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Here's What's Cool  

sexyldy1000 68F  
10139 posts
9/19/2018 10:01 pm
Here's What's Cool

* Saying 'Thank You'

* Apologizing when you know you are wrong

* Showing up on time

* Being nice to strangers

* Letting the person who seems rushed, cut in front of you

* Listening without interrupting

* Learning and using people's names

* Treating everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you — not
because they are nice, but because you are

* Tipping generously

* Knowing your limit and staying within it

* Giving freely – Go through your things and give freely to those in need

* Being empathetic – Really try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes

* Paying someone a compliment

* Being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness

* Holding Doors Open

* Smiling for no apparent reason

* Sharing your knowledge / expertise

* Avoiding gossip – No need to spread any negativity

* Reaching out to a person who has made a difference in your life

* Being open to other people's points of view

* Being kind to yourself – Make peace with your past mistakes

* Being a mentor

* Volunteering

* Following your dreams and encouraging others to follow theirs


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
9/19/2018 10:02 pm

What's your definition of being 'cool'?


Worthatry17 37M
1 post
9/19/2018 10:20 pm

Very cool


sexyldy1000 replies on 9/19/2018 10:31 pm:
Glad you liked it and stopped by to comment.

RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
9/19/2018 10:39 pm

Most of the things you list are just common decency. I don't think I've ever been "cool" before


sexyldy1000 replies on 9/19/2018 10:53 pm:
You are right they are. Thought it would be fun to put a different spin on them. No doubt you have been ‘cool’ for a long time.
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

mmguy52 71M  
2126 posts
9/20/2018 3:36 am

I think most of them are basic things that a person should do.


sexyldy1000 replies on 9/20/2018 3:41 am:
I agree. Thought it was a good reminder as it seems many have forgotten them.
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Paulxx001 66M
22642 posts
9/20/2018 4:13 am

Hmm Good tips and reminders on a few points there for me. How about you?


sexyldy1000 replies on 9/20/2018 4:27 am:
Thought they were a good general reminder for everyone
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/20/2018 4:57 am

I think we all need to be reminded of the little things in life that make it more enjoyable for ourselves and everyone around us.

Good list of places to start.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


sexyldy1000 replies on 9/20/2018 5:06 am:
Agreed which is why I posted this.
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Chuckk48 67M

9/20/2018 10:06 am

Being patient and not jumping to conclusions when somebody says something.


sexyldy1000 replies on 9/20/2018 12:44 pm:
Yes that’s important too.
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/20/2018 10:37 am

Great blog hun its always great to reminded of the things that we should doing each and every day, and most of all don't forget to give someone a hug as it sure makes them feel good and some really could use them. Happy Thursday..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


sexyldy1000 replies on 9/20/2018 12:54 pm:
Oh my gosh! How could I have forgotten hugs?
I LOVE giving and receiving them. And you are right, many people don’t get some if any.
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

marriedcretin 53M
1324 posts
9/23/2018 6:57 am

Showing up on time is my most annoying vice. You know what time to be there. It's not difficult. Be on time. In fact, be 5 minutes early. Gggrrrrrr!


sexyldy1000 replies on 9/23/2018 7:03 am:
Yep. I am the same way. I will be 20 minutes early, rather than 2 minutes late.
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

JimmyB7474 59M

9/26/2018 4:44 am

Funny thing. We all have a "lens" we are looking through when we see the world around us. A guy walks along and finds a dollar on the ground and says, Why can't this be a 20? Another guy walks along and finds a quarter on the ground, picks it up and comments on how lucky he is and walks off with a song in his heart. The difference? Attitude. We all have it. We all ignore how it "colors" our world. Want the power to change the world? Change your attitude. If we simply acknowledge the fact we are in a "bad" mood then we can flip the switch and the world becomes a "better" place not a "bitter" place. The power is yours if you choose to use it. Jimmy B.

My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


sexyldy1000 replies on 9/26/2018 5:26 am:
That’s a great perspective!
By the way....I posted a couple of stories in the Erotic Stories section. Part 3 will appear in the next day or so.
Thanks for stopping by and offering your point of view.

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