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Is AFF becoming extinct?  

Superman4695 39M
66 posts
10/23/2019 9:44 pm
Is AFF becoming extinct?

Face it it is a dinosaur looks like it was from the original internet in design and archaic software. It's user base skews old they made massive changes to make free accounts not worth a bother for most. They cannot attract any of the coveted 18-36 demographic that advertisers and networks want. They need people, they need people to stick around, and be active, but they claim millions of members when maybe being generous 5% of the accounts are active. So do you believe its days are number being shuttered with a year or two?
Yes
No


Superman4695 39M
168 posts
10/23/2019 9:45 pm

Just to get this noticed thanks if you respond.


zippie43 62M
75 posts
10/23/2019 9:58 pm

Very true. It's not what it use to be.


John19899112 34M

10/23/2019 10:13 pm

Yeah it is with these pricesss lol grinder haha jk sucks


KloudyKs2 40M

10/23/2019 10:22 pm

back in the day this site was almost a sure deal. Now it is mainly a pain in the ass .


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
10/23/2019 10:54 pm

Yes
No
Who cares? 🤔
It's a lot of fun if you know how to manage this maze. I've been Gold and then not.
It's fun, both ways. Ya learn how to trudge about. Works for me.

It's not as bad as people gripe about.
But with all due respect. Ain't no way, 18 to 36 year olds, would be attracted to this site. There is the real world? No? That's where I was at that age. I still am.
Heck.. this place is a pasture. Ya know what I mean? 🤔
It'll survive... or it won't. I'd say have fun while it's around. What do you think?


Empyreon81 42M

10/23/2019 11:03 pm

I agree. It's gone to the dogs!


niagaracouple00 71M/71F

10/24/2019 1:38 am

wow all the replys seem to agree that its best years are behind it


dogslife2live01 71M

10/24/2019 4:34 am

the site is what the people make it
but if you as you say "18-36 demographic that advertisers and networks want."
then they would have to work out something with uber. it seems the 18-36 year olds seem to want it, and want it now
delivered to them with not fuss
removed when done
ubersex anyone?


there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/24/2019 7:22 am

If they got better IT folks and got this back up and running without all the glitches that have gone on since May- maybe it would have a chance. However, no one is going to pay for a broken toy. I just decided to enjoy what I can work around and when it dies- well I wont be going to the ceremony

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seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
10/24/2019 8:08 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    If they got better IT folks and got this back up and running without all the glitches that have gone on since May- maybe it would have a chance. However, no one is going to pay for a broken toy. I just decided to enjoy what I can work around and when it dies- well I wont be going to the ceremony
I agree, I'm sure more people would pay fro Gold if the site actually WORKED!


46fun9 65M

10/24/2019 8:56 am

Yes I think it is. They have too many issues that need to be fixed before i sign up for Gold membershio again.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
10/24/2019 10:26 am

Too many site issues for people to upgrade to gold. Lack of active members that fit their search criteria to make it worthwhile upgrading to gold.

I remember when there were >200 people in the chat room at one time. Now there's 20 on a good day.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
10/24/2019 11:01 am

There used to be 100 people in the Alberta chat room at the same time. Now there might be none or a few. I agree the days are numbered. Something else has to come along first though. Somthing similar to what this site could have been now.


KnightMan105 68M

10/24/2019 11:29 am

it seems to be dropping the balls on quality of everything


oralfun2dayforus 55M

10/24/2019 2:17 pm

always be horny people,but Japanese lover.net may swindle down to very little.have already seen a ton of people leave it.and they cut out the 3 free chats to boot.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
10/24/2019 5:32 pm

Advertisers?They're in our homes and cars and everywhere we go today.
They(18-36) were once touted as the hook up generation. Who could have known It just wasn't going to be with those of their own generation or at least until they learned how to fill those shoes.

I remember when people were cool to one another and entitlement was shared
with the top .09% of both genders and when the chat rooms weren't bully training centers .When those who had no reason to hide never put anyone on the spot for having to ghost them.There are so many in step with your forlorn ,dejected and impoverished existence here that sometimes this incessant whining is really just kicking a gift horse in whatever orifice suits them.

Using more than all the road!


Whatsthewait06 61M

10/24/2019 8:34 pm

I believe it is. Notice they keep upping the points. It's up to 11 now. So when you buy points, chances are you will wind up with some left over.


LetsGetNakedOhio 38M

10/25/2019 5:24 am

Sadly yes


TraporDie85 36M
31 posts
10/25/2019 4:27 pm

This site used to have waaaay many more members varying in age. It was fun when you didn't have to have points to talk to people or view cams. Now i dont see any point in sticking around to be honest.


superman9789978 47M
17 posts
10/25/2019 9:38 pm

Days are numbered


Superman4695 39M
168 posts
10/27/2019 7:47 pm

@ BiggLala

1. As I said they would not listen to a standard member's unsolicited advice on changes I think they need to make.

2. They claim millions of members, it is a social site, and there should be lots of people and activity. People will not feel a need to join if the view it as a dead place. See you need to have bait to attract people and maybe some of them will pay. If there were lots of people getting action here they would tell their friends or mention it else where on actual social media etc thereby making the site more popular. It also leads into the next point I had about more $$ from advertisers.

3. Advertisers know their real numbers not the "cooked books millions" they advertise. If they actually had millions of people things like travel companies, or rental cars. As it is I think Depends should give it a shot as the membership skews towards seniors here. How about gambling and bingo parlors lol. Instead of listing who wouldn't there are still lots that might if they actually had the numbers and were a popular site. But what do I know I'm just a standard peon member. As I said they can sell demographics info to legit companies of they had actual numbers to boast about. Survey companies might try their hand etc it opens more options.

4. Well my fault in not stating it clearly in what I meant that it should work both ways. The recipient should be able to read and respond to the gold member that sent them a message. Maybe they can put a cap on it 10 back and forth messages.

5. They have to make some money after all they do get some from memberships, some for advertising, and their cut of cams. To make money you have to spend money. Get more investors or a loan if able based on their legit numbers etc.

6. I still get contacts but 99% are bots/scammers. There still exists a possibility that I can meet someone that meets my criteria. For myself FB gathers too much info is invasive.


69hornyman69horn 44M

10/28/2019 5:12 pm

Please, quit whining and being so narcissic! There are many other adult dating sites out there ( I get many ads for them.) If Japanese lover.net does not suit your needs or desires so what? You probably do not need Japanese lover.net to find a spouse or sex partner. People solved that challenge for thousands of centuries without the internet or websites. Queen Victoria needed only genuine, real people to find Prince Albert in Coburg in Saxony, far from London.

I do not know what Japanese lover.net's business model is to make money. Advertising is probably part of it. There is tremendous competition for advertising dollars today. Whether Japanese lover.net will make it through remains to be seen. I doubt that Japanese lover.net thinks Gold memberships will make it another Facebook. Forget about sex contact sites. Much more serious is whether newspapers survive the drop in income from advertising dollars. Without them , this county will become a dictatorship. I think we are on the way..


Superman4695 replies on 10/28/2019 7:04 pm:
Only a complete moron would make a vastly incorrect diagnosis of narcissism from what I wrote. In fact no legit psychologist would even attempt without in depth interviews and testing of an individual to construct a profile. It fails completely as an insult. I could list the DSM characteristics if you'd like.

You're right I don't need the site as I have success in real life. However, you never know where you will find someone and it doesn't hurt to keep an eye out. I tried some other sites one that rhymes with zing had almost nothing but bots. Get contacts from women and they never reply back and they sent you a message not cold calling lol.

I fail to connect the logic of your last statement as if newspapers are failing due to lack of readership how they have little power to do anything. They tried to make Hillary president and failed along with all tv media with few exceptions. There will still be the internet, television media and you know the laws and Constitution. A dictatorship no not going to happen though I'd say if the Democrats ever get a full slate as in President and complete control (67 of the House and Senate again their move towards socialism will sure feel like one.

Spice4u2play 60M/53F

10/29/2019 3:37 am

It was a lot better years ago, I think videos should be free, they bring people in. I think Gold members should be able to contact anyone and the standard members should be able to reply to them, what good is being gold if the standard members can't reply back to them. I think this site is better than other similar sites, and it has the potential to improve. I think being able to use gift cards to buy gold status was a great idea, it allows people to remain Anonymous, I think they should do a better job of letting people know they can use gift cards to buy gold..


rm_jetfuel_1999 58M
5 posts
10/29/2019 12:03 pm

I don't like Japanese lover.net one bit. I've had better luck from many others. The internet should be free. Just as if your date had a booger hanger, Huge turnoff that every button pushed leads to the pay a fee page. And not just one fee if u want results. Chaturbate xhapster thesexaddicts dot com all work better and more entertaining than this Japanese lover.net POS! YEA. FU Japanese lover.net! U SUCK!


jogrnm87111 62M

10/30/2019 3:31 pm

Mistakes they are making with the changes they have made.
More fakes than real people
Yes, the days are numbered


virgin348 32M
14 posts
10/31/2019 12:45 am

I'm pretty new here so i can't really give a constructive answer. but i'm definitely not willing to pay for gold.


wanttoplay858 66M/68F  
14 posts
10/31/2019 11:08 pm

Yes it is sad to see how the site has failed it members .. They tried so hard to make a dollar that they left the members behind


AllIsPossible06 63M

11/1/2019 12:49 pm

I believe it is! I don’t mind the point system. What bothers me is the fact that messages don’t go thru and it is a waste of my points. So not I am very particular about how I use my points. Purchase fewer. Bad service/product eventually chases customers away.


Jrod_153 39M

11/3/2019 5:06 am

Yes its going extinct!! And on top of that they are implementing all these avenues to make members pay. I remember the days when this site used to get tons of traffic and chatting in the im was free as well as responding to gold members messages was free!!. Now you cant respond to gold members as a regular member and you can chat for free you have to use points

Its getting ridiculous and the amount of fake profiles is horrendous as well. The other day i though i was speaking to a real couple but i wasnt. You know why? Because after i stopped talking to this couple another couple profile messaged me. Weird asf. Not only that i gave my contact info and not a single message

Their marketing team must be bad or the market for dating sites is just off nowadays because for the most part women are just wasting our time. Last week i was supposed to meet a woman and wasted 3+ hours waiting for the address away from home

This woman is no longer active on the site and begs to question real or not but i did meet some really good women and was in a casual relationship with one older woman from here


gsochillin 36M

11/4/2019 9:25 am

I think they have an older swingers niche. however even if your a member to message standard members you have to pay an extra fee so its almost 30 a month which is a bit steep for porn. there are many ways to monetize a site and increase traffic by using a pay for extras service system like league of legends, pof, tinder etc.


Lions_fan8118 38M

11/5/2019 12:33 pm

Yes, I think I’m canceling my account. I can’t really see paying for a Gold Membership with the site as glitchy and busted as it is. Anyone got any alternative sites worth checking out?


Frenulus 46M

11/5/2019 2:17 pm

I have no clue, and I hope not. Maybe they just need to update the site. The idea still rocks.


wvlooking237 56M
21 posts
11/6/2019 12:37 am

There were many replies to this question.


chiptopbottom 62M

11/22/2019 1:09 pm

To for new innovation for sure


Kimpasse 48M

11/22/2019 8:37 pm

I don't think it'll ever go under because there's money involved. It'll just linger on with less and less people.what I've noticed is they close the bandwidth they probably shut down a few servers. Mainly during the day time Monday through Friday. I've just noticed they play with the bandwidth. Sometimes I'm just not seen and I know others are feeling the same. Yeah their money is getting less and less so they're just figuring out ways to save it. Part of it is due to all the Android and iPhone dating sites.


Kimpasse 48M

11/22/2019 8:38 pm

But I must say I've been here three and a half months and I've met a half dozen people. So I don't know what it used to be! But the software does work.


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