trying to resume the conversation without realizing that the connection is not there anymore. in essence, you have unconciously rejected the person without realizing what you have done, that's why sometimes you get that cold reception when you try to chat again. a simple message saying life happened or sorry there is no connection or if you have another meet arranged just tell us we aren't dating you so no problem don't just poof disappear. This is for clarity sake alone if it hasn't been a regular convo just an off and on thing no meet arranged then its still casual and its still nsa just looking for some common courtesey
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Be Realistic
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Posted:May 1, 2018 8:07 am
Last Updated:Jan 17, 2020 5:23 am
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Ok people lets wake up nobody on here is a perfect 10 there are some very attractive people and some less so for us we want to be able to converse with you and yes we want you to care for yourself and how you present yourself we don't expect perfection we aren't perfect lol but we do expect a personality so you people who think your tens guess what your not the only ten I see is my wife and in closing no you shouldn't drop standards not suggesting it we won't so why should you but be honest with yourself if your a guy who has a dad belly and hair has started running away from your forehead guess what likely not getting a 30 year old hard body to play with but my wife and I would give you a chance if you are a decent guy and fun think on that have fun all
Would just like to add I found the perfect example of what we find ugly a girl on here that thinks she is all that posted on her profile that she is tired of the site because of all the fags on here come on I am a straight male but even gay people need love and I may have no interest in men sexually but take the compliment from a gay guy as what it is a compliment sorry miss sheissocute the handle she uses you aren't cute your hateful therefore ugly we don't expect tens we just expect decent human beings
A final note if your a bigot at least be a closet bigot so the rest of us don't need to hear your hate do that on your own time please
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just to vent sorry all
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Posted:Mar 27, 2018 9:23 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2024 9:48 pm
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We are a couple which means we together for us and couples out there that try to do an end run around to have my lady join you al just don't and single guys pretending to be a couple don't bother people please grow up we always meet people as a couple so please show us both some respect and don't push meeting al if others do thats there choice and no issues from us on that or judgement everybody has a right to there choices as we do yes we would like a lady for my wife to with like alot of you couples out there but come on guys if your lady has agreed to let you have another woman in the bedroom with you maybe you should consider allowing her a guy or even better a couple then its the best of both worlds
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