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Understanding the difference.
Understanding the difference. From what I read on a lot of... the short profile (as seen by non-gold ballers) and some in the blogs about non-bloggers, there seems to be a lot of men taking a line or two out of a profile and thinking it applies directly to them, a total stranger, and develop expectations based on that information. I can see where some may get confused, like when a woman says something of this sorts... "looking for a tall man with dreamy eyes who can sweep me off my feet." Well, I am a tall man. I have been told I have dreamy eyes, therefore she must be talking about me. In that brief description it does not say all of the other things that is going through her mind like, does not live with their mother (lol), has a good paying job, likes cats... lots of cats, etc. It is really a slippery slope because if she does put all of that in there then she would most likely be categorized as a crazy cat lady, which she may be, or a total B****. Plus, since probably most men on here are non-paying members they can see the rest or would not take the time to read the rest anyways. I think that is one of the biggest disconnects on here. In addition, if a man is feeling especially frisky or horny at the moment, all common sense goes out the window and it is simply... Here is a female, she has what I . She lives within driving distance. She is on a sex site so she must be wanting what I got. I wrong ladies? Now, this brings me to the blogs and to replies on comments. First and foremost I a little bit of a flirt in real life with waitresses, hostess, just service people in general. Not the over the top kind of flirting but the pick them up and make them feel better type of flirting. If it makes them feel better and in return gets me better service, then it is a win win for both. So when I make comments on pictures a blogging friend posts, which some are really tantalizing, or to something that they may write that makes me a little frisky inside. Then I totally understand that their reply being something like... I would love to help you with lotion on those hard to reach places... is simply fun flirtatious talk and nothing more. They could actually mean it but it does not mean... hey, this woman wants me. I to flood her email box and pester the crap out of her. NO... it means that you found a woman with a great sense of humor who enjoys flirtatious shorts because it makes both of you feel good. And who knows, maybe one day it will turn into something else, but it is only because you were friends first and therefor each of you opened up your window of opportunity. I would say that probably 95-99% of the people I come into contact on this site I will never meet in person, but I can certainly enjoy their company and comments here in Blogville. Enjoy your kick off to the weekend! |
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Sorry, that got longer than I mean it to be.
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Maybe is got longer ( pun intended) but the intention is very clear. Smarten up guys (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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11/9/2018 6:42 am |
Thank you for posting this honest blog. Another thing is the men on this site do not seem to read what is posted on profiles. My person I want to meet is a female but men keep sending me emails and IM requests and that's annoying. Read first and contact only other people who seem to be a match with you or not at all. Thanks again.
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11/9/2018 6:47 am |
Oh and one more thing. Just because I might view your profile does not mean that I'm interested or I want you. Sometimes I click on profiles after being notified that I had just been viewed by a profile so I'm just curious not interested. If I am interested I will let you know but if I don't that should tell you something. Have a great day.
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11/9/2018 6:52 am |
I agree with the gals here picking out a line that may be fun or funny and just a bit of flirt on the womans side of the coin isn't a come on from her maybe a few would like to think that if she puts a subtle come on in her profile then we he has to try to see whats she is getting at..and frustrating it is when a profile does not say anything much ..most women read profiles much to the dismay of the guys we are somewhat more choosy about a partner ....
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