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LordMandrakeJB 67M  
666 posts
11/5/2020 5:09 pm

It totally depends on the chemistry. I've been on dates where it was a cordial drinks, and we just don't click, and others where we didn't even get an order in or finish our drinks before she wanted to get out of there. So, it definitely depends.


idblueswoman 65F  
830 posts
11/5/2020 6:14 pm

Interesting question. 20 yrs ago, I might have had sex on the first date. While I don't date per say, I won't have sex on a first meeting ever. Just a personal choice..


2lrr 59M  
5 posts
11/5/2020 6:42 pm

Why not?


fandangochick 46F  
66 posts
11/5/2020 6:59 pm

Some first dates were only for sex.


LadiesR2B1rst 60M  
2735 posts
11/5/2020 8:31 pm

Every situation is different. With some ladies we never made it to the actual "date". Others may prefer waiting, often using the "third date rule" . Then some, I couldn't wait to bring them back home and part ways as soon as possible. It really depends on each situation. Thank You !


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
11/5/2020 9:06 pm

I dont rule it in or out! It all depends on the connection. But it is pretty hot when it does work out!!!


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
11/6/2020 12:54 am

I would love to see the breakdown of males/females. I voted ..NO....heck no...most assuredly NO ...

lol~~


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
11/6/2020 1:39 am

I certainly wouldn't be expecting it, but if we get on particularly well and the person I'm meeting suggests it then I might consider it.

But I'd prefer to get to know them a bit better, what they like and don't like, what their personality is like, etc.

Baffies

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Ghostsas2019 42M

11/6/2020 4:38 am

the real question is how many dates until anal???


WyoCowboy7751 70M
2537 posts
11/6/2020 5:22 am

"Maybe, depends on the situation" Back in my days of dating ; IF I got it on first date, Great !! IF I did not, OK Fine ! Sometimes IT was second date or later !! Come to Think of This ; This still holds TRUE even Now !!!


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
11/6/2020 6:35 am

situation apreciate for fucking hot


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
11/6/2020 9:54 am

Even to this day, MOST of the women I've had sex with I've done so within hours of meeting them.

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Funstick80_ 34M

11/6/2020 11:10 am

Asap


Harlyman54321 50M
79 posts
11/6/2020 2:03 pm

I agree with you there dear.>>!


Harlyman54321 50M
79 posts
11/6/2020 2:04 pm

If it was anal would be the first. Nothing like a tight ass filled up and dripping. >>!


Harlyman54321 50M
79 posts
11/6/2020 2:06 pm

Agree with that dear.


CaliTexGirl 59F  
22 posts
11/6/2020 2:46 pm

Date? This is a hookup site.


Bourre2020 61M

11/6/2020 3:46 pm

If it's someone who's just appeared, then NO. If it's someone that I've been chatting/messaging with for a while and things have heated up, then YES, if she's willing. But ALWAYS protected.


idblueswoman 65F  
830 posts
11/6/2020 5:51 pm

It's what ever the fuck one wants it to be.. i am too old for random hookups and so are you.


JoeLnir 62M
31 posts
11/6/2020 8:03 pm

I've seen it both ways. Have had meets where the main thing was just get to know each other better, and then have had some where we just looked at each other and 5 minutes later the clothes are flying...


Azbear1969 54M
85 posts
11/6/2020 11:16 pm

It all depends on the people. I have had it where meet and get to know each other and then other times where meet and then continue to get to know each other in the physical sense.


pussyllove 56M
5 posts
11/7/2020 4:10 am

Hell yes because you never know if there will be another meeting. Most here are cheating and may not be able to meet again. Life is to short not to PNP.


itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
11/7/2020 6:11 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    I would love to see the breakdown of males/females. I voted ..NO....heck no...most assuredly NO ...

    lol~~
I AGREE!!! I am sure that this answer is going to change if men are answering it versus women answering it. I watched in a chatroom where the men INSULTED the women and called them whores for putting out on the first date, but they gladly fucked her. THEY were on that first date and although men think it is okay to be a 'male whore' I told them would you find it cute if it was your daughter that put out on the first date and they called her a whore? So many guys like being called a man whore but they wouldn't introduce their daughter or sister as a whore. Double standard!!!
.
I seriously would NOT put out on the first date nor the first three as I know about the three date rule and I refuse to be pigeon-holed with a slanderous name because I did the same thing HE was doing so I take MY time.


Sexczy69 70M  
3703 posts
11/7/2020 3:41 pm

Yes it all depends on what you both feel!!!!


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/7/2020 3:59 pm

Considering everyone is over twenty one and have a really good grasp
of what they're looking for and why they chose this site in the first place.
I've always believed it's a good idea to get their definition of this site.

Not on a first date.
I'd much rather they take their time with the standard safety
and worthiness dossier.Then go from there!

Using more than all the road!


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
11/7/2020 4:47 pm

Every one thinks this is a hook up site ,yes it is but people do actually meet and some even have a long term relationship and are still together. I have had sex on the first meet but the chemistry has to be there.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


young_an_eager 27M
17 posts
11/7/2020 5:58 pm

I can wait a little longer if she wants to wait


franken4 70M

11/8/2020 3:19 am

I think its virtually relates to the chemistry. There isno hard and fast rule its up to the individuals


Texasbottom4u 61M
56 posts
11/8/2020 11:29 am

If he gets my excited you bet I'll drop my panties. And we'll have to fuck every time after that.


PeterWalton 57M
17 posts
11/8/2020 12:12 pm

Agree depended on the chemistry


aniceride 53M  
117 posts
11/8/2020 1:15 pm

totally agree with this staement and exactly how i would have answered


kinkymale4chatxx 55M
23 posts
11/8/2020 1:49 pm

If it’s mutual then yes. Let’s fuck!


old_stick 62M
83 posts
11/8/2020 10:43 pm

It really depends. I would be unlikely to refuse but it's never an expectation.


spwildbill77 66M  
87 posts
11/9/2020 5:54 am

So many overthinking the question. One has to assume that the reason for the date is potential mutual interest. Sometimes it does not work out, I get that. True, there are some blind dates etc... but the question was not a requirement of having sex on the first date whether or not you liked the person or whether there was chemistry. Assuming all that good stuff were present ..., interest, attraction, chemistry... would you on the first date...that's all?


sweetcirce1 80F
142 posts
11/9/2020 1:40 pm

    Quoting  :

You'd be surprised how many of the men on here are on Match or some similar site. In fact, if you just use this site to get lucky, you may have to wait a while.


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
11/9/2020 1:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Believe it or not, there are more horny women, discounts, and action there than here by a long shot, no dick pics either, lol.


BigBlaxicancock 38M

11/10/2020 6:06 pm

last 3 GF we fucked on the first night and last several years each


Cherin_Iwantu 60F  
38 posts
11/10/2020 6:24 pm

Yes, after 5 mths of chatting here then to phone conversations we finally met and fucked on the first date and as of today we are still seeing each other and enjoying it...He's older (77) and in Great shape.


Cherin_Iwantu 60F  
38 posts
11/10/2020 6:26 pm

O' it's been 4 yrs


51007 68M  
574 posts
11/11/2020 1:50 am

Hello,
of course sex on the first date. >>!


Grangeroanonimo 45M
209 posts
11/11/2020 5:40 am

Talves si


CleanDna2donate 43M
19 posts
11/11/2020 6:36 am

Heck yeah we are adults after all, waiting for sex is a bit HS ish in my opinion anyhow .


bard_3232 57M

11/11/2020 6:00 pm

I have (including anal) when we were both sure it was a safe bet, but if there's any doubt, don't engage


aint1yet 56M
16 posts
11/11/2020 8:10 pm

I said yes once and it ended up being 9 months of hell (i shoot non fat so that wasnt the issue). It sucks trying to be a decent human being and a chicken s&it for not breaking up sooner.


letsplay71563 61M

11/12/2020 2:07 pm

It really just depends on how we feel about each other. If it is a woman from here than I have chatted with her some before we actually meet. Sometimes it happens and most often it doesn't the first time. Its definitely not a deal breaker by any means.


Will_Penny 65M

11/12/2020 4:02 pm

It's happened a few times, but usually not.


Wantathird17 66M/58F
55 posts
11/12/2020 6:47 pm

We did and have been together for 11yrs


Mr2please2 62M  
63 posts
11/13/2020 11:44 am

I met a gal online and we agreed not to do anything when she came to visit..after the first 45 minutes we we in the sack...we did it 13 times that weekend lol


Fatpussygirl1 57F   

11/13/2020 5:16 pm

The first kiss tells so much. If I can't stop thinking about you, I will fuck you on the second date. I need to have chemistry with someone before I invite them into my bed.


Sharpcock24 44F

11/13/2020 11:01 pm

YOU to FUCK


Sharpcock24 44F

11/13/2020 11:06 pm

BBC for you


Sharpcock24 44F

11/13/2020 11:08 pm

BBC FORYOU


Objectifyme77 64M

11/14/2020 9:50 am

You know this is a really tough question for me. I met a girl on here and we met at a neutral place. We both agreed it would only be a meet and greet and not to expect sex on the first date.when it came time for me to kiss her goodnight i gentle kissed her lips, i slowly moved my tongue ever so lightly tracing her lips with my wet tongue. I decided to take the chance and pushed my tongue into her as far as i could. She may have told me to stop but her thighs were covering my ears so i couldn't hear her.


W3shoodhookup 53M
82 posts
11/14/2020 10:14 am

I think I like waiting better. But I've had many of both situations


Ramiel111 59M

11/14/2020 1:49 pm

Fuck waiting and playing the "get to know each other" crapola. That will happen as you proceed. Makes no sense that the both of you know why and what the real purpose is to saying yes to seeing each other.



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nkdplaymates 62M/54F

11/16/2020 9:23 am

I did yesterday.


lickinglez 41F

11/24/2020 3:07 pm

there is no hard and fast rule. good things can happen and bad things can happen. use judgement and the odds are you will be OK.


InsatiableLust99 34M
4 posts
11/29/2020 10:54 am

nice


slowlove59 64M
44 posts
12/10/2020 5:12 am

with the right person I will have sex on first date, second date, third date and so forth.

Love should be taken Slow


Ray94134 67M
31 posts
12/15/2020 12:59 pm

Why go out if not for that? I know a lot of people if I just wanted to talk.


BBWjawn 38F

12/17/2020 4:40 am

hell yea why not


CremeDeLaCreme81 43F

1/23/2021 1:31 pm

We're all grown so if its goes that direction I'm all for it.


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
1/23/2021 7:40 pm

I often have it by the 2nd date, so if I feel right about it then I’ll be all for it on the first. Though I do like to know someone well enough


Buffpecker4377 46M

1/26/2021 9:06 pm

I love spontaneous sex..


flannel_light 61F
4586 posts
1/27/2021 9:15 am

I have been known to on the first date but I reather wait till I get to know someone.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Bigthickdick1088 38M

1/27/2021 7:59 pm

Hell yes


Icebreakersee 45M
1 post
1/28/2021 7:20 pm

Sex with a sexy lady can make you fall in love properly as oppose to making a big deal of waiting, that is what they did year's ago when there was no protection from disease pregnancy and the worst possible thing of all the family who are ashamed of you and the baby is taken away for a nun to be cruel to it. It is not that world. Sex is a very intimate thing and should be cherished and you will find the porn and male attitude towards women would change however I have no power to make it happen


BlkCatKilla 44M

1/30/2021 4:47 pm

But I've done it a lot.


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