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WHAT WOMEN WANT  

Cuddly_Kitten 54F
15144 posts
2/24/2019 12:49 pm
WHAT WOMEN WANT


Guys.... guys... guys....

It's not some big secret that we women keep to ourselves... it's kind of common sense.

As women, we want to feel appreciated and valued. We want to know that we are important to you. We want to feel secure. We want to feel beautiful.

Is it important to have a lot of money? Hmmmm.... well.... good question. Some women want money and material items... but for the most part... as long as you're not a bum... it's not the most important thing....

I personally don't mind paying once in while when we go out for dinner or drinks..... it's more about the company for me....

So remember boys..... if you have someone special in your life... treat her like a princess.

THAT'S JUST MY THOUGHT OF THE DAY....
How do you feel about it?

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
2/24/2019 12:50 pm



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nice2eatu2019 59M  
310 posts
2/24/2019 12:54 pm

Even if you are not Bill Gates rich, being a gentleman and paying is not hard! It's also not hard paying attention to her likes and interests. That way you can surprise her! One day I will find one to spoil again


Cuddly_Kitten replies on 2/24/2019 12:56 pm:
very well said my new friend

Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
2/24/2019 1:01 pm



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HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
2/24/2019 1:01 pm

Sometimes lack of communications can cause the most problems, and sometimes people are just oblivious to others needs, wants and wishes.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
2/24/2019 1:03 pm

    Quoting HoHowdy:
    Sometimes lack of communications can cause the most problems, and sometimes people are just oblivious to others needs, wants and wishes.
I guess some women should just get lap dogs......lol

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Horny_Cat68 55M  
582 posts
2/24/2019 1:07 pm

Well I can tell you when I go out with a woman, it may not always be the fanciest places to go, but as a gentleman, I always pay, it's how I was brought up, I don't believe in dutch treat, or the woman paying.

I love the way you make me horny without even doing anything.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
2/24/2019 1:08 pm

    Quoting Horny_Cat68:
    Well I can tell you when I go out with a woman, it may not always be the fanciest places to go, but as a gentleman, I always pay, it's how I was brought up, I don't believe in dutch treat, or the woman paying.
AWE..... I always knew you were a gentleman.

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Briansbro 63M
51 posts
2/24/2019 1:09 pm

It always amazes me that men don't understand that it is those basic things that women really appreciate. Being listened to, respected, appreciated for who they are and what they think and do. And loved, truly loved. Strangely, men's wishes are not greatly different......


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
2/24/2019 1:11 pm

    Quoting Briansbro:
    It always amazes me that men don't understand that it is those basic things that women really appreciate. Being listened to, respected, appreciated for who they are and what they think and do. And loved, truly loved. Strangely, men's wishes are not greatly different......
I've noticed that at first men are like that but as time goes by.... they CHANGE..... lol.

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notsure1949 74M
10657 posts
2/24/2019 1:14 pm

well said


Horny_Cat68 55M  
582 posts
2/24/2019 1:19 pm

    Quoting Cuddly_Kitten:
    AWE..... I always knew you were a gentleman.
Yeah! you don't have to be rich or well off to have a good time with someone, people from all walks of life get together all the time and find a way to make it work, and showing respect to someone, being attentive to their needs and desires, or just listening to them, should be the easiest thing a person can do.

I love the way you make me horny without even doing anything.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
2/24/2019 1:20 pm

I know what they don't want - me!

Different women like different things, as you say in your post. It is just finding the woman that is looking for the same things are you are, or you are able to offer what she is looking for whether that is security, material things, love/affection, a family.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


scott6250 61M

2/24/2019 1:59 pm

I agree with you. I do like to be the one to take care of the bills on dates etc.. as well as take good care of my lady.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


Lookin4coup00 45M
1 post
2/24/2019 2:38 pm

What if she’s you bf’s wife, wait until he goes to work?


New2Midlo 54M
1075 posts
2/24/2019 3:07 pm

Common sense that most guys are completely ignorant to. I tend to treat my partner as a princess AND an equal, though.


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
2/24/2019 3:19 pm

I've done QUITE well making women know they're special to me - see my response on the poll below!

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FBWC342 52M
446 posts
2/24/2019 3:37 pm

I can't and don't disagree with all the common sense. However, I do think part of the problem for some guys can be finding that happy medium where they are being attentive and appreciative of the significant other in their life without being cloying, needy or intrusive about it.

It's something that can be taken too far without even trying. Even being gentlemanly can go to an extreme if you get so focused on it that you won't make any sort of move even if given clear signals (been there, done that way too many times lol ).

As mentioned earlier, communication is the key.


tmacshane26 39M
2092 posts
2/24/2019 3:55 pm

I just want to have a connection with someone, talk to them about their day and listen to them. I want to see if we have anything in common. When were together I don't mind paying bill when we go out to dinner as long as we talk about it after we eat. I just to to make her happy and feel comfortable being together. It's about sex for me. The sex would be good, being with her, cuddling with at night and spending time together would be happy.

Kitten is everything okay? Last night your profile disappeared, and so did our groups. I wasn't sure if you deleted your profile for good. I was also wasn't sure if you deleted my friendship. Your not showing up as a top fan, and I'm not showing as a top fan on your top fan page.


hrdallnght4u 67M

2/24/2019 4:25 pm

Love,Trust,and Passion are more important than Money..I was brought up by
My Father to respect a Woman..and one as Gorgeous as You really needs to
be treated real special..

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


Story435 76M
3791 posts
2/24/2019 4:40 pm

Hello Kitten
I always treat a lady very nice no other way. If they want you for the money pass them by not worth that!
Classy Cat


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/24/2019 4:51 pm

It's not some big secret that we women keep to ourselves... it's kind of common sense. ..... Who complains that women keep to themselves?

As women, we want to feel appreciated and valued. .... Really though, who doesn't? .... However, if you [or anyone] want to feel appreciated and valued, then you have to earn that. Appreciation and value is not just bestowed on women, or anyone.

We want to know that we are important to you. ......There would have to be a good reason for a man to feel a woman is important to him.

We want to feel secure. .... Then work on your own security. Your security is up to you now.

We want to feel beautiful. .... Ha.. okay, but some of you just won't because some women are just not beautiful.

Is it important to have a lot of money? .... To live comfortably you need an income to sustain that level of comfort. Sure, some women, certainly not the less attractive, can look to men to provide money for you, but fewer and fewer men are keen on providing financial security for women anymore.

So remember boys..... if you have someone special in your life . treat her like a princess. ..... No...

I see no reason to treat any woman like she's a princess. Never put a woman above you. Have a healthier sense of self.


lonlyforlove2 81M
32704 posts
2/24/2019 5:26 pm

To quote , Heathen_G……"I see no reason to treat any woman like she's a princess. Never put a woman above you. Have a healthier sense of self." To me statements like this are as far off the Real track as one can be, If she is your princess, treat her like she is, If you want her to be your princess, treat her like a princess , the instant I put myself above her, I have lost, I respect my self as a person but to keep the affection and attention of your princess you have to work at it... I assure you most likely the guy I quoted does not have a PRINCESS, and with his attitude will never..

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AliOrbit 67F
624 posts
2/24/2019 5:42 pm

Very well said.


hobie2017 66M
190 posts
2/24/2019 7:00 pm

1. As women, we want to feel appreciated and valued.. as a man, I also want to feel appreciated and valued - not just for my paycheck.
2. We want to feel secure - what does this mean? financially?, safety? I feel that in today's world that financial security is a partnership in a relationship. both need to earn and spend wisely. It a mutual effort and benefit.
3. We want to feel beautiful. You don't need a guy or a partner to feel beautiful. That should come from within. Develop a good body image independent of what others think and rock it. Don't depend on others to boost your self image because they can just as easily tear it down.
4. Is it important to have a lot of money? only if you earned it. Happiness can be found in many places. If you have a high standard of living - go for it but don't depend on others for it. Make your own fortune - money or in other life riches.
5. if you have someone special in your life . treat her like a princess.... or a prince. Absolutely make that other person feel more special than anyone else can.


A1Xpleaser 65M
417 posts
2/24/2019 9:19 pm

Kitten, you are a good women who deserves everything you mentioned. Best wishes for you to find that man made just for you.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
2/25/2019 9:16 am

    Quoting A1Xpleaser:
    Kitten, you are a good women who deserves everything you mentioned. Best wishes for you to find that man made just for you.
Thank you pleaser..... and we have been friends for a long time.

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
2/25/2019 9:17 am



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Peg2Differ 52M  
17 posts
2/25/2019 9:55 am

I go out of my way to make sure she knows how special she is. I'm very old school, and I open doors, pay for everything, and compliment her. I understand that there are women that don't like that stuff, but they are not the type I am looking for then.
In the same way women like different things, so do guys. The idea behind the first few dates is finding out if you match. If a woman tries put me down for opening a door, then we can go our separate ways. It has got to work for both parties, and I know there is a woman that will appreciate me for appreciating her.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
2/26/2019 2:31 am

    Quoting hobie2017:
    1. As women, we want to feel appreciated and valued.. as a man, I also want to feel appreciated and valued - not just for my paycheck.
    2. We want to feel secure - what does this mean? financially?, safety? I feel that in today's world that financial security is a partnership in a relationship. both need to earn and spend wisely. It a mutual effort and benefit.
    3. We want to feel beautiful. You don't need a guy or a partner to feel beautiful. That should come from within. Develop a good body image independent of what others think and rock it. Don't depend on others to boost your self image because they can just as easily tear it down.
    4. Is it important to have a lot of money? only if you earned it. Happiness can be found in many places. If you have a high standard of living - go for it but don't depend on others for it. Make your own fortune - money or in other life riches.
    5. if you have someone special in your life . treat her like a princess.... or a prince. Absolutely make that other person feel more special than anyone else can.
Never combine incomes , always have your own separate accounts.

And keep you credit scores good, never get involved with a woman with a bad credit score.


69bud69 69M
7134 posts
3/29/2019 11:04 am

You have stated, for me, the obvious Kitten. There is nothing wrong with being a gentleman when you are with a woman.

Bud

Always Ready for Fun.


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