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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
3/11/2018 1:45 pm

No your not the only one Lala, I think that's ridiculous, as men only get better and sexier with age..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


luv2suk1966 63M/57F
1927 posts
3/11/2018 1:49 pm

I tend to go for the younger guys, but I know several very sexy men over 55. Their experience is much appreciated.

Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
3/11/2018 1:52 pm

Still works for me.


92camaro66 57M
1753 posts
3/11/2018 1:54 pm

sucks getting old for sure


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
3/11/2018 2:07 pm

BS Us older gents are like fine Wines!! We improve with age

Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
3/11/2018 2:11 pm

Myself at 61 do not want a man younger then me by more then a few years. Even if I didn't I wouldn't be interested in most that write me. Good looks is nothing when crude messages show what they are like. Also having a dick picture is a turn off for me so he will not be desired by me no matter how attractive he is.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
3/11/2018 2:15 pm

It's all about perspective...your age vs their age and what you are comfortable with. For me, a lot older or a lot younger isn't my thing...I don't know why, but if he's closer in age to my kids or my parents, I have a problem with that. It's all me, my hangup. But, it's there.

The guy who made this "profound" statement, how old was he??

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
3/11/2018 2:16 pm

My age limit is 55... but it depends on the man.. I certainly wouldn't meet anyone old enough to be my dad or young enough to be my son! ... in America there appears to be some very hot men over 55 but in the UK... not really.


disago 55M

3/11/2018 2:16 pm

Please, PLEASE don't say masturbation doesn't count. The inner Me would be offended just enough to say, "Umm - we need to talk."


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
3/11/2018 2:40 pm

Quoting Biggi LaLa "Hey, like I said...don't shoot the messenger".

Not aimed at you Biggi, but the Dude that said that in the first place


Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


A_Charmin_Rogue 52M
51 posts
3/11/2018 2:44 pm

Hollywood seems to have no trouble pairing 50 something men with women in there 20s/30s


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
3/11/2018 2:48 pm

It depends on the person. Some 40 year olds are......”old”.
Some 50 plus are quite young. Men or women.


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
3/11/2018 2:58 pm

He's actually not far wrong, speaking as a near 55 year-old


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/11/2018 3:08 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    It's all about perspective...your age vs their age and what you are comfortable with. For me, a lot older or a lot younger isn't my thing...I don't know why, but if he's closer in age to my kids or my parents, I have a problem with that. It's all me, my hangup. But, it's there.

    The guy who made this "profound" statement, how old was he??
perspective...your age vs their age and what you are comfortable with.
This is what my experiences here suggest to me. I don't look to get with any woman younger than 40 and 50 is going to be closer to being similar in life experiences and compatibility . I would go with 60s from here but there very few. That said I have met a couple 30yos here who initiated contact with me.

IMO, blanket statements made on this site, like the ones about age (older, or younger) or "fakes", seem to generally be from people who have not been successful at meeting people.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/11/2018 3:11 pm

    Quoting  :

.the over 50 male crowd is looking for under 25 female crowd..

35+ you're too hold to hook up

Excellent . . . examples of incorrect blanket statements. Thank you

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
3/11/2018 3:37 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    perspective...your age vs their age and what you are comfortable with.
    This is what my experiences here suggest to me. I don't look to get with any woman younger than 40 and 50 is going to be closer to being similar in life experiences and compatibility . I would go with 60s from here but there very few. That said I have met a couple 30yos here who initiated contact with me.

    IMO, blanket statements made on this site, like the ones about age (older, or younger) or "fakes", seem to generally be from people who have not been successful at meeting people.
I think you hit a nail..."similar in life experiences"...how is a man with young children going to understand my perspective when I've got grown kids and grandkids...

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
3/11/2018 3:43 pm

Some of us reach the threshold of desirability and consideration when we hit 18!

Women and men of any legal age can become very desirable, it's all down to our genes what we find attractive.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


formula_g 69M
67 posts
3/11/2018 3:51 pm

in my humble opinion.....i do believe that 1sweetbitch and myself....together, . would rock the beach, the dance floor and the bedroom......


hrdallnght4u 67M

3/11/2018 3:55 pm

I don't feel a day over 40...

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


John324864 75M  
1221 posts
3/11/2018 3:57 pm

As for me I think I've gotten more pussy after I was over 55 than under 55 and some were younger than me and some older.


CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
3/11/2018 4:17 pm

It seems we become basically invisible, regardless of our individual specifics.

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tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
3/11/2018 4:33 pm

Maybe too old for women who are young enough to be there daughters? They most certainly may be desireable for women who are more or less their contemporaries.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
3/11/2018 4:57 pm

Now you've got me even more worried than ever


Januaryman99 55M  
327 posts
3/11/2018 5:40 pm

Geezus, I better get a move on.

But, first, before I start taking dating advice from some desperate loser using age to explain-away those two shrunken raisins dangling in the Crown Royal sack under his elasta-fit beltline, I'ma need to know a few things. Like, exactly how does he explain the first 54 years, 364 days? How many ketchup stains on the front of his Members Only jacket? Is he still using that dopey line, "If I said you had a great body would you hold it against me?" When he smiles, does it look like that skull on display in the Museum of Natural History? I could go on, but mostly - faaaaaaaaaaahk that pathetic doofus!

Stop by my BLOG => Januaryman99


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/11/2018 5:43 pm

    Quoting  :

The title of the post is Men Fifty-Five and Older Are Too Old To Be Desired

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


kcclaire0923 68F  
822 posts
3/11/2018 6:02 pm

No no no no no.....the best lover I have ever had I met in 2012 and he was age 60 at that time. We were hot and heavy for the next 5 years. He is now 65 and I am 62...Best passionate deep sex I have ever experienced. When he had any doubts, he would always call me his "natural viagra" and he performed FINE.

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marriedcretin 53M
1324 posts
3/11/2018 6:09 pm

Queen Lala, you are here to bless us with your insight, wit and intelligence.

I agree though, 55 is really old. You need someone younger...late 40's. That's the best age...we've aged nicely, but haven't yet gone to seed...

only joking. Age isn't important. It's the person.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
3/11/2018 6:23 pm

I think it's difficult for most folks in their 50's - men AND women - unless they're exceptionally attractive and somewhat young looking for their age.

I'd like to think that I'm not shallow, but it takes longer to develop the like/respect/attraction toward someone who is an average looking middle aged person. Because you can't fall back on simple lust based on appearance, you have to actually (gasp!) get to know them.

And as someone who also uses a vanilla dating site, I'll also say that a lot of middle aged guys aren't doing themselves any favors with the pictures that they post. I think most women put in an effort to make themselves as attractive as possible with makeup, lighting, angles.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
3/11/2018 6:30 pm

Thank god I'm 54 then.

Thoughts from the Garden...


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
3/11/2018 6:31 pm

if you live a healthy life , you will not look like a saggy baggy old suitcase of turnoff .thatsaid most americans live faaar from healthy .they are mostly, sick, tired, aged in mind and body ,lack energy , lack drive , are boring , predictable and slow. it is inevitable with 50 yrs of malnutrition toxicity, lack of exercise and poor sleep . i am trying to be hotter at 55 than i was at 35 , i think i am doing pretty well so far .


Woodyeverready 65M
1187 posts
3/11/2018 6:33 pm

Sounds like that fella you were talking to was feeling sorry for himself or fishing for a "you're still attractive" type compliment.

Woodrow J. Evers


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/11/2018 6:54 pm

BiggLala replies on 3/11/2018 7:21 pm:
Define success
In the case of the guy you mentioned it would be an older guy meeting women here. Overall, each person has to define what success here is to them.

You know I try to avoid blanket generalizations
I wasn't referring to anything you said.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
3/11/2018 7:07 pm

Once someone starts talking in generalities - it brands them as an idiot.

1 guy was telling another he was "undesirable"? Were either of them gay, or bi? And what would possess this guy to speak on behalf of women.

Yeah, he's an idiot.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
3/11/2018 7:13 pm

Since I haven't seen or met the man in question, I can't really form an opinion on his desirability.

But I have met many men 55+ who are extremely attractive, sexy as hell, and entirely fuckable.

He's NOT speaking for me.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


bigblackman21221 53M
4080 posts
3/11/2018 8:40 pm

That just leaves more women for me.
But I don't need anymore. What am I to do? Cloning humans hasn't been perfected yet, or has it and they didn't tell me?

Why am I on here for then?

The same reason that most other women in blogland aka dramaville are here for. To blog


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
3/11/2018 9:24 pm

BiggLala replies on 3/11/2018 9:27 pm:
Why do you always insist on bringing logic to discussions?
Ugh, must you??? I mean honestly!

Logic is usually closer to reality than some people think. So yes I must

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
3/11/2018 10:36 pm

Fuck that shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


MrB8848 75M
274 posts
3/11/2018 11:30 pm

care to revisit that when you pass 55? I may have to resort to chemical assistance (in the form of Sidennafil Citrate), but I'm not dead yet!...


MrB8848 75M
274 posts
3/11/2018 11:33 pm

Care to revisit this topic when you pass 55? I may have to resort to chemical assistance (in the form of Sidennafil Citrate), BUT I'm NOT DEA


Yours_4A_knight 59M

3/11/2018 11:34 pm

    Quoting  :

I have to agree with this it seems very much a guy in his 30's and forget any older than that and women think he needs to grew up and be a dad. Us post kids men are just not even worth thinking about.

Of course I have never been desirable so . .

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


MrB8848 75M
274 posts
3/11/2018 11:36 pm

Care to revisit this topic when you pass 55? I may need to resort to chemical assistance (in the form of Sildennafil Citrate), but I ain't dead, yet! The rule of thumb is no younger than half your age plus 7 years. I'll be turning 70 this summer, and my current significant other will hit 42, about 6 weeks later....


MrB8848 75M
274 posts
3/11/2018 11:39 pm

care to revisit this issue when you pass 55? I may need to resort to chemical assistance (in the form of blue pills), but I ain't dead, yet! The rule of thumb is that she needs to be at least half your age plus 7 years. I'll be turning 70 in August, and my current significant other will be 42 in September....


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
3/12/2018 5:26 am

Ah well, that's me fucked then........

People dinnae half talk a lot of generalistic shite at times eh??


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
3/12/2018 4:50 pm

Well crap. Maybe that explains why I can't seem to find a man that's 55...or older. Up to about 68. I'm not interested in the younger guys and certainly not under 50. I'm not sure why he thinks there's a threshold there. Everyone has their individual preferences and 55 is actually a bit young for me.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


dafocker44 64M
986 posts
3/13/2018 5:01 pm

I am vinegar!!! But on a different note, that black garment you are wearing only add to the desirability. You know, we all spend so much time wondering who desres us and who doesn't . Most of the time wemiss the one thats looking for us and always chase the ones that don't. We are feeling useless, wait. I make dinner for my 19 yr old son, so I have a purpose!!!!!

[I]Da Focker!!


redhotfun4you2 61F  
1596 posts
3/13/2018 7:01 pm

OHHHH NOOOOOO!!! I expire in 5 days


Classynails 66F
1675 posts
3/14/2018 8:32 am

All about where you fall into the age range. I personally prefer someone within about a 10 year age range of myself. After that I feel you don't have a lot in common other than sex.....of course if that is the ONLY thing you are interested in, then whatever trips your trigger.

Classy, Sassy, and a little Smart-Assy
Sine Metu
CN


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
3/15/2018 10:32 am

Some people get more desirable as they age and others don't. To me it seems it is much more a function of personality than of the body.
I find women over 50 more desirable than the younger ones.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
3/15/2018 11:51 am

i'm 68 and i still have sex and i don't have sex with men who aren't over 50 because they really don't want to have sex with a women who is 68 unless they 're nutz. so, men over 50, we are out there, and we're honry

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


Iwanaliku2 58M  
68 posts
3/20/2018 12:45 pm

Interesting blog... and some great responses... I agree that age is just a number and age gaps, like thigh gaps, are just a personal preference... Just depends on what you're looking for... I enjoyed reading...


DJG34 40M

3/20/2018 7:52 pm

age is just a number


KnightMan105 68M

3/21/2018 7:36 am

I don't believe thats true... older men appreciate sex more than younger and tend to give more to pleasuring then just taking pleasure


reamuu33 36M
4 posts
3/21/2018 9:15 am

It depend on a person..


kavemanrlz 61M
30 posts
3/21/2018 10:34 pm

well well maybe i have to rethink things

Cavemanrlz


kavemanrlz 61M
30 posts
3/21/2018 10:35 pm

well I think you should give it a try once you maybe change your thought

Cavemanrlz


Click4U 76M
34 posts
3/23/2018 5:26 am

Age is relative. Most of my encounters and relationships have been with women close to my age at the time. However, there were exceptions - one was 13 years younger, another was 16 years younger, another was 25 years younger, and one, more recent, was 45 years younger (she contacted me saying she liked older men. She was 22 yo and I was 67 yo).
Our faces age but a female body still looks good at all the ages I've seen them - even in their seventies.


ToughAsTeak 59M
13 posts
3/23/2018 1:13 pm

In the last 2 weeks...had a 32,29 and 26 years old,respectively.Age is What It is....Gentlemen,the best Game to have is.....No Game.
Just be Yourself and Stud your Confidence


hardbuns55 58M
475 posts
3/24/2018 2:49 am

Cumstache, i love ya babe, but i am 55 and i can fuck like i was 25. might not have the same spunk count, but i am as horny as ever


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
3/25/2018 7:37 am

if this is the case, then I have this year to live it up....I need to take advantage of my last year of desirability! Funny! Thanks, I had a nice chuckle this morning!

“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

Come and read my blog! Become a watcher!


veryfunnycple64


Owatal 71M

3/25/2018 1:34 pm

I am 65, but think the older the woman, the sexier and better. Her pleasure comes first. I love a woman's body that has the signs of a fun life and has earned every imperfection. Us older guyss take our time to please the woman!


Bamamale65 57M

3/26/2018 7:35 am

🌹💋🌹u give me hope 💋💋


Montrose332 60M

3/27/2018 1:22 pm

Hi Lala - compelling post as always. I wanted to offer a decent defense of considering a man in his 50's. I do know that each women chooses according to what her guidelines are. So against that backdrop, let's look at the 50's man more carefully.

Made all the mistakes already that younger are about to.
Should have the resources to carry out their interests.
Know that exercising is important. My profile pic was taken March 10th this year. You have to care about yourself to care about others.

Most important - you have experience treating people properly. That's the 50 plus guy.

Best,

David


stiffnotes 45M
19 posts
3/29/2018 5:39 am

i think it is what it is


JimmyB7474 59M

3/29/2018 9:20 am

Personally I still find myself enjoying the company of women ... some are even half my age and I can't complain one bit and ... if they do complain, it isn't to me. Desire is in the eye of the beholder. Jimmy B.

My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


lostboy4422 57M
24 posts
3/29/2018 11:00 am

I guess I should just go kill myself....it's all down hill from here


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