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benard69 66M/66F  

11/1/2018 3:36 pm

Life with out Touching is like Peanut Butter without Jelly...


bisexualcharle69 59M

11/1/2018 3:55 pm

Don39t Touch Me. I love touch and have no idea why some people r that way. I could not imagine life without touch.


mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
11/1/2018 4:04 pm

i feel like those touch-me-nots are somehow afraid of intimacy.so...how could that NOT affect their sexuality in some degree?personally, i've never had a hug that didnt leave me feeling better..

woop woop


astute2r3 68M

11/1/2018 4:15 pm

I concur! Love to touch, rub, tease and enjoy the merging of two warm bodies of flesh. If I am unable to touch, I am also unable to fully enjoy the sensations and feelings that can be mutually enjoyed. I imagine that most (not all for sure) consider touch to be a small part of foreplay. I believe that the Mental stimulation can be a huge factor with Physical stimulation. I believe two givers make the best lovers. Shared Mutually Enjoyed Sex. Just my opinion.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/1/2018 4:31 pm

I'm a hugger. I enjoy touch, hugging and all that goes with it. I wouldn't say I hug everyone I meet..but friends , family, etc. yeah, they all get hugs.

As far as a sexual nature, before during and after. Just has to be.

Sleeping I'm 50/50 sometimes I like to cuddle, and other times I need my space.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/1/2018 4:36 pm

May I suggest some purely scientific research. You and I get together and be touchy, feely and kissy. The we see how long we can go not being touchy, feely and kissy. This process would be repeated as needed.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/1/2018 4:41 pm

I'd say if they don't want to be touched clothed, then they won't want to be touched when they are naked - except in the most obvious of spots... 😱😨😺


SolarPowered0 117M
8346 posts
11/1/2018 4:44 pm



Wonder, my dear...

Bein's how I'm old and feeble, I have recently suffered from a decline in my touchy-feely sensations... in my left index finger and thumb. It really has no effect upon my "sexual" functions--not the kind that matter, that is. It does, however, provide me with an excruciating sadness for the loss of my guitar-playing abilities. (I can no longer feel the strings against the fretboard.)

Now... if I could get enough of them hugs, kisses, and even some of that foreplay, I suppose that might offset my sadness.

Solar...



#DoMeToo


1lobodonorte 57M

11/1/2018 5:21 pm

Love to be touched and touch are different matters. One becomes a better lover when we feel ourselves touching someone's mind and body


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
11/1/2018 5:29 pm

    Quoting  :

Well... If you think we're alone,🤔 I'd say take off your clothes , lie on the bed and I'll show you... 😊 I'll turn off the lights and light the candles... Ok? You're not the shy type are you? I'm a trained professional, so it's all good... Oh, hang on a sec, I left the scented lube in the living room... I'll be right back.. Eee.. 😊🍇


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/1/2018 6:25 pm

You Can't Touch This! do do do do ,do do do do!

Using more than all the road!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/1/2018 6:29 pm

    Quoting  :

Ohhh the things we'll do in the name of science and for mankind of course.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
11/1/2018 6:52 pm

I see redrock is showing signs of being a dirty ole man.. Good process if done scientifically, need complete data from experiment..

And their are ladies that just don't have this touchy feely after a good lengthy session, but before just as naughty as any one wants them to be,

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Justlookn4fun441 36M
20 posts
11/1/2018 9:26 pm

Touching is always a good thing. The more the better. I don't understand people who don't feel this way


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
11/1/2018 9:55 pm

Affection (in many forms) is the key, even influencing with cause and effect in some types of sexual interactions - obviously, of the more sensual, five-senses nature.

Perhaps its not about "how it affects sex" as much as an indication of the type of sexual interaction one might come to expect. Inasmuch as the extent of public display may also hint of playfulness, adventure, exhibitionism, narcissism and even being in that cloud space where no one else exist.

That said, there would be (and has been) those circumstances where social embarrassment, fear of ridicule and hidden relationships wouldn't necessarily follow conventional wisdom.

I still get a kick out of seeing an 85 year old couple holding hands as they walk down the street.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
11/2/2018 1:05 am

I am NOT a hugger, especially of someone I have just be introduced to that I didnt know I would meet & have no PHYSICAL interest in. If someone I CHOSE to meet, yeah, I will hug in return, no prob. If someone I DO have a physical interest in, sure I WILL hug in return, but I dont initiate the physical contact, as I am aware not everyone is ready for that contact until they get to know someone abit first. Once I know someone, thats totally different, and if someone I eventaully do get physical with, oh yeah, hugging, kissing, stroking, all that is part of who I am!


SolarPowered0 117M
8346 posts
11/2/2018 1:44 am



Wonder167 writes:

How tragic and yes, sad!! I'd be more than happy to assist with said hugs and even foreplay for the sole purposes of making you feel better! That's how I roll, so unselfish and willing to do for others.....hmmm, but what am I getting out of it?



Oh, BABY--

I'd be so freakin' appreciative for such a selfless act of kindness!!!

As to what you could get out of the "arrangement"... I thought I made it clear that it was only my LEFT index finger and thumb...

Solar...



#DoMeToo


JimmyB7474 59M

11/2/2018 6:51 am

It's a medical fact that human contact is good for your health. Why place the newborn on Mom's bare chest? Why do infants in the ICU require human contact while being in the hospital? Huggs are one thing you can give away and get back the same time. Human contact lowers your stress levels, increases your endorphins and helps align your spirit. For those who don't want to be touched, you are missing out people. Jimmy B.

My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
11/2/2018 9:52 am

Ooh, how can ye not want to be touched....... Mind, I know a young lady who won't let her husband share her pillow.........!!

I'm very tactile, with the right person of course, and at the right time........I can't imaging not wanting to touch my girl............


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
11/2/2018 12:13 pm

I do not like touching people I don't know, enough that I wished we were a culture of bowing or namaste rather than shaking hands. However, I do enjoy hugging my mother, my close friends.

And if I had one, my significant other. People might wonder if I cared about my SO, if they ever saw me with him, because I'm not big on PDAs at all. I'll hold hands but that's it. But in private, he and I'd be hugging and cuddling a lot.


banjo6660 57M
615 posts
11/5/2018 6:47 am

I have had relations with women that like to be touched in public such as a quick grap of the butt cheek and others that dont like it. It has been my experience that women who like to be touched make better lovers, but not necessarily better partners for long term relations. Honestly I think it depends on the person.


big_pener 23M

11/8/2018 5:58 pm

I imagine there would just have to be a higher level of trust more than anything.


HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
11/11/2018 2:41 pm

Touching, looks of love or adoration, kisses, it is a must have. Lite touches in public or private every day are great things.


Lilyjareth 43F
9 posts
11/24/2018 10:03 pm

I love touching and being touched. People who don’t werent loved as children. Kinda sad.


LaidbackFoCoDave 51M

11/25/2018 7:36 pm

I couldn't be with someone like that. I need the touchy feeley..


JoKeR69_57 44M
43 posts
11/26/2018 8:35 pm

if my partner (meaning her) wants cuddles or a hug i have no issues doing whatever to make her happy, but for i don't like being touched by random people, which sometimes i suppose isn't the right perception in certain situations.

if karma is a bitch... then god is a woman =)


lobodonorte66 57M

11/27/2018 7:48 am

I do love to be touched. Isn't skin our most extesive body part and sensory device? Don´t we say we were or feel touched by someone's words, behavior or physical touch?


Sensal2 43M
17 posts
11/29/2018 12:58 pm

I have got so used to sleeping when i touch my partner , could be any part of her body, legs , feet, arms as long as i know she is there, yet when she's not i cant sleep at all!


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