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Advice on closing a chapter
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Advice on closing a chapter I did it, i think. I’m done with this 4 year affair. The sex was good and I’ll miss it. But constantly feeling second best was horrible. Wondering when I’d get to see him again, wondering if she’d find out again. Canceling plans at the last minute because he had a free moment to meet. Not wanting to see anyone else because I just wanted him. The loneliness. But theirs the hurt with any ending. Just yesterday he was telling me he loved me and missed me so much but today he doesn’t know. It’s clear he chooses his fat wife with shitty sex and he can have her. This is the second ongoing affair he’s had while married to her. She knows about us but he keeps lying to her and saying it ended years ago. I want to send her pictures and show her but at the same time i don’t want her hurt. Other times i do want her to hurt since i am. Yet the stupidity in me holds on that he will leave her and come running to me, so irrational. Let me know your thoughts and advice.  |
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1/20/2019 7:35 pm |
Should i tell her I’m sorry?
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cada final.es.un.nuevo.comienzo
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believe me you dont want to get involve in saying anything it always backfire, almost every time.
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1/20/2019 7:56 pm |
No reason to tell her...would end up making her feel superior.... Post 4182726
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1/20/2019 8:00 pm |
close that freaking door and nail it shut .he married her and cheated with you and another as you said ...that was so unfair of him to tell you that .
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If you aren't his priority, he's not worth it, he doesn't deserve to be your priority.
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1/20/2019 8:27 pm |
Move forward. Blinders on...keep moving forward.
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1/20/2019 8:39 pm |
I'd say you're lucky this went on for 4 years and never got caught, that's quite lucky. She'd probably kill you and the guy. It wouldn't be smart to try to tell her especially since you're also to blame. Also if he cheated on his wife, he's probably going to cheat on you too if you have a relationship
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Sounds like he feels it is cheaper to keep her. (The wife). If you keep allowing him to come back nothing will change. If you want a guy to have all your own, you need to look to someone new.
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being open and honest about everything is always the best way
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this is not probably what you want to hear, but i have dealt with a few married, and i kinda know how their mind works...so hear me out... 4 years, even after the wife found out, they are still together...he is not gonna do anything...his wife ain't gonna do anything about it...so basically HE DOESN"T CARE...they are gonna still stay married... if you wanna say sorry to her, you can, but it ain't gonna change anything, probably just make her mad more, and her anger is not towards him, but only towards you...if she were that angry, hurt, and humiliated about what he has done to her, she would be long gone by now... but she is not...which means, only bad person out of this relationship outside their marriage is you...it's only your fault...and nothing gonna make her change to think he was also in it, too... that reality would just damage you more... keep your head high, and walk out... or just continue what you are doing...you already know he is not complete yours...but if that's ok with you...it's really your choice...
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My advice? I have none to offer... 😶 My opinion? It's never fun to feel second best and to weave your life around broken words and promices. Move on with your life.. 💔 I'm sure you can find someone who appreciates you and isn't attacked... 😊😘👍❤️ ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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move on, quit enabling him to only use you as his cum dump... your life is worth more that that , an your feelings shouldnt be used as a ladder to your bed
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1/25/2019 3:32 am |
Run, go as far from this guy as you can. OK, so if he became your sole lover, how could you trust him? You couldn't, he lives a life of lies and unfortunately he's pulled you into his shitty world. You deserve better and it's worth waiting for a better guy, you can find one, but it may take patience and time, but worth it. bottom line, he's playing you. Don't be a chump. oh, and get ready for his 'loving plea' when you shut off his side sex. Ignore it and move on, life is too short for shit like this.
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3/9/2019 12:19 am |
I think it was for the best. The thrill could’ve only lasted so long and it seems like you should’ve been priority or you were out. Keep looking ahead!
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