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IvE PaiD for IT... YouVe PaiD for IT — We ALL HavE 😎❗  

Paulxx001 66M
8702 posts
9/7/2021 8:28 am

Last Read:
10/31/2021 4:25 pm

IvE PaiD for IT... YouVe PaiD for IT — We ALL HavE 😎❗

The lobby of 'The Plaza' bustled quietly; it always did. She stood poised and clutched a petite scarlet purse. Her slim figure — draped in an elegant black dress — forged a stunning contrast against the cream-coloured theme of those boundless renaissance walls.

Ruby lipstick defined a suggestive pout. But men would have been drawn to her smokey eyes; they blazed an enticing beacon through the ambient light of that lavish room.

She waited — patiently.

A gentleman at the far end of the lobby had noticed her invitation. He walked towards her, and with the stealth of a sly Cheshire, whispered. Moist lips parted to answer his question — just as I approached.

Lynn's eyes caught mine and widened. She turned, waved her supple wrist, and spoke to the well-dressed man who had leaned into her ear.

"This is my boyfriend, Paul..."

Before Lynn could utter another word, that gentleman apologized profusely, scurried across the lobby, out the doors — and into the crowded shadows of Fifth Avenue.

I looked at Lynn, then towards the man who had run away. "What the fuck was THAT all about?"

"He thought I was a and wanted to hire me," Lynn fluttered her lashes and grinned.

"How much did he offer you?"

"I don't know. You showed up."

"Well, maybe I should race after him and find out," I laughed.

We were in New York for the weekend — a lifetime ago — and that's how our evening began. Lynn DID look like a million bucks, and for the rest of the night, we joked about what a rendezvous with her should cost. We never figured on a fee; the numbers Lynn threw at me were bold.

Then again, when I added up the airfare, cab, hotel, drinks, meals and tips — and that carriage ride through Central Park — I wasn't far off her price.

I've never paid to have sex. But if I stand back and look at things differently — I realize I've been paying for puss... I mean carnal pleasures ALL my life.

Oh, and that weekend with Lynn was worth every penny.

................

In 1907, with a modest 50$ per week, a pro would make $85k a year — in today's dollars.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/7/2021 8:28 am

I guess if you split the bill, you BOTH end up paying for it. 🤔

Is there another way to look at this? 😏


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/7/2021 8:29 am

How many movies have asked the question?
What's your number? 😎❗


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
9/7/2021 10:54 am

If I have non-carnal pleasure in your company then the carnal part will (usually) only cost one good kiss.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


scoupe42 60M

9/7/2021 10:55 am

Paul, you must love beautiful women! She must had been hot for someone to proposition her. I never paid directly for sex. Once I saw an ad that said, she would clean your house in the nude for $50, or she would have sex. This was over 20 years ago, when she came, I choose the sex. I talked to her, we ate and had a few drinks and then we had sex, she didn't charge me the $50. You should do more blog, you have a way with words that people can visioned what you wrote


mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
9/7/2021 11:00 am

braver man than i to open that particular can of worms...

woop woop


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
9/7/2021 2:37 pm

Men always pay for sex in some fashion.. My question is , what is his number?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/7/2021 2:58 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    If I have non-carnal pleasure in your company then the carnal part will (usually) only cost one good kiss.
Really? hmmm... 😊
AND, I think I have the right change.
But, ya didn't address that OTHER Q. What's your price on the open market? 🤔
I'll betcha that's a question no one is willing to answer. Too low and, well, it's too low.
Too high and, well — who do you think you are? 🤔
Is there any answer to that query? 😎❗❗


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/7/2021 3:01 pm

    Quoting scoupe42:
    Paul, you must love beautiful women! She must had been hot for someone to proposition her. I never paid directly for sex. Once I saw an ad that said, she would clean your house in the nude for $50, or she would have sex. This was over 20 years ago, when she came, I choose the sex. I talked to her, we ate and had a few drinks and then we had sex, she didn't charge me the $50. You should do more blog, you have a way with words that people can visioned what you wrote
She was, still IS hot. I'd post a pic but she'd sue me. *ugh *
Your experience sounds like a lotta fun. Now THAT'S movie material! lol 😂
Thanks for the props bro! Not everyone appreciates my style. 👍❗


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/7/2021 3:04 pm

    Quoting mufdiver69er2:
    braver man than i to open that particular can of worms...
Chicken 🐔! lol 😂
But a WISE fowl at that.
Hey, hasn't she ever bribed you with a smile, and a to-do list? Now WHO paid for what? 🤔

Well, ya got your money's worth, right? 😮


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/7/2021 3:06 pm

    Quoting  :

Have you ever bribed your ex, or a lover? 🤔
Did he pay in full? 😎❗
It sounds like you have that barter system down pat! 👍


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/7/2021 3:16 pm

    Quoting  :

West Africa? 🤔 Really? Tell me more. Blog worthy?
Ahh, the galeries — yes! 👍 And it's legal and regimented there. Is that the way to do it right?
But it's SO true about New York. And they don't give a shit if you're with another lady or not. My head gets spun in that town. Then again, the one I'm living in is pretty brazen as well.
Ever been to this area code? 🤔


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/7/2021 3:33 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    Men always pay for sex in some fashion.. My question is , what is his number?
Now THAT'S, a damn good question and one that I'd hoped — the men would answer.
Ya think we're shy? 🤔
I mean, if a man answers "A million bucks," well THAT'S ridiculous. I don't know what figure I'd throw.
What if I asked her what she had in her wallet?
Let's presume she's a stunner. Men are sluts or are they? 😮❗


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
9/7/2021 3:54 pm

"But, ya didn't address that OTHER Q. What's your price on the open market?"

It's a difficult question to answer because it depends on WHY I'm on the open market. Am I starving? One step from eviction? Desperation brings down the price. If I'm simply saving up for a vacation then $300 (cash up front) for one no frills orgasm. He cums then I go.

Of course, I turned down a $3000 offer once...just so you know

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/7/2021 4:20 pm

I couldn't and wouldn't ever set a figure. My self-worth is too important to me to cheapen the experience by attaching a number. I don't expect a man to pay for a date and all that it encompasses. But if he offers, I graciously accept as he will know in advance, there are No[/B} strings attached.


Paulxx001 replies on 9/7/2021 6:56 pm:
I don't know why my reply to you appeared in bold font — it wasn't intentional.
Another glitch in the matrix, I presume.

It's all good. 👍

Paulxx001 replies on 9/8/2021 2:45 am:
I found the problem and corrected my comment to you, so it doesn't appear in bold font. Sorry for the multiple replies.
This site is filled with mystery. lol 😂

Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/7/2021 5:23 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    "But, ya didn't address that OTHER Q. What's your price on the open market?"

    It's a difficult question to answer because it depends on WHY I'm on the open market. Am I starving? One step from eviction? Desperation brings down the price. If I'm simply saving up for a vacation then $300 (cash up front) for one no frills orgasm. He cums then I go.

    Of course, I turned down a $3000 offer once...just so you know
Wow! That's crazy.
Of course, men, are cheap. I would have done the deed for $2500.
It's a wild question, isn't it? 🤔
Thanks for sharing that honest strip.

Three thousand? That's a down-payment on a really nice set of — boho — butterfly ratan furniture. 😎❗
I watch Pawn Stars. U?


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/8/2021 2:07 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I couldn't and wouldn't ever set a figure. My self-worth is too important to me to cheapen the experience by attaching a number. I don't expect a man to pay for a date and all that it encompasses. But if he offers, I graciously accept as he will know in advance, there are No[/B} strings attached.
I understand what you mean.
Those movies always portrayed the choice as being a question of dollars and cents, but it's more than that. 😶
I, on the other hand, would consider some of the numbers that were offered those fictional movie characters.

Presuming I wasn't attached!

Isn't THAT the key? If you're not in a relationship, shouldn't the choice be easier? 🤔


mc_justmc 63M

9/8/2021 4:16 am

It's a felony here, now.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/8/2021 5:49 am

Fucking?
Or charging for it? 🤔
That sucks! They're headed in the wrong direction with that aren't they? They should legalize it, like weed, and regulate it. Or am I off on that one? 😶


GhostofH 65M
22788 posts
9/8/2021 1:33 pm

I am like you, Paul.... a 'gentleman'. I myself have never 'paid' for it, however like you, I do enjoy wining and dining as a prelude to the evening's adventures. I never looked at it as 'paying' for it as I too enjoy some of the finer things life has to offer too. Great post!


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/8/2021 6:47 pm

    Quoting GhostofH:
    I am like you, Paul.... a 'gentleman'. I myself have never 'paid' for it, however like you, I do enjoy wining and dining as a prelude to the evening's adventures. I never looked at it as 'paying' for it as I too enjoy some of the finer things life has to offer too. Great post!
I'm always looking for a metaphor, so 'paying for it' fit in.

But you're right. When you're with the perfect company, it'll never seem as if you've paid for it. It's the preamble, the entrée, the intro to the song.
And that song with a perfect chorus is worth the money — and so true with an established amour.

It's when my heart's not in it, or I'm with someone new; THEN, I wonder if the movie and popcorn 🍿 are worth it. 🤔


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
9/12/2021 1:24 am

I was going to say something along the lines of GhostofH - which is that if you enjoy a good restaurant meal and some drinks ANYWAY, then it shouldn’t be viewed as a price of admission.

Since I’m not particularly in need of money, I’m pretty sure that any amount remotely tempting would be more than the customer would want to pay for an average looking 63 yo woman.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/12/2021 9:00 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    I was going to say something along the lines of GhostofH - which is that if you enjoy a good restaurant meal and some drinks ANYWAY, then it shouldn’t be viewed as a price of admission.

    Since I’m not particularly in need of money, I’m pretty sure that any amount remotely tempting would be more than the customer would want to pay for an average looking 63 yo woman.
It shouldn't, but it could be. It was a thought.

Average? Isn't it what's in the engine and how it performs — NOT what the doors look like?
I'd never put a dollar amount to it, unless I had bills to pay. Then again, I'm over the hill, for those six time time per day play-times.
High school counselors never offer this one up as a career choice, do they? 🤔 😮❗❗


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
9/12/2021 3:57 pm

>> Average? Isn't it what's in the engine and how it performs — NOT what the doors look like?

Probably more so for unpaid relationships. My assumption is that if a guy is going to pay for it, he wants someone with an attractive face and a good body in addition to her being good at sex. (Maybe some don't even care so much about the 'good at sex' part? As long as they can get an orgasm out of the experience, which is pretty easy for a lot of guys).


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/12/2021 6:52 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    >> Average? Isn't it what's in the engine and how it performs — NOT what the doors look like?

    Probably more so for unpaid relationships. My assumption is that if a guy is going to pay for it, he wants someone with an attractive face and a good body in addition to her being good at sex. (Maybe some don't even care so much about the 'good at sex' part? As long as they can get an orgasm out of the experience, which is pretty easy for a lot of guys).
Hmmm...
I don't know about YOU, but the best fucks I've ever enjoyed — were the ones that also messed with my head.

That sly smile she'd flash, that look; because she KNEW that she was tripping me out with something that she was doing. That grin and laugh she'd share — before she reached out with her fingertips.

I understand what you mean. And true, I have boundaries for what attracts me, but my vice — is a woman with a wicked mind. You can't randomly pick THAT one up anywhere.

What does this have to do with a price?

Nothing, and everything.

Those dollar bills don't follow the LOOK; they follow the mind and that whole trip. You know what I mean. 😎 ❗

And you're right — how would you find that man? Better yet, how would he find you? 🤔
Dja have any flares? 🙃


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
10/4/2021 12:03 pm

    Quoting  :

Good point.
Been there, done that. 😶


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