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Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
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5/12/2018 7:52 pm |
I make them friends of we like each other we go from there.
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5/12/2018 8:05 pm |
Never was interested in just a hookup, although it may have appeared differently sometimes, i like to get to know a prospective partner for a little while and see where things might be going first. I don't need to see the candy shop and play toys right off the bat, lets face it, all the girls have them, and yes, they all may be different in their own ways, shapes and forms, but I'll take my time and see for myself in due time. Granted this has been and continues to be a problem sometimes in that the prospective partner thinks I'm too slow and or too old and gets turned off, but it's my way of weeding out the undesirables and am guessing that's why I'm still looking so far for Ms right.
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Always a good idea to put your rules down before ever meeting... it will screen-out the persons so that they will not waste your time nor theirs.
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I'm a slightly podgy middle aged man and I want a long term mistress. I will always try for that, so my rules are quite strict. Intelligence, conversation skills and discretion are a must. I don't do casual hook ups. But for the mistress, I will lick her until she pushes me away, I'll do IT support, change lightbulbs and always pay for lunch. But I'll never pressure her to do anything she doesn't like. It has to be fun and interesting and regular.
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Fuck yeah
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mmmmm yeah with not any doubt ,
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A random hookup is like eating a big bag of potato chips. It might take away the urgency of the moment, but there is no substance to it. I want an on-going relationship, where we both enjoy each other, then go back home or where ever. I like a good FWB situation.
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A hookup is not even worth the effort. A vibrator works for me and with much fewer headaches involved.
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5/13/2018 5:59 am |
Hi, first of all I like that expression sex me sounds cool. I can understand how you feel about the casual hookup. More specifically the one night stand. I don't like one night stands. I have three kinds of relationships. Sex, more than sex, just friends. With all three getting to know and respect each other. If you want just sex, then let's have it on a regular basis; respecting and getting to know each other. If you want more than sex, we see each other on a regular basis; respecting and getting to know each other. The same with friendships.
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Something I never thought of. Makes sense.
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For me, casual sex is pretty much an audition for recurring sex. Is the sex good enough to be regular sex-friends? Do we get along well enough while not having sex to a friends with benefits? Do we get along so well that we want to be relationship partners? A one-night stand might be a situation where repeat performances are not possible even if it's really good (travel fun, for example), but generally it's just a matter of sex with a partner who just wasn't a good enough match to go back for more. Without a play pass, that's all pretty much hypothetical, but since I'm getting it good in a great relationship that doesn't matter. The main thing that's on the menu in a relationship setting is going without protection. It's a really nice convenience not having to worry about disease thanks to exclusivity. (Of course, exclusivity isn't perfectly safe if the partner isn't trustworthy, but one is supposed to be able to figure that out in a relationship.)
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So I will be honest I dont have a vetting process to identify hook up vs relationship. Sometime I have started things thinking it is a relationship, which end up being an extended hook up. I have been in a situation where I thought of it as a hookup, only to find myself in mutually rewarding and fulfilling relationship
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Off limits - that's a good question . . . I'd say I like to stick to the purpose of the hookup . . . . If I give too much of myself (including personal information), then the next thing I know they are taking things to the next level and want to get exclusive - even though they claim they don't. I don't want phone calls every day, wondering how I'm doing or how my day went or what I ate for dinner . . You know what I mean? Let's just share a good time and leave it at that. I don't want to f..k with anyone's head and I don't want mine messed with either. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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