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Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/20/2018 9:44 pm

Who are you to judge a person by what you seen on the screen. ... Like it or not, on the internet what you see and read is all you have to form an opinion. Judging others is okay. Who told you it isn't okay.

In fact, you judged that woman, without meeting her, to be a "Pretty lady". That is a judgment.

Who are you to judge a person by what you think they should or shouldn't do. .... If they ask, I, you, Bigglala, anyone else, will offer advice about what they should or shouldn't do. People do that. Is it wrong? No.

Who are you to judge anyone when you have never walk in there shoes. ..... Judging only so much , is not wrong. Being willing to change your judgment is what counts you as a good or bad person. Not whether you judged.

Who are you to judge a person if you have no idea what they are dealing with in their home. ... You mean like a married man /woman looking for some side action? People get annoyed when that mythical permanent relationship promise goes side ways. They don't take into account the reality that usually for someone to cheat, they have been given a "Reason". A reason strong enough for them to seek what they need somewhere else.

I try to understand why we live in a time where if a woman decides she wants to have an extra marital its OK, but if a man does it he's a dog or a no go low life whatever whatever. ... Typically women who have been cheated on react the strongest to a married man seeking what he needs. Men generally don't care if a woman is seeking outside.

Also we live in a time where women can make an allegation , and ruin someones life without due process of a court and jury. That's very wrong.

I have always been a respectful person and I am a firm believer that in order to get respect you have to give it. .... Not necessarily. Respect is earned. You might give respect, counting on a quid pro quo, but that isn't realistic. If you give respect, then you give respect without strings. Your choice to give respect to someone who has not yet earned your respect.

Ladies .... Btw, to refer to women, as "Ladies", that's a judgment, too. In this case, unconfirmed, but you're taking the high ground - presenting yourself as a doormat , regarding them, until you are shown otherwise. I would not do that, but that's me.

before you judge ask yourself what make me better than them. .... Judging a person is not always about being better or superior. Just a perspective , until shown otherwise.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
2/21/2018 5:01 am

People are judgemental. Always have been and always will be. They just say they aren’t to make themselves sound nice. Ignore the haters and do what is for you.


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
2/21/2018 6:14 am

You are not a dog for cheating . Low life or whatever. I will not insult any animal by comparing them to any person who cheats .

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/21/2018 9:21 pm

Yes, you're not a dog for cheating, the person who gave you the reason to cheat is the dog or whatever insult you think befits him, or her. Of course sometimes cheating happens because they are bored, or initially inexperienced and what to see what others feel like.

For someone to cheat, usually there is a reason, and there has to be an opportunity.


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