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Sexually Frustrated  

veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
8557 posts
2/17/2018 2:47 pm

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2/24/2018 7:49 am

Sexually Frustrated



Are you sexually frustrated? At times I am. It’s not my partner’s fault. It’s my inability to tell her what I really want. I am ashamed, afraid, too tired, not sure myself, or sometimes I am physically unable to keep an erection. It’s so easy to blame the other person one’s sexual frustrations. I think couples need to have an open and honest discussion regarding their sexual health. Most of the time, couples don’t take the time to express their sexual needs and wants. I know I don’t do it enough. I really want to tell her what I really want and need, but it changes. I like variety. It confuses her sometimes. Hell, I have to admit it confuses me too!

I don’t have a cookie cutter needs and wants. I want to have sex with a man. I want to suck cock and swallow his cum. I want to top and bottom. Other days, I want to be cuckolded. I want to watch my girlfriend get fucked by another man. I want her moan in ecstasy and shudder with pleasure. Other times, I want to dominate her. I want to tie her up and paddle, cane, tickle, make her cum dozens of times without a break. Sometimes, I love it when my girlfriend tops me and does CBT (cock and ball torture). I like to fist woman and stretch her wide open. I love anal sex. I have a FWB, who my girlfriend approves of, and I like doing lots of kinky things with her. But, I want another FWB, preferably a male.

My girlfriend knows of my desires, but at times she is worried about my enormous sexual needs. She does not have the same sexual appetites as me. She is a bottom in her thinking so she goes along with most of my kinks and desires. I love her for it. But, lately she has become really possessive of me. I know where this is coming from. Her self esteem has taken a hit due to her having some medical issues. She does not feel attractive or sexual. I think she feels like she is not good enough for me- maybe she thinks I will leave her. I try to ease her worries. I tell I love her. I cut back on my desires of being with others. I spend lots of quality time with her.

But, I still have my needs and wants. I am human. I am sexually frustrated. I own it. I will communicate this to my girlfriend. It’s not my girlfriend’s fault.

Are you sexually frustrated? What do you do about it?




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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
2/17/2018 2:51 pm

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Apollorising2057 63M

2/17/2018 4:01 pm

No!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
2/17/2018 5:04 pm

good for you....thanks for stopping by!

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
2/17/2018 8:28 pm

Keep telling her how you feel and you should be able to work out an agreement funny. Still might not be in your favour just an arrangement. Not everyone has the same sexual desires. Good luck hugs V

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1tongue4yall 64M
2205 posts
2/18/2018 5:13 am

i am very sexually frustrated. i was even when my wife was alive. she had no kinks or anything and really was not into anything kinky at all. i tried many times. she was very vanilla, very. i don't know what she would have thought about my need for a man. i am very anally oriented, i so love the feeling of something, especially a man, deep inside me. there is no other feeling like it.
so now being alone, I spend a lot of time with my toys doing the things i desire. i just with i had someone to share them all with. i am very kinky but can find no one else that is...maybe you? maybe in about a month?


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
2/18/2018 6:05 am

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Keep telling her how you feel and you should be able to work out an agreement funny. Still might not be in your favour just an arrangement. Not everyone has the same sexual desires. Good luck hugs V
I know this is a phase....if she doesn't want to play with others thenI still have my FWB to do my kinky stuff!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
2/18/2018 6:08 am

    Quoting 1tongue4yall:
    i am very sexually frustrated. i was even when my wife was alive. she had no kinks or anything and really was not into anything kinky at all. i tried many times. she was very vanilla, very. i don't know what she would have thought about my need for a man. i am very anally oriented, i so love the feeling of something, especially a man, deep inside me. there is no other feeling like it.
    so now being alone, I spend a lot of time with my toys doing the things i desire. i just with i had someone to share them all with. i am very kinky but can find no one else that is...maybe you? maybe in about a month?
I think in every relationship there will be time of sexual frustration!

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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
2/18/2018 8:17 am

I am very lucky. My Sex Buddy girl friend and I are Bi-Kinky!! We hook up with other Women & Men. Right now it's all good. I am an exhibitionists and I love sex, if we decide to break up, I will move on with others. I love the swinging lifestyle!!


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
2/18/2018 1:56 pm

    Quoting Leegs2012:
    I am very lucky. My Sex Buddy girl friend and I are Bi-Kinky!! We hook up with other Women & Men. Right now it's all good. I am an exhibitionists and I love sex, if we decide to break up, I will move on with others. I love the swinging lifestyle!!
I am too....so hopefully I'll be back! I am glad you are!

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citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
2/18/2018 3:48 pm

I guess I am at present by not involved in a relationship. It's more than just the sex that I miss being with a woman.
I've found myself going 'on cam' on occasions but It's not something I want to make a habit of doing.


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
2/18/2018 7:04 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I guess I am at present by not involved in a relationship. It's more than just the sex that I miss being with a woman.
    I've found myself going 'on cam' on occasions but It's not something I want to make a habit of doing.
yes...having relationship is human need. I hope you find one soon!

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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
2/19/2018 5:10 am

I have only been frustrated while deployed to remote locations, nothing could be done about it. I hope you hang in there, continue to communicate and be patient

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
2/19/2018 6:32 am

    Quoting  :

I think we will work it out....it has to do with her not feeling so well....health reasons!

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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
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2/19/2018 6:33 am

    Quoting pal334:
    I have only been frustrated while deployed to remote locations, nothing could be done about it. I hope you hang in there, continue to communicate and be patient
yes....communication and patience is a must! Thanks, Pal!

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BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
2/23/2018 12:11 pm

So true VF. Sigh ..... Life can be all about up's and downs, and it's not always easy to be on the same vibe. Best we can do when we find a partner is try to keep it - different, exciting, maybe even a bit mysterious?!

(Ps: Tried to comment on your latest Blog Post but just can't open it! This computer connection here - the pitts!)

..... And always 'hold onto all those sexy thoughts'!
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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
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2/24/2018 7:49 am

    Quoting BeccaLuvs:
    So true VF. Sigh ..... Life can be all about up's and downs, and it's not always easy to be on the same vibe. Best we can do when we find a partner is try to keep it - different, exciting, maybe even a bit mysterious?!

    (Ps: Tried to comment on your latest Blog Post but just can't open it! This computer connection here - the pitts!)
yes....we all have to communicate and listen! Thanks for stopping by!

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