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classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
2/4/2019 9:42 am

The only flirts and hotlists that I get are from women about half my age who usually live in another country and looking for their soulmate.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
2/4/2019 9:56 am

In my experience, flirts have been generated by the site without the owner of the profile knowing - think they're part of the ice breaker programme?

They're all from profiles located many miles away and from someone it is so obvious that we would not be a match. So I ignore the lot of them.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/4/2019 4:42 pm

The best way to tell if they're bots or scammers is If they all have faces,initiate contact,send messages and even reply.
It's best to just ignore~

Using more than all the road!


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
2/4/2019 6:03 pm

I hotlist someone if I was IMing him and want to find him again more easily the next time I'm online.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

2/4/2019 10:40 pm

Anytime that I have tried to contact a woman who had hotlisted me the outcome has been the same as any other attempts at communication through this site. Meaning I might as well as typed it out and then instantly deleted it for all the response that I had gotten.

Well that is not 100% true, I did get an answer from a local woman who stated as a precondition for her continuing communication that I had to say that I had to be seeking a lifetime commitment. It didn't feel like she read my profile.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


Flyinghigh198 34M

2/5/2019 2:11 am

As said above, its best to just ignore


1999valk 73M

2/5/2019 8:47 am

    Quoting classicalrebel4:
    The only flirts and hotlists that I get are from women about half my age who usually live in another country and looking for their soulmate.
I get same thing- most are a few hundred miles away- My profile says with in a certain distance- other wise I dismiss them- usually once I start talking to them I find out that they want more than I'm wanting to give-


LordMandrakeJB 67M  
666 posts
2/5/2019 9:53 am

I get flirted and hotlisted all the time, however, 95% of them are looking for "the one", "seeking an husbund" (yes, I spelled it the same way they did), or only provide a third party site. The other 5%, are mostly Japanese lover.net's auto flirt, where the person never does flirt to begin with. The remaining 1%, I flirt back and see if they respond. If I want to let someone know I like their profile, I send a message.


cockinhand4uNow 60M
1373 posts
2/5/2019 2:33 pm

hotlisting is a way that standards can get intouch with another member


raylixit 62M
10 posts
2/6/2019 10:29 am

I've never been hotlisted, and the only flirts I get are from women far younger than I, who live hundreds of miles away.


oralguy200 77M
26 posts
2/7/2019 1:26 pm

Be patient


coffeeaddiction7 42M
13 posts
2/12/2019 11:45 am

I find it flattering. It's nice that someone thinks enough of you to reach out.


Karinagurl 60T  
59 posts
2/22/2019 4:32 am

If a person finds me attractive enough to flirt or hot list me I will always try to at least thank them. If I find them attractive besides just thanking them I will try to start a conversation.


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