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pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/16/2018 11:51 am

BRAVO Let's just hope at least one person listens. I had a stalker from here. Fortunately, we never met in person but the local police went right after him. I am VERY careful about what I Give folks until I ma truly comfortable. Somehow after sharing an off-site email address with him, he scrounged around and dug up my unpublished, unlisted phone number and left messages on my house phone. He only lived 40 minutes away and I worked
nights- very scary
So be sure to protect you first

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positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
10/16/2018 12:10 pm

We all get the invitatation to go to his hotel while he is here on business. Who in their right mind would do such a thing? No sex is worth dying for.
And men can be set up just as much as women. Yet when we try to be careful, we are treated as fakes and flakes.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
10/16/2018 12:16 pm

Yeah, I don't get why some guys seem to ask in the chat rooms if they can meet up with someone that evening. Do you really think they're just going to say yes?

They'd have far better chance of meeting someone in a bar than on a website. At least that way you have some chance of getting to know them.

Baffies

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ItsThtPervertGuy 44M
484 posts
10/16/2018 12:20 pm

I agree SO Much!! I have met Women like that and it makes me wonder like wow, you sure are trusting. And every Woman I meet who is I always try to tell them ,look , I appreciate you trusting me so much and as humans we should be more toward each other but you should not invite people you just met to your home or have sex with them without some form of get to know each other period (which most of the women I met we did have).

Even still I would not let someone come to my home and I would not go to theirs. (Women are just as crazy) and as I am slightly paranoid anyway (maybe to many horror movies) I am always on guard. Besides sexual health your life is also ALLOT more important then a few orgasms.

Play it safe.

Wow Author I did not know Canada had crazies like that up there. That guy was one real Sick Mutha Fucka!! Putting body parts in peoples homes. That has to be a movie by now! WOW!


Daytimer09B 55M
901 posts
10/16/2018 12:29 pm

It is hard to understand but I think we have all been there, maybe not with sex but with other things where impulse takes over brain reasoning. I have met several great people in the past but it was only after I had many conversations with them and then met in a very public location. Even though I am a guy I want to protect myself as well. One person I met was nothing like the pictures they sent. However, by meeting them in a public place and giving no vibes as we were going to do anything then, I was able to gracefully remove myself after an awkward luncheon. Even though they lied, I treated them the way I would treat anyone and the way I want to be treated. Two wrongs do not make a right. And being rude is never an option for anyone with a self conscience.


Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
10/16/2018 12:31 pm

Certainly something to be wary of...


tinroofrusted59 64M

10/16/2018 12:31 pm

Very good blog author! I as well enjoy my life and my health way too much. I must admit that if a meet goes well that the lust for the person can be excruciating but patience is well worth it. I have been shunned so to speak by some for my cautiousness.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/16/2018 12:36 pm

Great post and food for thought. With all the crazies running around these days, I really don't understand any lady going out with someone without getting to know them. I mean really.

But he's so charming and a gentleman? So was Ted Bundy.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


UturnBlow 53M
134 posts
10/16/2018 12:45 pm

#MeToo. I must caution all to the reality of life. Careful for what you ask for because you might get what you deserve.........just saying

All opinions and statistics are derived from a poll of 1 (me). The rate of error is plus/minus 100%.


scott6250 61M

10/16/2018 1:45 pm

It is a scary situation these days...gotta be extra careful.

"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


greyisbetter3 60M
142 posts
10/16/2018 2:51 pm

Couldn't agree with you more. Well said and illustrated.


Dtts43rt35 65M
15090 posts
10/16/2018 2:59 pm

Formerly there was no virtual world, it was real, today there is both! The dangers as you wrote, exist and will always exist! Care are essences in both worlds is your alert!

Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/16/2018 3:06 pm

I have to say my friend you definitely nailed this one as its so very true. And the problem with the sites MOTTO is "SIGN UP TODAY GET LAID TONIGHT" And yes there are many people that believe this and if they do they are not thinking clearly.

As you eloquently stated you must be extremely careful when meeting someone from here as you don't know them from Adam. The problem is that the ones that do meet up like you stated are just here for sexy. But Jeffrey Dahmer another Serial Killer was just the type that people need to be worried about as you never know who is hiding behind these computer screens.

So thank you my friend for writing this and lets just hope everyone reads this blog and takes it to heart!!!

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/16/2018 3:08 pm

I just want to add when I first joined this site, I too got a stalker from here, just by saying hello. I had him telling me I know where you live, I know when your home. I have to say this scared the SHIT out of me and my daughter and then we moved. I deleted my account here and started a new one. People don't realize that even if you are nice to them by just saying a simple hello well you have to be careful as I can only tell you what happened to me..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Story435 76M
3791 posts
10/16/2018 3:55 pm

Hello Joy
Wow some people I guess don't care about them self!
I have been with 3 ladies on here. We always meet in a public place first to talk and get to know each other. Never had sex on first meet that's just dumb and stupid. These ladies we chatted for months before first meet witch is ok with me. One of these ladies I still see about once a month.
My gf it did not take that long at all but we already knew each other from school! We have a understanding no getting married to each other we want to be free. We have our kids to think of and getting married this late in life may not work. We are thinking about money and what is best for us.
Butch


GreenEyedLady_60 63F
1925 posts
10/16/2018 4:56 pm

No way would I be meeting anyone in anything other than a very public place for quite a few times (along with emailing and talking on the phone) before I would consider taking them into my bed (so to speak)! Casual or anonymous sex is just not my style.

One is only asking for potential trouble meeting someone for the first time in a hotel room, or going to their house or apartment....getting into a car with them is even risky too. In my opinion it is just plain stupid! At least until you get to know them much better.

The old adage - Better safe than sorry....sounds about right!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
10/16/2018 5:10 pm

I have been swinging for many years, but do it very carefully. I am at the point now where I have swing friends that I have known for a while now. They play it safe too, So the sex is HOT!!!
Great post Sexy!!


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
10/16/2018 5:24 pm

    Quoting  :

Thankfully it was a yahoo email that is where all my junk mail goes!!!

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easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
10/16/2018 8:25 pm

Hi Joy...

thanks for posting this public service message...

I have the fear of god in me when meeting a heavenly creature for the first time...

you are so right... there is no telling who or what they are...

so, yes, we should all be careful...

made me think of this one...

Frank Sinatra - "Strangers in the Night"

Strangers in the night
Exchanging glances
Wondering in the night
What were the chances
We'd be sharing love
Before the night was through?
Something in your eyes
Was so inviting
Something in your smile
Was so exciting
Something in my heart told me I must have you
Strangers in the night, two lonely people
We were strangers in the night
Up to the moment when we said our first hello
Little did we know
Love was just a glance away, a warm embracing dance away
And ever since that night
We've been together
Lovers at first sight
In love forever
It turned out so right
For strangers…

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FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
10/16/2018 8:50 pm

I've had my share of one-night stands, but NEVER without first engaging in lengthy telephone conversations, learning about other aspects of the man's life. I tend to ask questions which tell me about their values - how have their previous relationships ended, how do they get along with their exes, what kind of family relationships do they have, what kind of an employer/employee are they, etc. etc. How they treat other people tells me a lot about them.

We will probably discuss goals, passions, hobbies etc., as well - which help me to understand how they think.

When I first started, I met some men who turned out to be quite different from how they represented themselves, but I chose to extricate myself from the situation very quickly. My personal safety is always more important than anything that may happen quickly without having put a lot of thought into it.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
10/16/2018 11:35 pm

Excellent post !!

Seems for some, safety gets thrown out the window if there's a chance at getting laid on the first meet.


mc_justmc 63M

10/17/2018 7:19 am

I've done the quick hook up a few times, I think if anyone was in danger, it was me!


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
10/17/2018 12:59 pm

I'm older and wiser now. There is now way I would immediately respond to any of those messages that have a link to an addy for instance.


Completeman7 53M
32 posts
10/23/2018 10:32 am

Okay do you need a photographer ma'am? lol... I love love love the pic of you hands up by window, pussy exposed, dayummm lady. now that's askin for it! lol... and back atcha. you didn't answer the question in my blog, guess it's a no? lol great blog blog here!


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