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Self Love - Self Care  

Naughtypursuit 56F  
1695 posts
2/6/2019 5:40 am
Self Love - Self Care


I some times deal in traumatic events. During and after those events we are required to attend counselling.

In my most recent event in speaking with a new in-training counsellor and his mentor he asked me what I do to engage in self -care. Having been at this a while and no longer feeling the need to hold back I told him that yes I do engage in self care I masturbate regularly during dealing with these events. It helps put things in perspective, it calms me and helps me sleep. I go on to say that when I have had a partner then I engage in frequent sex.

The two counsellors look at each other and I can see the counsellor in training is turning red and a bit flustered and unsure of what to say.

The mentor takes over and states that sex is one of the normal ways people deal with trauma and in certain circumstances is quite healthy. He then goes on to explain that self care is a little more involved...

Ooops...guess sex was on my mind.

Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
2/6/2019 5:40 am


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/6/2019 6:10 am

Congrats to you for feeling so comfortable and self-assured that you were able to be so honest. Bet your colleagues never expected you to be so revealing 😊


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:28 pm:
One of the blessings of getting older...

hogknot 57M
1059 posts
2/6/2019 6:12 am

Sex is a good way to deal with traumatic incidents. I will have to try that


mc_justmc 63M

2/6/2019 6:12 am

Wish I could have seen the looks on their faces, I'd bet it was priceless. I bet they both went home and "self-cared" themselves thinking about that!


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:29 pm:
I know I did

hrdallnght4u 67M

2/6/2019 6:15 am

I think sex is a good cure for many things...

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:29 pm:
I hear it cures the common cold.....

tinroofrusted59 64M

2/6/2019 6:21 am

lol, I can obviously see why when you had a partner why you would be involved in frequent sex to alleviate any stress! On a serious note, your point is very valid. If you look at any of the historic events that were traumatic, ie: missile crisis, wars.....there was always a spike in births 9 months and more afterwards....when we have traumatic events our primal instincts is to procreate so that our gene pool lives on. I think north korea is planning to nuke north bay, I will be there shortly


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:29 pm:
Meet me in the underground bunker...

txslowpoke 70M  
2557 posts
2/6/2019 6:25 am

wishing one day you would do some self care in texas... lol


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:30 pm:
I just might, I have had it with winter

MisterDingDong18 63M

2/6/2019 7:42 am

Funny, every time I see your pics, sex comes into mind.

Also funny, when she an I were chatting yesterday, another A F F er referred to masturbation as "self abuse".

She told me she was horny. I sjared that I was, too, and that I'd stroked off a big load just before.

That's when she wrote, "Sorry for your dtroking and self abuse>"

Maybe she wrote that tongue in cheek. I think she could have put her tongue to better use.


Naughtypursuit replies on 2/6/2019 1:31 pm:
besides her cheek?

boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
2/6/2019 8:13 am

POW! You blew their mind! Would have liked to seen the look on their faces!


ltrskr 75M

2/6/2019 8:53 am

    Quoting tinroofrusted59:
    lol, I can obviously see why when you had a partner why you would be involved in frequent sex to alleviate any stress! On a serious note, your point is very valid. If you look at any of the historic events that were traumatic, ie: missile crisis, wars.....there was always a spike in births 9 months and more afterwards....when we have traumatic events our primal instincts is to procreate so that our gene pool lives on. I think north korea is planning to nuke north bay, I will be there shortly
The end is near, Repent at my house.........!


mutualbenefit69 49M
201 posts
2/6/2019 9:24 am

i agree, masturbation and sex is used fro stress relief. I also find that orgasming before bed does help me sleep better


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/6/2019 10:26 am

Naughty, such a great read hun and you should of gotten a picture of his face. As I am sure it was priceless, and we all have to do self care when we face traumatic events that occur in our lives, well said hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
2/6/2019 11:47 am

LMAO Jo Honesty is the Best Policy, loved to have seen their faces

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Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
2/6/2019 2:02 pm

Oops is right... Lol 😁
So.. Inner monologue disappears for you as you get older? Kool.. Glad to know I'm not alone . 😊


McInToronto45454 52M

2/6/2019 4:34 pm

pent up frustration isnt healthy


drinksprite62 61M  
7927 posts
2/6/2019 5:41 pm

You are not wrong.
Good for you in being open and honest.


boobsman07 51M

2/7/2019 4:05 am

good for you


wantaplay8 70M
5606 posts
2/7/2019 4:08 am

LOL...got them,,,,one counselor is well adjusted the other needs some counseling. Well I do like your methods of pushing those difficult visions out of your head.
Sex can be a hobby...at least I think so.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/7/2019 11:43 am

Oops.....not quite a slip of the tongue, more so a slip of the finger......

I always knew there was more to you McSuit......ye're a wee bit special it seems!!


voyeur2017 61M  
1481 posts
2/7/2019 12:48 pm

That's why I visit this site often..... the need for self -care ~~~ ....happy to read you are well adjusted ~~


CumsDeep 61M
91 posts
2/10/2019 9:55 am

Ouch!!!....brb... gotta go masturbate


Evocules 55M
1288 posts
2/10/2019 8:09 pm

Self pleasure seems like acceptable self care to me! I console myself often!


rusty_nail 74M  
699 posts
2/11/2019 8:12 am

Sex is a good relaxer

I have also been known to watch the Chopped Food Network program while sipping Dewars to unwind. NO where near the relaxation that comes from masturbating --but it works some.


Forkixx 59M

2/11/2019 11:31 am

Funny...there’s two things we agree on.


SolarPowered0 117M
8346 posts
2/11/2019 8:55 pm



Naughty Girl...

I ALWAYS deal with everything via the ol' chicken choke-hold.

I just have a sneakin' suspicion that if you were placin' a choke-hold on that ol' chicken of mine... I' likely be a whole lot less stressed... and I wouldn't need 3 quarts of BBQ sauce to bring to a well-done golden brown.

Solar...



HoHowdy 62M
1279 posts
2/15/2019 4:37 pm

I have lived through being with two coworkers being killed on the job, so I have a similar view. I think sex would be a reassurance of life and being human, and would be darn good therapy.


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
2/24/2019 3:25 pm

Well if you are going to be a counselor you better be prepared. Good for you to be so very open honest.


DarkLoveFu 38M
29 posts
2/25/2019 11:13 am

Are you recommend a lot of sex to deal with my childhood trauma? Now I understand how I managed not to be bothered by everything back then...


Dtts43rt35 65M
15090 posts
2/28/2019 1:56 pm

What a good thing we can do and feel, sex is everything, thanks for sharing!


Rio flows in its bed and goes around with its waters!


penetrar37 46M
30 posts
2/28/2019 8:52 pm

it's so hard to follow posts in here


OldStiffOneEye01 50M
12 posts
3/2/2019 12:29 am

Good for you at being so open about your sexuality. I, too, normally can't sleep unless I self-care lol


Naughtypursuit replies on 3/2/2019 5:16 pm:
It's fantastic right

OlBlueEyz46 57M  
769 posts
3/2/2019 12:30 pm

well now ur sexy ass is going to be on my mind as I tend to some self care!

xo


DM_72 51M

3/11/2019 6:34 pm

Love how open and honest you are with yourself and your sexuality. At least the mentor stepped in and saved the blushing newbie


Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
3/28/2019 2:59 am

Wish I could have been a fly on the wall, spit our a mouth full of coffee laughing at this.


Naughtypursuit replies on 3/28/2019 4:32 am:
Lol Sorry...he was a little shy in the follow up meetings but he's all good now.

FRArapDF 39M

10/1/2019 9:30 am

adorei o artigo !!!


BEEFARAMA 48M
232 posts
1/16/2020 4:43 am

Whackin it is how I deal with all issues. So dont confront me in a wal mart unless you are wearing a rain suit.


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