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Like wtf just happened? lol  

bitchkitty2017 71F
2245 posts
8/1/2019 4:34 am
Like wtf just happened? lol


Man things keep getting , I can't say weird but sure get confusing on this site..Been talking off and on to a seemingly nice chap who said he was viewing my profile alot, and i seen he was almost every time i was on here ..Said he was a bit shy , and i dont mind shy . I don't altogether trust many people on here especially guys who show too much enthusiasm and have to continually ask personal questions and too focused on sex. Hey come on there is way more to a woman than sex...she likes to at least hear that and there is nothing wrong with decent conversation...
Now this guy is local and i totally was pleased with that , so cool finally...and he said he read my profile which specifically states fwb because of my disability..Now sure i realize most men do want a woman who is complete and whole ..I been around awhile and am not a dummy when it comes to the whole scene..I am not a first draft pick and my age and disability is going against me ..sigh!
We chatted and he said he was cool with me and what i was asking for..He kind of hinted that if we met and clicked he did want sex right away ...Told him i couldnt promise him that right away , he said ok ..so i figured he was ok with that , now at this point i had no face pic of him he said he wanted to meet without that aspect..told him i wasnt too keen on that but we could meet...So today was the day we set to meet at 1 pm near town
Woke up came on here and the message read as follows.." sorry to have to do this on such short notice , but i have to meet someone in Halifax and i wont be able to meet you because this other meeting sounds promising..I hope you meet someone that is right for you.."Like wtf? I left a not so nice message back...and i am not a poor loser because the fact i said i couldnt make any promise i would jump between the sheets, hoping he would get whats coming to him and not in a good way...called him an asshole and dropped any messages ...Now if his " new meet " works out he has to drive prob an hour as opposed to 20 minutes..Fuck head? yep major one indeed..
Thanks for listening.

bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 4:35 am

Baa baa sheep sheep...lead me to the edge of the cliff so i can kick you the hell off!!


Overratedsite 64M
24 posts
8/1/2019 4:38 am

Not even a rant...just a reasonable point of view from you. Fellow clearly wasn't looking for much more than 20min.


bert_99 69M

8/1/2019 4:44 am

I'm so sorry to hear about the really quite horrible experience you have just had. I totally agree with your reactions to this. A real bummer. Hang in there & take care.


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
8/1/2019 5:01 am

I am so sorry to hear. I insist on face pic exchange prior to meeting, if they can not do that we will not meet. By now a red flag for me. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Have a great day, big hugs.


kingko45 57M
42 posts
8/1/2019 5:08 am

sorry to hear..........unpleasant massage


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:09 am

    Quoting Overratedsite:
    Not even a rant...just a reasonable point of view from you. Fellow clearly wasn't looking for much more than 20min.
I dont normally do this anyway its just a part of life for me and i understand if they say from the jump but to lead a person on and just like that chop off the other parts that are real important ..lol heart is never the same each time


OldrHarleyGuy 72M

8/1/2019 5:09 am

Same thing has happened a lot with this old man here. Shame we are not located closer, we could compare notes and stories, maybe even hit it off, as we seem to be looking for pretty much the same things. Seems my contacts are always looking for much more right out of the gate and I'm a bit too slow for them, I need to know someone before serious things happen.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/1/2019 5:10 am

The good news is he showed his cards before the meet. He would not show a pic so he is asshole ugly. He is only after a quick fuck and would probably never show up again. He thinks he found something better. Bet she rejects his ugly ass. Here’s hoping. And will probably sniff around again after she dumps him. I think you came out the winner in this.


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:10 am

    Quoting bert_99:
    I'm so sorry to hear about the really quite horrible experience you have just had. I totally agree with your reactions to this. A real bummer. Hang in there & take care.
yeah and i shouldnt let it bother me as much as it does..well least i can say is his loss ..hope his meeting does not work out...lol i am not gonna block him but if he comes back i will torment the crap out of him..ha ha


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:11 am

    Quoting 1seeking1:
    I am so sorry to hear. I insist on face pic exchange prior to meeting, if they can not do that we will not meet. By now a red flag for me. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Have a great day, big hugs.
thanks from the heart and if his new meet is not going to work out i hope he comes back here on my profile its gonna be torture for him...lol


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:12 am

    Quoting kingko45:
    sorry to hear..........unpleasant massage
it is yes and its not like i dont get all kinds but if he wasnt interested in anything but a roll he could have said hes 58 yrs old so he should act like a man.


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:14 am

    Quoting OldrHarleyGuy:
    Same thing has happened a lot with this old man here. Shame we are not located closer, we could compare notes and stories, maybe even hit it off, as we seem to be looking for pretty much the same things. Seems my contacts are always looking for much more right out of the gate and I'm a bit too slow for them, I need to know someone before serious things happen.
yes i am sure we could as i have no one to do that with and i think its a very refreshing thing to have any conversations with people who have a fresh perspective on things thanks


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:16 am

    Quoting positively4you:
    The good news is he showed his cards before the meet. He would not show a pic so he is asshole ugly. He is only after a quick fuck and would probably never show up again. He thinks he found something better. Bet she rejects his ugly ass. Here’s hoping. And will probably sniff around again after she dumps him. I think you came out the winner in this.
I appreciate your positivity as your profile name suggests you seem like a very positive person ..I think i am the lucky one here showing his face prob would have put me off anyway..lol yeah let him go on thinking he did better ..cant wait..


NakedHermit4u 55M

8/1/2019 5:19 am

You dodged a bullet it seems. Hey, let him have his "promising" encounter. He was only looking for a sure thing. My guess is, if the meet went well, he feared you making his eyes rolling back into his head and speaking gibberish. LOL
I get what you are saying. You make a commitment and stick with it. Patience. Something we lack nowadays. Like these Offer Up folk. Be there in 10 minutes, arrive and they sold it knowing you were a few minutes out. Might be some cosmic event at play but usually it wasn't meant to be and I do find a better one at a better price shortly thereafter. I dare bet that if this other person was a member here as well, I don't suspect there will be a testimonial posted highlighting their encounter. Muhahaaaa.


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:20 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks sweetheart and i stand by my convictions as to being a disabled person and being honest right from the jump so people know its not an issue to me and if they have a problem with this its their problem...thanks


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:23 am

    Quoting NakedHermit4u:
    You dodged a bullet it seems. Hey, let him have his "promising" encounter. He was only looking for a sure thing. My guess is, if the meet went well, he feared you making his eyes rolling back into his head and speaking gibberish. LOL
    I get what you are saying. You make a commitment and stick with it. Patience. Something we lack nowadays. Like these Offer Up folk. Be there in 10 minutes, arrive and they sold it knowing you were a few minutes out. Might be some cosmic event at play but usually it wasn't meant to be and I do find a better one at a better price shortly thereafter. I dare bet that if this other person was a member here as well, I don't suspect there will be a testimonial posted highlighting their encounter. Muhahaaaa.
Yes i agree if he would have kept our meet then it wasnt what he or i wanted why just not go seperate ways instead of the old roll and tuck..lol I have no issue with anyone but attraction needs to be there and if its not act like an adult and say ..not boot someone you never met lol thanks sweetheart for the support..


routerdf220088 65M
54 posts
8/1/2019 5:33 am

sounds like he was the loser in this ,,not a very bright person , meeting someone to see if you have attraction is key to good sex , if you are just doing it for sex. well then you will not have a enjoyable life maybe a moment but nothing more.


BBCNSA88 54M  
62 posts
8/1/2019 5:37 am

Good vibes and trust and honesty, helps ,but no one doe it


Dontbgentle2 55M

8/1/2019 5:41 am

Sorry to hear. But yes you probably dodged a bullet! Screw that guy...and not ina good way! Plenty more of us cool guys out there! Move on!


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
8/1/2019 5:42 am

He is a first class boor!!! How rude to let you know in a message right before the 1 pm selected time. Asshat- well, maybe that is doing asshats an injustice.
Good thing the true colors showed up now.I was gong to say "screw him" but you didnt get that chance( smirk). There is someone out there that is honest and has manners- torment is too good

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mywifeknowsimbi 24M

8/1/2019 5:52 am

you are clearly better off without having to waste any more of your time on him


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:54 am

    Quoting routerdf220088:
    sounds like he was the loser in this ,,not a very bright person , meeting someone to see if you have attraction is key to good sex , if you are just doing it for sex. well then you will not have a enjoyable life maybe a moment but nothing more.
Plainly put thats a truthful comment ..attraction is to me if i am spending time with that person as an fwb i dont think its asking too much..but each his own


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:55 am

    Quoting BBCNSA88:
    Good vibes and trust and honesty, helps ,but no one doe it
Sadly lots of men say things that they think a woman wants to hear and falling for it just entices them to do mare damage than good..Thanks


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 5:57 am

    Quoting Dontbgentle2:
    Sorry to hear. But yes you probably dodged a bullet! Screw that guy...and not ina good way! Plenty more of us cool guys out there! Move on!
I know and appreciate the good guys even though there are few here in my neck of the woods ..married and cheating without permission here seems like the norm ..i dont interact with men who are attached whether she knows or not i got too much to lose here if i am fingered . by the spouse


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 6:00 am

    Quoting pocogato12:
    He is a first class boor!!! How rude to let you know in a message right before the 1 pm selected time. Asshat- well, maybe that is doing asshats an injustice.
    Good thing the true colors showed up now.I was gong to say "screw him" but you didnt get that chance( smirk). There is someone out there that is honest and has manners- torment is too good
I agree you know when i wrote the blog i was feeling down but knowuing there are better men around is my positive note as well as you people who support me in anything ...that makes up for all the idiots out there who let a person down..thanks...he just told me things that he thought i wanted to hear ...thanx


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 6:01 am

    Quoting mywifeknowsimbi:
    you are clearly better off without having to waste any more of your time on him
you are right i dont have the time to waste on losers who dont have any idea what the things they do affect people...his loss !


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
8/1/2019 6:50 am

Its happens to us all. Will probably happen again at some point. U have invested time in getting to know him....and for most of us. females....that very fact creates major disappointment., when they turn out to be idiots. The good news is that, you wont invest any more feeling with him.....cuz he clearly doesnt have a clue. ~~


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/1/2019 7:12 am

I bet he is going to meet Molly.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/1/2019 7:13 am

MollyLove1


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 11:55 am

yeah maybe lol and a hardy ha ha ha thats some brave now isnt it thats a real winner ..omg i never seen the likes...


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 11:57 am

    Quoting  :

yeah i know and you know since you guys have responded so well to the post its a great feeling to actually see that i am not the only one it does happen to..i been stood up so many times i cannot remember the count ..Thanx from the bottom of my heart... : ))))


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/1/2019 11:59 am

    Quoting jajo696:
    Its happens to us all. Will probably happen again at some point. U have invested time in getting to know him....and for most of us. females....that very fact creates major disappointment., when they turn out to be idiots. The good news is that, you wont invest any more feeling with him.....cuz he clearly doesnt have a clue. ~~
you are right hes history and any guy only gets one kick at the can he got his chance its a done deal thanx too many immature children on here these days..few show intelligence


Vixn_Vella 49F  
14911 posts
8/2/2019 10:22 am

I guess the silver lining is that you actually heard from him-even if to blow you off. Most men would just ghost. He saved you in the long run from wasting your time.

Still a dick move though lol

I have no effing clue where I'm going and what I'm saying Vixn_Vella

Its not me....It's you.

And no...we cannot be friends


sckinkcouple 66M/61F  
484 posts
8/2/2019 2:10 pm

I think you got lucky that you didn't waste time on that asshat. You are better than that. Don't let that loser affect you at all, it is his loss.


jd428776 57M
67 posts
8/2/2019 3:16 pm

Guy is a douche. Just another idiot thinking with his dick. I agree with the others.... you dodged a bullet. Be glad! NEVER lower the bar! If a man cannot meet the bar, then he's not worth your time. Your value is NEVER determined by anyone else! Ever. I'd block him and allow him to wonder what he missed.....


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/2/2019 3:20 pm

    Quoting  :

I am not 100% in agreement with that but i will say i did thank him for contacting me to tell me that but ....and this is a big butt...I dropped a couple meets just to accomodate him and his time he says is limited as is mine to meet him...he made the time and place and to me that is an obligation to actually meet and man up nuts to honor that appointment? meet ..open communication is great when its warranted but to drop someone from a meet because of better ? fuck no i dont agree he was a man in that case...its a brazen and ignorant person that does this to any woman...Is better really better? I am as good as the next person and dont settle for scraps so i dont think someone else should ..and to drive an hour and half to get laid? lol how is that finding better?


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/2/2019 3:23 pm

    Quoting sckinkcouple:
    I think you got lucky that you didn't waste time on that asshat. You are better than that. Don't let that loser affect you at all, it is his loss.
naw i actually forgot about him already funny thing is though he was on my profile today prob reading the nasty note i left him ..lol thanx


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/2/2019 3:26 pm

    Quoting jd428776:
    Guy is a douche. Just another idiot thinking with his dick. I agree with the others.... you dodged a bullet. Be glad! NEVER lower the bar! If a man cannot meet the bar, then he's not worth your time. Your value is NEVER determined by anyone else! Ever. I'd block him and allow him to wonder what he missed.....
yeah i dont let it bother me too much only reason i put this here was to let ppl know whats out there ..i mean just because i am disabled it doesnt mean i am helpless he will come back i seen him on my profile today lol...I wont block him if he wants to apologize its ok i wont give him shit but a chance to make amends


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/2/2019 5:06 pm

    Quoting  :

Point taken filed away and thanks for the comment ...I dont argue to make a point but its still rude to not at least meet and judge from there instead of hounding me at every corner and making me feel good only to do what he done..still should have kept the meet it would have only taken a second to say he wasnt interested......thanks


scoupe42 60M

8/3/2019 7:26 am

Sorry to hear, hang in there!


DiscoverMidlife 58M
124 posts
8/3/2019 7:32 am

for what it is worth I am a 53 yo man. I just read your post and I DO think you are a first draft pick. Very sexy to me!


anythingoesinvic 44M
20 posts
8/6/2019 7:33 am

sounds like a reasonable "rant". I understand you being upset


hpmoped1 69M
10 posts
8/8/2019 10:02 pm

Men can be cruel hu. You must hang in there get pics and try again


lurch4040 55M
11 posts
8/13/2019 3:58 am

sorry to hear


wackerpp 53M
256 posts
8/14/2019 10:21 pm

Sorry to hear that, but as the others mentioned probably you dodged a bullet there.
hopefully he drove an hour only to find a nice hairy dude waiting for him


Con_Ganas_2017 27M

8/17/2019 2:25 pm

Deliciousss body! ! ! !


MediaDad1983 43M

8/20/2019 1:59 am

I wish people would do this more often. So not worth your time and effort and weeding themselves out before you have spent time and money on them. Its a shitty thing it happened but better this way than a date the promise of more and then ghosting


Nothin2serious64 60M

8/22/2019 11:26 am

Yes stick to us nice single guys .....


myface4fun 43M
15 posts
8/22/2019 4:12 pm

I dunno if my chat is working or not. Haven’t had a IM response in 2 months. But who knows lol


Highdrive1905 47M

8/26/2019 6:20 pm

life is an experience


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